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Not having much "game" (depending on how we define it), I think the more physically unattractive a guy is, the more important it is that he has "game." I mean, for me, game ALSO includes being at least halfway hygienic, being able to talk a little bit without being creepy (sadly, I think many guys get labelled as creepy if they aren't physically attractive), and having a decent job and some passion and ambition. If THIS is "game," then I have a lot of this. But for whatever reasons, it never really seems to work. I wish I was a lot better at the attraction part.
So I think "game" is having "cool" passion or interest or "A cool job." or "makes some money" or whatever. I can have a passion like crazy, but it means nothing if it's not considered "cool." I can be ambitious to want to be a CEO or lead designer of an animation company, but around here, that's no game.
No game, no (high value) pussy. Simple as that.
A girl who found you very attractive (physically) in the first sight may make the first move or make it super easy for you to make a move and get her but this doesn't work in majority of the cases because most of the women don't care about the looks (that much), but the personality of the man and game enhances your personality.
Game isn't manipulation, it is being a charming, witty and confident man and girls find those traits irresistible. The better game you have, the more high value women you'll attract (granted they're not gold diggos).
Hahahq tell that to short men. Looks matter to women. We are not blind
@hi_it_is_me123 such women are in minority. Yes, looks matter to an extent, but if you are average looking, you can attract 80% of the women if you have a strong personality.
Bullshit. I can prove it on tinder. Tinder is an example. There are also studies that tell women only think 20% of the male population is attractive and the rest is "ugly"
I mean personality is of course very important but a youn good looking does not have to do a shit. I know awkward handsome men getting gifts by women just because they are good looking
By the there is no a such a high valie pussy or dick
By the way**
No I think high quality women ignore games
@Cheesebread997 you're looking games as a bad thing. I'm not talking about mind games. I'm talking about the conversation flow.
I guess the answer to this question depends on how you define "game." To put it as simply as possible, the only thing that a man truly needs to attract me is for him to look good, be hygienic, and actually have the confidence to approach me. During his approach, if he shows that he actually has good social skills, isn't weird, and is kind, then I would consider dating him. If not being a weirdo, having good social skills, and looking and smelling good is considered "game" to you, then yes; game is very important. If that's not what you consider "game," then I need you to clarify so I can update my answer.
Depends on what you mean by "game". Everyone sees that very differently. To some its mind games and playing several people at the same time, in that case its a deal breaker if you HAVE game. To others its your confidence and ability to pick up girls, get them interested. Well I don't care how well he can do that, I see things in a very simple manner, people talk, sometimes they have chemistry, sometimes they like eachother sometimes they don't. A guy who is confident, feels good about himself, has a positive outlook will always have girls interested. Games are for kids or immature adults.
Yes I mentioned that too
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Men who act like they have game make women cringe. Men who come across as honest like ‘hey, I’m just enjoying my time here, join me if you want and let’s see where it goes’ are just so much more appealing. The kind of dudes who put on a show because they think it will woe or trick the female into liking them just come across as really pretentious. Like guys, are you aware that we know that you are just like us? You eat and you sleep and you shit and then eventually, you die. What are you trying to achieve by putting on this show? Not a fan.
I never understood this thing about a man having game, like I'm not attracted to PUAs. I can tell if a guy is a f*ckboy, womanizer, or wants a one-night stand. A man with no game to me is someone I can talk to easily and doesn't comment on my physical appearance, maybe like say I'm pretty once in a while, that's fine, but not like oh you're gorgeous, ugh I hate that type of flattery.
Not really, I just roll my eyes. Depends on the girl I guess, but I have high self-worth.
He doesn’t have to be super suave and an expert at romancing women but it does help if he’s charming and good at talking to people in general, not just women he wants to date. Occasionally it can be cute when a guy is a bit shy or awkward but usually it’s better to have some “game”.
I don’t know but probably not.
I mean having the ability to spit game definitely helps, but men have other traits that attract woman. Good looks. Money. A good sense of humor. If he’s really polite and sweet.
It helps, if I’m already physically attracted to him.
Every single man who ever lived has their own personal brand of "game". Some are just better than others.
Yes, a man does need strong game to compete in the sexual market place. Especially when he's young and the women he's competing for have an over inflated sense of sexual worth and a half dozen options without even trying. Including guys who are 5 years older than him with more money, better, more mature bodies, and more mature personalities.
If your game isn't in the top 20% of men, chance are, you'll be the kind of guy who meets a woman maybe once per year if that, and then screws that up.
