How did/do you work on yourself?

[Anonymous]

I feel like I’m getting farther away. From my friends, my boyfriend, my siblings, everyone. Everyone is getting ahead of me while I just stay behind. I feel alone. I can’t stand seeing myself in the mirror and in pictures. I feel like I’m a failure, I’m ugly, and I will never be good enough. I see women on social media that look so stunning and I compare them to myself. I feel ugly. I thought if I dressed nicely and fixed my hair nice, I’d feel “pretty”. I still walked shy and with little confidence at all on MY birthday. This always happens every year and it’s been happening for over 2 years.

How would you fix this if you were me? Where would you start?

[QuestionMark19]

Go through pain, so I don't care much about stuff anymore.

For example: Get rejected 20 times by girls, so that you feel numb for every rejection after it. Like... you're not emotionally invested in it, anymore.

[boggboss]

Come off social media as its clear u are normr mentally equipped to be on and only use it as a way to put yourself down

[FlyGirl95]

Being myself. Living MY life. Taking care of myself. And helping those around me for the joy it brings me.

[andy530]

I set personal goals, I try to find people I can talk to on a regular basis that I can be my authentic self with without judgment, and I try to help others because that helps me in return