When an alpha male invites a girl out for dinner date, does he pay or split the bill?

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I’m trying to become an alpha male and more masculine. I’m tired of getting walked over.

nastyb · Accepted Answer

i am dating an alpha male right now. he says that a "real man" will never let his woman pay for the meal. An alpha male feels passionately about providing and protecting. It comes naturally.

Not some beta males on GAG who claims that since women have the right to vote then he should never have to pay for a date... these aren't real men. These are just little boys pretending to be men.

chrissykerdock · Accepted Answer

to be honest the man always gets a blowjob after a dinner date... so yes he's going to pay for the dinner.

coachTanthony · Answer

If he's alpha then money shouldn't be an issue but there will always be guys who complain about money... ones who don't have any.

Datboi65 · Answer

Yes and no. Let me explain:

First and foremost, an "alpha male" is not just a masculine man, he is the apex of masculinity. This is why I don't like using the term often, because it depreciates the value of the word, but that's a bit off topic. When you think of an alpha, you think of the CEO of the company or the leader of a particular group. The same way in nature, the alpha is usually universally seen by the other group members as being the highest form of authority for that group. You may be masculine, but someone's assistant or right hand man, then you're not an alpha.

Now let's answer your question. A masculine man is chivalrous, so he does pay for the bill. However, a masculine man is also intelligent enough to not just take any random woman on a date without vetting her. A man who is masculine is not going to pay for the dinner if the woman in question is a feminist, because she directly contradicts his views and everything that he stands for. A man who is masculine shows reciprocity, meaning that he will reward behavior that he values, and he will not reward behavior that he dislikes. If a woman is not respectful to the waiters, is constantly on her phone or is being rude to you during the date, it's not your duty to pay for her meal because then you will be rewarding bad behavior, and that's not a masculine thing to do, no matter what anyone else tells you on here.

The woman that you pick should compliment your beliefs, and a lot of western women need to earn the chivalrous behavior back again by acting more traditionally. Think about it as a test. If she behaves well in the first date, you pay for the first date. If not, you split the bill and never see her again. Your time and finances should not be expected, they should be earned.

So to answer your question, yes masculine men do pay for the date fully, provided that the woman in question is a feminine woman.

lightbulb27 · Answer

Pay? He tells the lady whats for dinner, "fresh chickn on a skewer" with veggies. Then proceeds to catch a squirrel with bare hands, gut it with his teeth, skewer it, fry it on the fire, and pull some fresh veggies and a dandelion flower for accent.

now that's ALPHA... Women love alpha's... although there may be a reason they had to "whack em on the head" "back in the day"...

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ok... enough non sense. I have no idea... I just be my best most confident self. If it isn't good enough, move on. Give your heart and when someone worthy is in front of you, it should be reciprocated. If not, it was a low cost way to discard trouble out of your life. These women are doing you a favor by not screwing up your life for decades.

When you find a good one you will know it.

ohsheeT · Answer

It doesn't matter what type of mail You think You are if you ask a girl out you pay if you like a girl you pay if you're interested in the girl you pay to show her who and what you're all about don't become a cheapskate don't get caught up in society's b******* of being cheap
If you don't have enough money to take a girl out don't take her out

Because if you like her she's going to think to herself this guy can't even take care of himself how can you take care of me if we were to get together. bye

papiC21 · Answer

You're off to a bad start. First of all don't call yourself or anyone alpha males. in my opinion if you're inviting a girl out on a date you fully plan to pay for it, of course if you can obviously see you are being used then you can change that. Or just take the L, pay the bill, and don't talk to her afterward if you had a bad date.

Don't let your insecurities cause you to overcompensate, then you just come off as an asshole. Still be a nice guy, just don't be a pushover. If you need to feel more masculine just hit the gym. Work on your physical appearance and the mental aspects will follow, you would amazed how much better you will be received when you have the confidence to not have to try and prove yourself as an "alpha". Be a man, but be humble

Dan_cColt · Answer

First you need to drop this online thinking of "alpha, beta, etc" that sh*t is cringy and most people are just your average normal person. You can change yourself for the better without having to put a stupid internet label on it. If you are more traditional and want a more traditional girl then yeah pay for it, but if you don't want to and the girl isn't one of those "guys must pay for dates" kind of girl then split it, it's more common for guys to pay but we're evolving just like everything else. If you want to be more masculine look to more traditional senses of masculinity and not this redpill crap all over the internet. I'd also say if you want to feel more masculine build up your confidence, try to better things about yourself you might feel insecure about so you seem more happy to engage in the dating world.

Anonymous · Answer

She invites him over for a home cooked meal and extra curricular activities and he pays nothing. Dates are for Beta Bill to prove himself, warm her up or to give her a free meal while she looks for the alpha.

I remember back in the day, this guy I knew was helping a woman with renovations and trying to do favors so he could get to be with her romantically. He would carry her bags, pick her kids up from school and help with the shopping. This other guy she knew... she would drive to his place, pick him up, drive him to her place and spend time together. He did no favors for her...

provokeesmokee · Answer

Lmao, "alpha".

Going hard for omegaverse fetishes, eh? Well, you do you.

