I would say I think I'd be a very good wife but not sure about a good mother, I'm a responsible and caring person but I also have low pain tolerance, low stress tolerance and low muscle strength and a lot of physical things are involved in raising a child, like carrying a baby in your arms, staying up long hours to breast feed etc...
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I just went with the flow when I was single. Was always working on myself and try to whittle away at my flaws, but I figure if I met a woman who's accepting of my flaws, I don't have to fix all of them right away.
I never thought in absolute terms like that. It's all relative to the woman I'm talking to and possibly becoming interested in dating. She'll have flaws too. I'll have flaws. Do we know about them and accept them or not?
At least that's how I thought. I was very flawed still when I met my wife now of over 14 years. Didn't stop us from dating each other and ultimately marrying.
Both, depends on what my next partner wants and expects. I'm still working on my physical health but mentally I am fully ready. If she's fine with me still working on my health in the meantime I am ready for her to come in my life and be embraced by my love. If she expects me to be in good physical stamina she will have to hold on until I figure out the cure the doctors can't find.
Personally I feel I need to work on myself. Reflect before getting into a new relationship. I need time to heal think and move past everything. For me anyway I put my all into a relationship. I love so hard so I need that time to know that the next person is right for me. Sure have fun go on date but nothing serious and I make that perfectly clear to them
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I have worked on myself enough, yet I don't want to get into a new relationship because other people don't work on themselves enough.
Shit. I am being too sincere.Your reasoning is already wrong from the origin because life is a path, you have to construct it and work on yourself every moment of it. The moment it stops it means your individual sticks into a form and creates mental boundaries. So, to answer your question, If you care about the other part, the meaning of life is to work together and find someone to do it together.
I am ready but I donāt actually want one right now. Funny the first time in my life that Iāve actually felt content being alone. Something someone here told me recently kind of put my head in the right place.
I have work to do on myself. The way life is going, I have pretty much given up on finding someone. Occasionally the desire will pop up, but then I remind myself of how dating works in the modern day and quickly get over it.
i am Sleeping Beauty only true love can awakes me 😂😂😂😂 /jk yeah i am still not responsible enough and this has been my wuest since i was 11 years old. i am not even kiddinh
Sometimes I think I am ready but everyone tells me I need to work on myself more lol. So no point.
Sometimes I feel like there are some things that can't be fixed unless you are in a relationship.
Iāve been working on myself for 9 straight years sense my last relationshit. Iām so content being single I donāt plan on getting into a relationship at all.
I was always ready. Life is too short and life is for living.
Probably need to work on myselfā¦but I feel like life is working on yourselfā¦so Iāll never be at the point where Iām done working on myselfā¦
To be honest I don't know if Iām ever going to be ready thatās just me I don't know how anything is going to workout itās my fault tbh
I'd like to make enough money we don't have to stress about bills, do enough gym I can be pleasing to her, id like to have a place for the 2 of us to live.
I need to work on myself a lot lol but Iāve been abstinent for almost a year now and debating if I should change thatā¦. Feeling feral 🤣👌
Usually when women say they are "working on themselves" it's just womanese for "riding the cock carousel".
Working on one's self is a lifelong process. And yes, I am ready for a relationship.
Aim always ready for relationship
Even if i brokup this week next week aim in new relationshipI think that i'm done for real, unless a miracle happens!
No, I have a ways to go and may never have another relationship.
I hope soon I can find someone. But, honestly, Iām scared because I feel like Iām not good enough.
I'm ready, but most women are not. So here I'll likely stay.
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