And anyone who thinks "i don't need to play games" is deluding themselves. The fact of the matter is, attracting a partner requires you to present yourself in the best light. That is game, whether you call it that or not.
No games. I only like guys with nice & charming personality, smart, positive attitude, loyal, kind to everyone, honest, good understanding, keeps his word.
Nope. I'm not talking about any random guy who just comes from nowhere to ask me out. I'm talking about a pure friendship (with no intention of dating) slowly converting into love.
I hope that kind of love still exist. 😅
Men without game and men who are simply decent human beings who want to find a woman to love are of zero interest to the members of the female collective.
Such a man will be Friend Zoned, if the woman can see a use for him as a beta orbiter. If she cannot see a way for the 'nice guy' to serve her needs, he will be told to FOAD.
Women want the 'exciting' bad boys, who will treat them like crap and break their hearts.
They are drawn as moths to a flame. When that flame scorches with wings, the women say that all men are like that.
It is not all men, just the men who are chosen by women.
Game is everything.
Substance is irrelevant to women.
Being positive and forthcoming is an ideal that anybody can appreciate. But the human mind has an attraction to scarcity. Things or people that are difficult or mysterious to connect with creates an impression that their affection is higher value. We seek challenge but sometimes to our own detriment.
Bottom line is women are attracted to CHALLENGE. The second they know they “have” a guy he won’t last long considering he even got a chance to start.
Men are attracted to challenge too. But nowhere near the extent women are.
Women don't know what they want. We don't seriously.
Sorry but most women are attracted to a man who has game. That's why many below average men with game get beautiful girls. Confidence and charisma is very sexy to most girls. I personally can be attracted to a guy with no game because they seem more real
Man With No Games do stand chances but with only certain types of women.
While Man With Games on the other hand will stand chances with larger types of women.
Those women who said they prefer Man With No Games actually attracted to Man With Games as well.
in fact they will favour Man With Games without them realising it.
Funny how the guys say you need game & the women say no.
But then that's probably because most guys with "game" are just skirt chasers. Players. Fuckboys. They aren't worth much beyond a few easy screws (rarely worth consideration as a serious boyfriend or as spouse potential) & their behavior shows that clear as day.
Im not really sure what you mean by game but im assuming you mean the player fuck boy type who plays games and unlike popular belief most women have common sense and wouldn't expect a relationship with a man who plays games. It's pretty pointless to date someone like that
Lol okay, A "Fuck boy" is pretty much the same as calling a guy a creep or a slaze. I've always liked shy, reserved guys personally. Its actually more flattering and cute when guys get nervous and shy around girls. If a guy is flirtatious and smooth it makes me think he's probably tried the same act on a tone of other girls. Us women can smell desperation from a mile away and don't fall for sweet talk. If a guy seems to automatically start flirting and complimenting us it can come off quite creepy and we can see what their intentions are very quickly.
In my view a man doesn’t need to have a game to attract a woman. There are many ways to impress and attract a woman. I mean properly and actually impress a woman by speaking properly, respectfully and by being genuine in his actions.
A man needs to have a game to attract women is just a nonsensical concept.
A man with game sometimes seems fake and I don’t like that. I prefer men without game who are more down to earth and real
I don't know, what about if we are boyfriends and all the games ends
Well, there are exceptions but normally I saw that their lives become monotonous because both parts know that they have what they want (their partner) and in many cases this is the reason of many break up. Again, its not for all people but what I see is like that. And a second date maybe don't determine if a person don't usually "play a game" I think
If the girl already likes you, then you can put your foot in your mouth all day and it just won't matter. Because she already likes you. Being smooth helps obviously, but you can be clunky and have things workout
I like my men corny. Those spittin game will make me feel they’re trying to play me. Those who are super confident come off as cocky. So give me cute and corny with a side of a bit shy and nervous
I dont have game
I never had problem getting women because I am honest and I just talk to them and try and understand them
It's pretty easy tbh. Guys over think it. Just be friendly, be honest and be kind. Talk to them about interesting things ask them for opinions. Next thing you know two people are attracted to each other
Rest assured, guys, that not having game isn't a deal breaker.
Not having super polished social skills, charm and charisma is... normal. It's not a deal breaker for me.
I'm not sure what that means.
I'm just looking for a guy who is interesting, has some hobbies, has a passion for something.
A guy shouldn't have to really flirt too much or has to know what he is doing.
