Lmao, girls on Tinder get an inflated ego because 8+/10 guys will match with 5's just to get laid. When girls get matched with anyone they swipe on they can be picky, and they choose to only match with people out of their league. At that point it is bad for both sexes, because girls are only talking to the fuck boys, and guys struggle to connect with someone in their ball park. That's facts, and I ain't even ugly. But when an above average amount of matches for a guy is like 4-5 a day, and an ugly girl can match anyone she swipes on, you can't tell me Tinder is equally as hard for each.
True story by the way. I was getting about 4 matches a day, and I'm telling you, among the dozen or so people I knew with Tinder, that was on the high end.
But you people like thay filthx so why complain? Relationships are not about sex, physical looks, etc. You people made it that way. You people like that stuff. You people don't believe in God, believe in godly things, live life in righteousness anymore, have a desire to do things right. You live in the flesh. Your just a product on the market. So there you go. If you didn't want that, why be o It? You asked for it.
Maybe if you people never forsaken the social skills that you learn when you were toddlers up until your teenagehood, and did things God's way, you wouldn't be in this fix. It's about gratification. And you people enjoy that. Because everything else is too prudish, childish, and religious for you. If you live that lifestyle yourself then who are you to judge? You don't like how things are in your life how about changing it? It starts by changing what's in you. Change what's not correct about you and maybe you will attract the kind of person you want and need in your life. Appreciate the little things in life. And you'll be much happier.
I didn't finish reading what you wrote, and I do believe in God.
So if you believe in God why are you on Tinder which is influenced by our enemy? That means you have no business being on there in the first place.
I'm not going to debate with you. You can find good people on Tinder. My girlfriend is very Godly. If you're going to say "but there are also bad people on there," then let me remind you there are bad people everywhere, including this website you use...
I honestly don't think you get it. This is not about a debate. This is about the reality and the opinion and answer you want to debate with. The simple fact is it's not unfair to anybody. It's what you choose to make of it. So if you choose to find a girlfriend on Tinder and you got one on Tinder that is your business. You chose to use Tinder and do what you made of it. Hence why you got who you got. And if you're okay with that, again that's you. You pretty much proved the point of exactly what I said. So anything that you want to say afterwards it's completely irrelevant. You don't have to tell me there are bad people everywhere I am near 30 years old. I am not a child. I am just simply telling you if you want to do whatever it is that you want then you go do that. But don't have any hypocrisy and double standards here. The point of the matter is this is not for a pity party. If you use it and you get nothing out of it that's on you. If using and you get something out of it, and that's what you want congratulations. But if it's not what you wanted, then you should have thought about it. That goes for anybody. Anybody in their right mind would not be using those type of things. Unless of course they have no other option. Period.
@TwinrovaThe men on there just want to have sex with all of their swipes... It’s purely shallow. Whereas most women do not want that on there. I’m sure you’ve seen the “Don’t swipe if you just want to hook up” comment on many women’s profiles. Since men just want to have sex, they orient towards “quantity over quality” always have... Women want commitment, long term, etc. so, they’ll be more selective, because it’s riskier for them. Also, to be 100% honest, a woman will get with someone who is around the same level of attractiveness as her. It’s non existent for a man who is a model to be with a woman who is less than average, unless he just wants to use her for one night, which is hardly beneficial for the woman and greatly for the man. The woman looses a lot more falling for this “trap.”
@btbc92 i agree with your sentiment but i think it is unfair. I dont think you can fix it, i dont think its possible to be fair but that doesn't make it fair. Im not complaining or anything but to me fair vs unfair is basically asking if men and women are equal when it comes to dating apps and its pretty obvious to me that we are not equal and can't be equal just due to the differences of the sexes.As an average man on any dating app you will be lucky if you get a single girl to message you first or reply to a message you send on any given night. While average girls will end up with 20 guys to talk to at any given moment in time. That to me is the definition of unfair, just because you can't change it or fix it, in other words; it is what it is. That doesn't make it fair. But i agree with you that you get what you get and you know what it is before going in.
