Does a person have to have ‘game’ in order to attract you?

[Still-alive]

Yes definitely

Somewhat

A little bit

Nah they don’t need game to attract me. I’m either attracted or im not

[7Phoenix7]

Not really... “Game” might catch my attention at first, but it’s not what keeps me. I’m way more drawn to someone who feels genuine, a little effortless… like they’re just being themselves and not trying too hard.

[MrChinaski]

^ this ^

[queenofcardio]

Game is not required but having confidence is. I'm very attracted to confident men. They are assure of themselves which I find to be attractive.

[Still-alive]

I definitely got confidence. Just some days i feel less so than others depending on factors. Overall in confident in what i want and going for it though

[Still-alive]

Of course it might also depend on how others perceive me, but idc much if they don’t know me lol :p

[queenofcardio]

I completely understand

[MaddieXH]

I personally prefer a nerdy boy.
For me, I’m attracted to men who I can tell are nervous around me so I’m not attracted to guys having “game” at all. In fact I hate guys who try too hard with it. If a guy comes over all cocky and confident I’m immediately turned off but if they come over and I can tell it took a lot for them to do that I have way more respect

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

If she offers me a deer, I'm out.

If she offers me Seiken Densetsu 3, then I'm in.

Seriously, I have to look up the word 'game' for that context, loading...

have (got) game
slang

2. To be very skilled at initiating a conversation with someone with the aim of having a romantic or sexual encounter with them. Wow, you got his number? Dang, girl, you've got game!

...

Well, this kind of encounter is super rare lol, I will be embarrassed if I spot her trying that on me. Not the good type of embarrassment. So my answer is no. Having 'game' just makes interactions more difficult for me, feels restrictive.

[InknKink]

It's hard to play a game with someone who isn't even aware ones being played. Luckily for me, most women are clued in.

The number of times I've had male friends not pick up on clues though... makes me feel sorry for the laddies out there.

Cashiers, waiters, or sales associates flirting covertly with them only for me to tell him after they separate... "you know she was flirting with you right"... the look of disbelief washing over their faces... "she was just being polite and doing her job"...

Real face palm sort of moments I swear. Some people are just hopeless.

[IloveMacDemarco4]

Honestly, a little bit of game makes everything more fun. I don't like guys who send good night texts or are always close too early on. Don't get me wrong, I HATE men who don't have attitude or make me feel undesired. I guess you should just follow your intuition but be careful for not seeming desperate

[Little_Bumblebee]

Not really game, but social skills and feeling secure in themselves is much better to me.
Being genuine, I much prefer that.

[menina]

They don't. I'm either attracted or not.

If I'm not attracted, there's nothing they can do to make me change my mind.

I know this sounds harsh, but it's how it is for me.

[VioletHaze]

Naah I prefer the awkward genuine type. The one with unconventional charm.

[Dnice1]

If you mean game as in video games then yes it does attract me 😂

[Still-alive]

ohhh i got lots of those. so i think you'll fall for me easily then ;)

current count is: 4,414 physical and digital games. ;)

[Xawyx-2]

Nope, either I'm attracted or not.

But if she has a video game that I like, well, that gives her an advantage :P

[MissSunshine2]

No, game is usually an indicator of instability and cheating later on. I go for the nerds.