Polls: Dating

Okay so I have a Facebook and we have group yard sale pages for my area and I was selling some clothes. One of the things I was selling was a cropped hoodie and a girl messaged me and it happened to be my ex’s new girlfriend. I don’t have a problem with her at all, but she wanted to buy it from me and she ended up telling me she couldn’t because her boyfriend said it was “too short” so she couldn’t buy it when it was her money she was using. She may not have realized that it was me that she was wanting to buy from. Although, this just irritates me so bad because to me that’s ridiculous & that’s why I dumped him because he tries to control other people. Would you let your boyfriend control what you wear or I guess buy in this scenario?

The pics I used are just examples of what someone I consider to have an average face but w a body a lot of guys would love (mia Khalifa) and someone who most consider to have a stunning face but just a normal body type (Aishwarya Rai)

This guy and I have been talking for 6 months and I asked him where our relationship was going. He messaged me back and said that he was busy at work and that he would message me later.. Well after about 3 days not hearing from him I blocked him because I felt like he was rejecting me.. Now, I miss him a lot and wondering if I should I reach out to let him know that I miss him and see if he feels the same?

What if they have a beautiful/handsome face?

What if they have a great personality?

I personally don't find almost anyone attractive. Men in other countries look better to me though... i just don't feel anything towards 99% of the men around. It may sounds shallow but i just can't force it. And even with a hot guy, I would need an emotional connection and trust to be physical. They usually start to look a bit more attractive after I start to like their personality, but I don't get to that point most of the time.

Also, is it more acceptable in cinema than in real life to you?

If not do you have any friends or family members who have? Assuming not on this app 😂 but you never know, I personally haven’t but have been messaged by some slightly famous people on apps, and have quite a few friends who have dated and hooked up with some famous people even though I never have myself, also one of my ex’s had a z-list famous girlfriend before me.

I grew up with four brother, I was the only girl 😢 My parents and brothers are very protective of me and always have been. Growing up I wasn’t allowed to hang out with certain people especially boys and those very few guy friends I did have we’re scared off.

I’m now 23 and have never been kissed or been on a date and part of the reason is because I’m terrified that my parents or brothers might do or say something. It gives me anxiety just thinking about it in my head.

I want to go on dates, I want to have my first kiss and more but I can’t exactly do it in secret because they literally watch everything I do. Sometimes I feel that they’ll be okay with me dating and being in a relationship but they’ll make a comment or do something that changes my mind.

Like today I was scrolling through TikTok in my room and my brother knocked on the door. I put the iPad down on the bed and opened the door. My brother saw the iPad and saw a guy on it and automatically started asking questions like “what are you doing “ and “who’s that”. Imagine if I was actually on FaceTime to a guy 🤦🏼‍♀️ It embarrassing.

Anyone else in similar situation and if so how are you coping? Advice welcome