Don't forget to call people "breedable" if you're a real "alpha". 🤣

You're doomed so long as you believe something even the scientist who published has spent decades disproving. Lmao. "Alpha". 🤣

zeitgeist057 · Answer

Alpha males never pay for anything; their followers gladly pay all their bills, including food or other expenses while dating, if the server even has the nerve to charge them anything in the first place. /s

When an alpha male invites a girl out for dinner date, does he pay or split the bill?

Alpha males don't follow rules like "I pay" or "we split the bill".

Shamalien · Answer

alpha and beta philosophy is retarded, but me personally, if I invite a girl out, I’m paying. If she tries to throw me a bit of money to help cover the cost I will accept, but I’m telling the server to bring me the cheque. If she asks me out she can pay, and has

Anonymous · Answer

There is no such thing as alpha and beta males. It is all nonsense people have been brainwashed by, but people will get sucked in by anything these days.

Alli39 · Answer

The first thing you should do is worry less about the bill and more about the fact that you want to be referred to as an "alpha male".

BigWhiteWolf87 · Answer

@captain-obvious what's an "alpha man"?  Real leaders are obvious. They don't need to bray like a jackass.

Mallic00 · Answer

If a woman can't even muster up the ability to split the bill on something as simple as a dinner date then there's pretty much no difference between her and a child. Right down to the fact that having sex with her will likely land you in jail.

Women who expect the man to do everything for her are completely incompetent and can't do anything for themselves and are thus dead weight.

Does that make me less masculine? Fine. Masculinity is frankly overrated.

FreyaRed · Answer

Self proclaimed Alpha males are just jokers but generally person who invites another person has to pay. Personally I go even further, when I invite someone to dinner I cook

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

True alpha males don't self-identify as alpha males, so there's that. Secondly, and more to your point, whoever made the invite should pay. Since that's you...

Lionman95 · Answer

I would say an alpha pays because that way he shows to the woman he´s ready to take the iniative and responsibility and isn´t just talking about being strong and responsible.

LiamJHayden · Answer

1. Coffee type meetup to see if she is worth the effort.
2. When you go on a date, if you choose the place you should definitely be prepared to pay.

If you want to split the bill, make it clear before you go.

purplepoppy · Answer

Neither. At dessert an alpha lays his cards on the table and demands a blow job. Girls love that, honest.

Billlewis · Answer

Ideally, he knows that another guy has been trying to have intercourse with her, and he tells her to call him and have him pay for their date.

NamerOfStars · Answer

Neither- he tries to trick the researcher into giving him more food, because he's a captive wolf.

Vegasrunner · Answer

@captain-obvious Good question. You should pay the Bill, however if it's a first date it should he nothing more expensive than a cup of coffee. A true "Alpha" doesn't need to spend a lot of money to have a women attracted to him.

BigDog1989 · Answer

Men always pay the bill BUT

Women are not entitled, nor are men. Women, please at least reach for the bill. It shows that you do not expect him to pay. If he's a good guy, he'll always pay but, you are not entitled!

jshm2 · Answer

Whoever does the invite, pays the bill.  But a beta like you, wouldn't know that...

slatyb · Answer

I don't believe there is such a thing as an alpha male. When I invite a woman to dinner I plan to pay.

Sasha0426 · Answer

My god! Can we PLEASE stop with this alpha male bullshit? You’re not going to get anyone with this mindset 🙄

Juxtapose · Answer

The "alpha male" bullshit was debunked by the guy who came up with the very concept lol. It doesn't even exist in wolves which was the study species for that term.

DextroShade · Answer

It depends: if it's obvious that she isn't into you on the date or she is just on her phone for most of the date then asking for split checks is an alpha move.

Anonymous · Answer

Alpha males take turns paying on dates. And alpha men don't buy strangers drinks in bars. The alphas let the simps pay for the booze, and then move in for the kill, later.

Anonymous · Answer

Alpha male or not, the one who does the asking does the paying. I don't want someone inviting me to a ballgame, then wanting me to pay my own way when we get there. I could've invited my damn self if that was the case.

jeffend888 · Answer

If you call yourself an "alpha male", you're not an alpha male.

exitseven · Answer

The A-hole will split the bill and think it makes him an Alpha male.

Shy_Steve · Answer

Usually he still might pay, But there's about a 40% he won't so your better off dating a Guy on your level.

Korasones · Answer

If it's me I pay for it in the Begenning if we are still dating and I Invite then I pay for it, but if she invites she pays for it , if you earn trust in your Relationship then you talk about it..

Lokiion · Answer

Wtf is an Alpha male that title sounds goofy 😂

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

Alpha men dont pay for SHIT and second of all only simps pay

Chthou95 · Answer

He'll pay the first few times. But if he sees the woman just wants a free meal, toss that bitch to the side

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

If you want to drive girls away, nothing will do it faster than calling yourself an “alpha male.”

Anonymous · Answer

I am alpha male and I don't spend money on women not even a penny.

gothbxtch · Answer

no such thing as an alpha male

Jennz6 · Answer

He better pay

Freyke · Answer

He does what he wants to do.

MrHappy99 · Answer

If he's a gentleman ge pays the bill

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