The thought of having a man right now is like drinking milk sour lol, I don’t wanna do that right now to be honest. I just don’t really know when I’ll be happy or adapt to my new life
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It just depends what things you want to improve about yourself before you start your next relationship. Man be you feel that you're ready right now?5
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It depends about what you want improve about yourself10
Exercise, doing activities you enjoy,2
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First off, congratulations to you for choosing to work on yourself to be the best version of yourself that you can be.
As you are on your self-improvement journey, DO keep in mind that self-improvement truly never ends, so, do not let your goal of improving yourself stop you from seeking the relationships you desire or need under the notion that, " I'm still not ready" As you will never truly know you're ready until you put yourself out there again. Still, one indicator of knowing when you do, is if you can identify AND act on when someone is doing something that makes you feel uncomfortable ( this is the "identify" part) and speak up about it ( this is the "act on it"part ).
Working on yourself, to me, means taking the time to understand what most of ones triggers are, what their flaws are, what their strengths are, what one is passionate about, and the general direction one wants to take their life in and actively pursue it. The points I shared in my previous sentences regarding what I define as, "working on yourself" can also serve as a good starting point for you. As I feel, from there you will be able to build off of that foundation and ask yourself more in-depth questions for yourself to answer that pertain to you specifically in your life.
Wishing you the best on your self-improvement journey and do remember to take it one day at a time, dont shame yourself when you see yourself falling into bad habits again. But most importantly, don't use your "self-improvement journey " as a crutch to refrain from getting back out there, after a while that is, when it comes to cultivating platonic or romantic relationships that you may want to pursue. 🤗
Wow I really enjoyed on reading your answer, it hit every angle I had thought of before I had posted! Thank you so much!
My pleasure 😊