Polls: Dating

I don't believe anyone is a loser, and I hate that term. I am just wondering, why so many people judge older virgins. Its no ones fault, dating is just hard. It's not about me, its just like some people judge others, for the dumbest things in my opinion

This is a question specifically for girls, can you be attracted to a guy who is short for a man... and is just your height or maybe (+/- )1 Inch?

Hi!

We had our first date about three weeks ago. First date did go almost fully by the book "chemistry", although we didn't kiss. After the date she gladly wants to go out again, but as friends, BUT she admit she's open for more. So I guess she use "friend" as take things slow, but I'm not quite sure.

But I get mixed signals.

• She never initiates contact, even mostly a week of radiosilence. - Is this uninterested behavior or Hard to get?
• Always replies, and are engaging In her replies. Her replies goes from, in midday some hours later, coz of work. But in evening from 5min to within 1hour.
• She have recently stepped out (5months ago) from a 9 year relationship. - I guess this is why she put me "temporarily" as friends.
• She's vague about making plans. But always reschedule them if something "more important" comes up.

Is she playing mindgames or just not interested?

To me, it seems like that’s how its gonna be. Most women don’t want to date men who are at an older age and have no experience, so I get the feeling that guys in this situation are stuck in a catch-22 of going out on dates, only to be rejected every time once the woman finds out he has no experience. So basically dating really just an endless cycle of rejection for older inexperienced men.

I met this girl on dating app, we exchanged numbers and agreed to meet. I had to drive really far to meet her and park my car in a secure place so I spent money on fuel and parking. But she never showed up. I confirmed with her the night before and she said that she would reach there. The place is only 10m away from her house. Now I am really upset because I wasted my time and money to drive two hours, wait another hour and drive two hours back. Now the question is that should I ask her for the petrol and parking money?

I messaged later “Hey (name), hope you got home ok and thanks for a nice evening. 🙂” and she replied “Home safe and sound 👌🏻 Thanks to you too!”

So, I know how men feel about this kind of thing, but I wanted to know the women's perspective on this issue.

I recently had an argument with a woman I started seeing over something something pretty small. I don't want to go into what the argument was about, but please just accept that for the purposes of this question, the issue was small.

She blew up about the issue, demanded I apologize for whatever I'd said, told me that we would be done unless I said I was sorry. She said that people in love don't say the things I said, that I don't deserve a woman like her, and that she has dozens of men who are in love with her that could replace me if I don't "admit that [I am] wrong."

Mind you, this was coming from someone that I had known for a little less than a week.

Needless to say; "ProbablyClueless Incorporated" will be pursuing other candidates for the position of "lover" at this time.

I think most people would probably agree that ending that relationship is a good idea for a lot of reasons, but I was wondering specifically about what women think of other women who tell the men they're dating about how other men are interested.

What do you think when you hear a woman say something like that to her man?

So I’m about to turn 30 and I still live at home with my parents. I think its a given that most women would see that as a pretty big turn off and I’m sure most of you here would agree with me on that. But what if instead of living at his parents house, he lived in one of those spacious RV’s that looked like a tour bus where its pretty much like an apartment on wheels? Would that be any better or is that just as bad?

I’m asking because someone else who’s in the same situation as me, being 30 years old and not having much experience with dating or sex asked a question if that’s a red flag and the general consensus from women was that yes it is a red flag. But the question is, does that mean its over between her and that guy or does that mean it gave her some pause and she’s skeptical, but might stay with him?