Questions: Dating

If you ask a girl out on a date and she refuses for a long time and you keep insisting until finally she says yes, you take her to a restaurant but when it comes time to order, you order a cheesecake.

you invited her to a dinner date but you order a cheesecake? Does this mean something?

of course after he ordered a cheese cake I felt weird ordering an actual plate so I ordered a cheesecake as well lol. Wtf? I was kind of happy I didn’t order first that would have been too awkward.

p. s. I had never been on a first date ever so I don't know if people on first dates are scared to eat real food or if this has a different meaning like he insisted so much but wants to end the date as soon as it starts because cheesecake will be served almost instantly and finish it just as fast?

Link to convo for context: https://imgur.com/a/INr5ETI

We spoke for maybe 2 weeks back in December on Hinge, I thought it was fine until out of the blue his convo disappears & I assume he unmatched. Last week, I get a notification he liked my prompt & decided to match with him yesterday b/c I was curious to hear his stance, as to why he unmatched the first time around. Now he sends this message shortly after & seems like he deleted his account that first time. So if you “enjoyed” talking with me, why didn’t you take the initiative to keep the convo going outside of the app if you knew you were going to delete it? I remember him mentioning he wasn’t on social media & I wasn’t comfortable with sharing my #…still I feel like there could’ve been more effort if you actually care.