Polls: Dating

If the first date went well, how soon do you want the second date to be?

Everyone has their good and bad traits, but overall, do you consider yourself as a good catch in relationships?

Please Explain Why you thinks so. #Race #RacePreference #Dating

Race preference (definition) = When you tends to prefer a group of people from a geographical area more often in dating because of you tends to find them physically attractive more often. It doesn't mean you can't be attracted to other people and it's not the same as cultural preferences.

Example: A man preferring Scandinavian women because of they're often blonde and have blue eyes. A woman preferring Sub-saharan African men because of they're often tall, dark and muscular.

"incel" is a guy who can't get sex from women he finds acceptable (escorts don't count)

Women of course can't be "incels", because ALL can get laid on Tinder.

However, a "femcel" is a woman who can't find a RELATIONSHIP with a guy she finds acceptable, according to r/trufemcels (sic)

So it's not a question of ugliness per se, but of being too ugly to people you find acceptable yourself.

A guy at my job told me forklift operators are at the top of the food chain and women love and respect the profession. is this true? are forklift drivers a turn on? been considering getting my liscense

The question says it all why is it the opposite sex of the respective skin colour not considered attractive. Hell I even met a bisexual woman who is attracted to dark skinned men but when it comes to women she wants them pale. Even when they are undesirable pale men and dark skinned don't find each other attractive.
So the notion of opposites attracts only works on pale women and dark skinned women

Ok I know people can't control as to what or who they find attractive I'm not going to attack anyone who gives an honest opinion.

But if you feel the above question is true and can't be changed how can one overcome such situation and keep his/her confidence intact especially pale men (even when dark skin is considered unattractive on a woman , remember they are woman and woman have an easier time of finding a man )

So in the end do you agree
For men - darker the man the better looking he is

For women - paler the woman the better looking she is

Let's say there's a girl you like, but she used to be into bodybuilding. She stopped and doesn't have the muscle mass anymore, but you don't know if her bodybuilding career is completely over. She could start back up at any moment. Would you date her?

Left Photo ↔ Right Photo

You had a first date and it went very well. He/she looked like his/her pictures online. He/she was on time for the date. Both of you quickly relaxed and enjoyed the conversation. There were no awkward pauses and he/she actually appeared to know how to use their brain. You felt physically attracted to him/her and the prospect of a developing relationship feels rather exciting. At the end of the date, you kissed. . . on the lips; it wasn't a sloppy tonsil examination but it was passionate. You definitely want to see him/her again and you are happy to finally feel this way after a string of mediocre or bad first dates.

You watched him or her get in their car and drive away. Now what? Are you thinking about how many days to wait before you call him/her, or maybe text? When do you do that?

Under these circumstances, some very sane and rational people. . . (me) . . . would send a text as soon as I get home. No, I wouldn't say anything about "can't wait to see her nipples!" I might send a text that says, "I sincerely had a GREAT time tonight and I hope you felt the same way. I'd love to see you again soon, so I'll call tomorrow or Monday to talk and hopefully schedule another date. Sweet dreams!"

What do you think if you receive a text like this? Is it clingy or desperate? Is it too much, too soon? Or is it simply candid, transparent, and flattering?

When a date goes well, many people want it to end with a kiss. If there is no kiss, they walk away wondering if maybe you felt no chemistry with them, you just aren't attracted, and they expect to never again hear from you.

When a date goes well, many people DON'T want it to end with a kiss. If there is a kiss, they walk away wondering if maybe you are just looking for a casual encounter, maybe you're a player, and they expect to never again hear from you.

Does he/she want a kiss or not? How do you know? Sometimes it is obvious. She's been touching your arm frequently, wanting to hold hands, staring into your eyes. At the end of the date, she steps closer, tilts her head slightly to one side, and she seems ready for you to lock lips with her.

But it isn't always that obvious. You could ask, but sometimes that just seems more awkward than actually kissing her. At the end of a first date, do you want a kiss? Should your date ask permission first? Please comment and tell us what you do - if anything - to indicate that you are receptive to a kiss at the end of a first date.