Women here are going to lie like they always do. As you suggested, if the guys is hot, women will ignore all of the crap they spew about how important personality, honesty, and a sense of humor are. Looks are all they care about... this is exactly why those men can cheat so freely... and "game"? If the hot guy has no game, they'd find it adorable.
It not easy to win a woman's heart without game but too much makes suspicious of a player, womanizer. Actor... or
Like swag? I think just a little bit. He needs to know how to approach woman, when it's the right time to approach and what to say. If you're awkward and come off creepy, then it's going to be turn off to a lot of women.
Too many girls here don't understand the phrase "have game". They think you mean play games with them.
Trust me, the guy has to have game, as you understand the term.
I prefer no game. My boyfriend has no game and I love that lol
I find it human.
To me, “game” means “arrogance”. I like humility.
Yes!!
@tauri97 That’s the “human” part I was talking about
@tauri97 Yeah it’s cute because it’s human when you fail
I personally dig that
A man with good looks does not have to anything. Looks matter
I have over 100 games in my Steam library and women ignore me.
And for the past 4 years I don't play games a lot and women ignore me still.
Therefore I choose "Game (s) or not - it won't make a difference".
Haha, I thank you for pointing that out :D
To complement what I said earlier - One key ingredient is meeting women in quantity or in the right places. Women are mysterious but one, who actually really likes you will make it obvious for you and won't bother with mind games. Yes, it IS a true rarity.
you need game and/or looks to get laid.
you need personality and charm to get a relationship.
If by game you mean some type of social skills and charisma then yes, but if you mean fakery and bullshit and no.
The trouble with, "having game" when meeting a woman and then a relationship, is you have to keep "having game" on because that's who she fell in love with. And keep "having game" can be so draining.
No I'd prefer a guy tht's just honest I dont like it when a guy plays games. I'm assuming men feel the same way about women.
Yes.
I can't date a guy who's game is too impressive, it's just an act.
Having a good amount of game helps get your foot in the door. Too much makes you a player. Does it ultimately matter? No. Cause someone out is there is going to love you for who you are.
Its not really about game tbh its more about confidence
No, he doesn't need game if he is exceptionally attractive, or meets a lot of regular girls in his daily life, or is lucky
For most women, he does. There are exceptions though.
I consider any guy who plays the game the same as a virgin. If you're playing a game it's that you're playing a game you're not serious if you need a game to attract you or it's a deal-breaker then that person is a waste of your time.
looool the denial women are heaping out due to pride xD
If "game" means what I thought, a. k. a mind games then a man without these games would absolutely get my attention.
Then what is game?
Yeah definitely... but you need to be genuine when she says she's into you.
I don't knw how to answer you cuz i don't understand what you meant by game?
Asking a girl if a guy needs game to attract her is a TERRIBLE way to learn ANYTHING useful about what attracts women.
Indeed! If you're trying to see how bad the advice is then this should be a smashing success!
Of course. Game is the ability to attract good quality women. You're not gonna succeed if you're socially awkward and can't hold a conversation.
Just look at all the famous men with women. If they can do it, so can the rest of the other men who are not them. Alpha/Beta, etc... nonsense. Men are men.
a Woman need to be a Woman first to attract the interest of Man.
It's a trick question, obviously.
You thought about The Game. So you lose.
Aw, fuck, now I thought about it, too. We all lose.
Everyone plays The Game. It's the first rule of The Game.
Funny thing is playing no games with women gets you nowhere
Ask me how I know
It reminds me that I feel my mindset and perspective on dating, relationships, attraction, seduction, has changed over the years
Just a little swag set doesn’t come across as creepy or weak
Men need game when they are young... Not so much when they are older
What does having game involve?
At does having game mean? *-*
I’m sure all women want a man with game, that wasn’t the question, the question is whether or not the guy with no game would ever get to the stage where you got to know him for who he really is and then fall in love or does his lack of game stop him from getting to that point because girls just dry up
This question make no sense cause you refuse to understand, I told you I don't like it when guys act weird (those who have "game" just sound to me like they're hypocrite playing a role, playing someone they aren't and "lie" to get with the girl).
So they're definitely unattractive to me.
And for me a guy just need to be physically attractive and have a good vibe. (like my impression at first glance).
Of COURSE women go for Chads with game-and then cry that they were played
f-boys
For definition google it or look in Urban Dictionary. And I’m 60 but when I post anon it lists as 45+
Bwahahaha I'm in Los Angeles
What the hell is game supposed to mean
But it can be overlooked
Just needs to have looks
Game? What is this, high school?
Sometimes
What is game?
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