If a guy has no game, does it mean he's a nice guy?

[Shannon18]

So guy calls 2 hours after getting my number and asks me out. That's never happened but I thought it was sweet. I couldn't make it. He seemed disappointed.

I hate games so I liked how real and genuine he is. I'm really attracted to that. I've gone for jerks in past so a nice guy is what I'm after.

Why is it guys claim it means he has no game, just because he didn't leave me waiting and actually followed through after saying he would call.

Anyway I called to rearrange. We did and he didn't get back to me. I guess his friends had a word or he thought he was being too forward. He's left me hanging a bit unless something came up.

[stardust101]

Not necessarily. Maybe it was all too easy for him to get your number which is why he called right away. Just a hunch, not that I'm saying you're easy. It's clear that you are not into game playing and maybe he notices that? Then when he called to make plans, you weren't available so perhaps he thinks you're the one playing games and he isn't into games. Lol it can go both ways!

[Shannon18]

I know lol. No I'm not easy. I see what you mean. I gave my number so he assumed I'm free right away but I wasn't. :/ guess I will have to go see him in person and see whaats up

[stardust101]

OK :)

[3nzkiwi]

When I get a girls number and I say I'm going to call them. I do it right when I am free. 2 hours later or later that evening. Waiting is stupid. The reason I got her number is because i want to get to know her and hopefully go out with her on a date. Not play games. That's high school crap.

[Shannon18]

Thank you. I agree. You want to see them soon as. When he finished work he called. An when I prompt call he returns it quick. Its nice to know not all guys play about

[GoldCobra]

Guys aren't supposed to call too soon otherwise it comes off as weak and desperate. His friend probably told him that so he's making u wait a little. Honestly don't play the game. Just keep calling him and texting him until he responds he's not going to reject u.

[Shannon18]

I feel rejected :/

[NaturalBornFiller]

if he wants to spend any kind of genuine quality time with her... then he can get in contact!

[Shannon18]

Ok smarty pants!

[heavensgift2girls]

Nice guys don't normally go through enough girls to get good game, but a lack of game does not necessarily mean he is a nice guy.

[Shannon18]

Ok then. Very true he hasn't spoke to me since Thursday so not a nice guy

[looneymalooney]

Because he is genuine and doesn't give a crap about what others do or say. He has his own way of doing things and acts acordingly.
Yet his style in this case sounds like "player" to me. He needed someone THAT instant so he said he'll call, he did, he made plans you couldn't make it... he doesn't need it anymore, so rearranging was unimportant to him. As a result he left you hanging.
That's my honest opinion. Guys that rush things up like this guy, are after something. "hey let's meet tonight"...gets you drunk, you two go at his place, have drunk sex, then bye bye

Though i must say i don't care for "rules" and i've never heard anyone say i have no game. Yes i am a nice guy. Yet girls seem pretty intrigued by my behavior. If a girl would want to rearrange i would certainly not mind, nor leave her hanging. I would be understanding and make sure next time nothing gets in the way :).

[Shannon18]

We rearranged. He didn't bother to call. He wouldn't of got that anyway. Yeah he should of been more understanding. Don't know if he's a player. Can't give that label yet but some thing isn't right. He was all too keen. Then didn't follow through.

[looneymalooney]

You can call and re-rearrange. If he passes on it again, then it's safe to assume he is not interested in dating you. (and maybe just wanted THAT THING)

[Shannon18]

Tried calling and goes to voicemail, he probably has loads of sims and doesn't care to talk or explain why he didn't turn up and what's happening. Seems like he's a jerk :/ as haven't heard from him since thurs day in the day. Yeah if I get hold of him and he doesn't bother again. Clearly he doesn't care to date and he's just a guy who sleeps about.

[looneymalooney]

i guess it would be better if you forget about it and just leave it like that. The fact that you rearranged and he didn't bother AT ALL to explain himself why he left you hanging like that, is a clear sign you shouldn't be wasting your time with him.

[NoblesseOblige]

It just means he's a normal guy. Game is annoying for all involved.

[Shannon18]

Agreed I prefer normal. Who needs the headache lol

[NoblesseOblige]

Exactly. Game is very very frustrating for everyone involved. People who like you don't put you through hardship.

[Shannon18]

Exactly when there's no games it normally works out

[NoblesseOblige]

Well, I mean it still might not, but at least it's faster! :)

[Shannon18]

Yeah

[whitespider10]

I hate it when girl like you tend to play games with guys, he showed interest, you decided to brush it off now he finally decided to push you aside and focus on something else, you are now showing some interests...I think he did good leaving you hanging that way you will learn that we got things to do.

[Shannon18]

I didn't play games. I was babysitting fyi. How rude. I didn't brush off anything.

[Shannon18]

How mean are you. I had a commitment I made days before. And apologised and rearranged. If he's interested he would of made it. It was only 2 days after

[NaturalBornFiller]

she happen to have a fkn commitment at the time he "wanted her"... if he just wants a convenience, then he can hit up someone else.

[Shannon18]

No need for swearing lmao. An nicely put cheers

[whitespider10]

hahaha, you mad bro, no need for arguments lol if i offended you, my apology

[Shannon18]

No-one should be offended by anyone on here they have no significance in our lives lmao

[NaturalBornFiller]

2 hours is a bit soon unless he's itching.
The first 24 hours are key...if he's been thinking about you and would like to become friends. Game is all Ego...and Hormones.

Think of game as if it were sports... competition and the player wants to win!

[Shannon18]

I quite liked that he made effort. Guys these days think acting like a tool makes them desirable

[cajun]

it means he never fell hard..