When an ex keeps unblocking you, do you confront them?

[Anonymous]

He pretty much decided he was bored of our relationship and wanted out and blocked me off everything... He now has unblocked me off everything but hasn't said a word. I really want to confront him but I know I shouldn't 😔 would I loose all dignity doing this? haha

Yes messege him.

No... don't give in. Be a strong independent women. He is just snooping you.😂

Block him back. He deserves it.

Wait for him to messege you

Gurrrl whats wrong with you.

[Anonymous]

How do you know he has unblocked you? Like on Facebook, I might not know when I'm blocked/defriended until I try contacting someone or seeing someone's profile. Even then, I'm just like... "I've been blocked/unfriended... ok... That's weird." and move on.

Plus, it's social media. A lot of social media is silly. A lot of "normal" people IRL act completely bonkers on social media.

Now, you've wanted to "check-up" on him on occasion, I guess I sort of understand, to a point. Either because it wasn't a hard, nasty breakup, or it's been 20 years, or you have a kid together or something, I would understand "checking up" more often. But a clean breakup, where you don't have a lot of "unfinished business" or don't need to contact each other... it just feels like it's constantly reapplying a Band-aid and ripping it off after the cut has started to heal and has stopped hurting.

I just always go for the "no contact for a while" (that could be six months, could be a year, could be longer) rule. No checking up on Facebook, unfollow that twitter feed, whatever. That way, if something random pops up, you don't see him, and you're not reminded of him. They get a girlfriend before you get a boyfriend? If you don't know, you can't care. It doesn't make you stew if you don't know.

[Apope16]

DO NOT CONFRONT HIM. Just keep ignoring your ex. If it is meant to be and they truly want you then they will contact you. Trust me. Make them work for it.

[MissGeorgia]

No. Stop letting the actions of an ex affect you, and definitely don't let him know that he still does.

(Please can we drop the phrase "Strong, independent woman" ... it's so cringy. You can be your own person without having to declare to the world how much of one you are)

[Cynicaldreamer]

No ma'am! Don't waste your time or energy on that flaky twit. Just because he unblocked you, why can't you block him back?

Don't let that toxicity back in your life.

[ChocoBrownieMonster]

That's harsh, you don't know what she did that caused him to block her. Why do people always take the side of the one who cries first. I received 20 messages from a girl and I blocked her, then I unblocked and she had blocked me 😂 so I was trying to defend myself from being harassed and she goes and blocks me for what exactly? A guy will unblock when things are calm and he's healed himself. I believe you're giving bad advice as you don't know the full story, this girl is better off trying to move on from that and if she wants friendship to forget the past.

[coachTanthony]

---------Block him and move on. Out of sight out of mind.

Unless your still interested which this might be the case.

[ChocoBrownieMonster]

As he's unblocked you, you are welcome to contact him but DO NOT bring up the past, if you did bad just apologise and try to rebuild a friendship if you want to. Don't wait for him to do that if you are the reason why this all happened. Him unblocking means he's healed and has no issues with you but if you block him he'll know you still care 😂

[RobieMon]

Girl I did the same to my ex, I blocked him off everything, the reason I was tired, he treated me like trash, cheat, lie and took money from me, if I didn’t broke up with him before is because I was so in love, one day I just woke up, didn’t think twice and erased everything, I didn’t say bye or the reasons why, just block him. I’m in peace now.

[oualid22]

Look you seem you want to text him so just do it, and maybe you'll get some closure, I feel you still seem not so sure bout ur breakup so go talk to him , I'm sure he'll remind you what an asshole he is.. or.. something else on ly you'd know if you talked to him !

[SjE78]

just ignore them, chances are they are just being nosy, i would recommend blocking them while you have chance and just focusing on your own life as if he wants to be childish and nosy then that's his problem, move forward and dont look back

[MrTuxedo]

What kind of psycho's you fellas date? I've been in quite a lot of relationships since forever, and never have ever any of my exes blocked me on any social media... as the matter of fact, I'm still friends with some to this day..

[DizzyDesii]

How do u even know he keeps blocking/unblocking unless you constantly try to message him. Just block him and delete him. Be done with his toxic bipolar ass

[Flower7]

I feel like blocking him back would be the best choice.

[Daniela1982]

Just move on and don't dwell on the past as it will only hurt you.

[Katerina_Belle]

Noo don’t say anything.

Wait for him message to you and then say what you need to.

But you know what’ll hurt him even more is you show you don’t care, if he messages leave him on read

[emmily2396]

It's not your job to confront him if he started it or he is in the wrong and he knows it.

[DanaeAdam5]

Honestly I would block him back, fuck this asshole ✌👏👍

[justboredlol]

He's clearly way more bothered about you than you are (or SHOULD be) about him. If he wants to message you then he'll message you but don't message him. He doesn't deserve it

[pleasestopthis]

If you confront him you will make a fool of yourself. Just don't. Ignore him and keep going on with your life.

[Anonymous]

I'd say that he is probably toxic and you're better of without him. Block him and move on!
Be a strong independent woman!

[gaygod_19]

You’re only sabotaging yourself by giving him your attention

[douride2]

Don't waste your time. Just block & ignore him altogether.

[SwordShield]

For now, the best course of action would be the bigger person and just not care. Trust me, these minute details don't actually matter in the long run.

[wellendowedwonder]

I block my current girlfriend all the time because if I don't I won't get anything done. Because if I ask her to stop calling while I'm working she won't stop calling or texting

[Uptowngirl88]

Why are you watchibg what your ex is doing? You wouldn't know if you moved on like you should.