What everyone has to understand is that life overall isn't fair, and this is but a system. Dating apps is no more than a tool no different than what we use on this site. Everything about you saying is pretty much exactly why everything is unfair. You treat yourself as a product on the market instead of being a human being. Once you realize that you are a human being that is worthy to be loved then you won't worry about that kind of system that you trying to navigate in just to get a partner. I am over all with you would kiss it average, and I never once had men flocking over me over something like that in real life. What I realize has less to do with looks and more to do with who you are in the spirit. If you have a spirit that is not agreeable to people they're not going to like you no matter how attractive or ugly you look according to the world's standards. Other than not going to gravitate towards you for a certain reason. When I learned what it is and I stop getting into it that's when things started changing around. When you fully realize that you do have the power to make your own choices as opposed to other people trying to make some things your fate then you will begin to change not only physically but spiritually too. The problem why a lot of men are struggling is because a lot don't know their worth. They're basing their validation all on a woman. No different than a lot of women are basing their validation all on a man. When I stop basing my validation in society, that's when everything turned around.
It's not about getting a single girl to message you. It's simply what are you doing in that kind of environment in the first place. There are just some people who don't belong on dating apps and these are the ones that will get chewed out the most. Many don't even belong in the dating system. When I took myself out from the prospects of it because I was never in it in the first place, that's when everything changed. So if you want to be successful get out of the dating system. When you get out of the confinements of this world system, then you'll be able to navigate freely as you should.
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Sounds like your case all comes down to whether if they're that attracted to you or not. U can't blame it on the app.
@gaygod_19 How is that what you took away? Lol. The app obviously tempers how many matches you get. I didn't make that story up.
Then become a Rick and make something out of yourself.Or why would you. Love is a chemical reaction in the brain, that compels animals to breed anyway - which is very likely nature's sole purpose of having it in the first place in us animals.Or are you the Morty one :> ?
Most matchmaking apps use an elo system. Profiles with low elo scores dont even get shown to other people. That naturally puts men at a disadvantage since the entire premise of dating is that the guy tries to impress the girl. Girls don't really have to try to get matches, but 10 matches is a lot of a guy. Like a whole lot. Women typically swipe on the same few accounts, which gives the illusion that men have just as many matches as women. But thats a very small amount of men. The rest of us either swipe for nothing or straight up quit.
We're not more desperate, we're just more. Since women, even average, all go for the top tier men on the app, the rest of us have nothing left.
And y'all go after the super fake curvy girls..
Studies show the opposite. They also show that 78% of women there goes after the 20% of top tier guys. And that on average, they have 50% chance of getting a match, while we only have 2%.Truth is, most of you girls won't give us a chance, unless we have a fat wallet, and/or we're hot as a greek god.
Humanity lived without dating apps for s long time so I wouldn't trust them such an important issue as finding my SO
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Even the hottest guys cannot exceed 10 matches per day. It is just laughable to say that only ugly men get an unfair shake.
Why would you lie to yourself like that? I could not imagine being so ignorant.
Because I know several guys who have had tons of success with women irl and none of them do nearly as well on Tinder. I've never met anyone who has gotten anywhere near 10 matches a day. Also I saw 2 Tinder experiments done years ago on Reddit that showed that a guy in the 50th percentile on Tinder will get matched with an average of less than 1 person per day. Think about it: half the guys on Tinder cannot get a single match a day.
worst-online-dater.tumblr.com/.../tinder-experiments-ii-guys-unless-you-areFound it. See for yourself.
Spare me the crap. I do not care about Tinder I don’t know how the crap works. But I know hot guys don’t struggle on dating apps.
LOL. My buddy has dated 3 Insta models, and he would seldom match with girls in his league. I would get about 4-5 matches a day. You could be a 2/10 female and easily triple my matches. The disparity is just insane.
What I did just say? All you’re saying is literal crap.
Are you saying I am lying to you about my experience, and the experience of others that I know? Lmfao.
Yikes, imagine being so annoying.