I work at a gym as a junior fitness advisor. My boss is a real male chauvinist pig and makes all his female employees (myself included) have a strict dress code.
He demands that all female employees must wear either a thong or a gstring as underwear and we must wear skin tight leggings and a sports bra.
He says this is to increase the gym's sexual attractiveness which will help bring in more male clients to the gym.
If we disobey the dress code in anyway he says he would fire us on the spot. He's even joked in staff meetings before the female staff should be prostituting ourselves to the male clients after their workouts.
The picture is very similar to our dress code.
I'm curious to know what both genders think about this.
This is wrong and you should get out of there.
Seeing hot girls in skin tight leggings at the gym is a must.
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Anonymous
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Having a "sexy image" or "sexy branding," for a business is not illegal in and of itself. In your case, from a legal standpoint 1) you would need to prove that the uniform required was unreasonable given your workplace (i.e. you're a farmer, but are told to wear a sexy swimsuit as a uniform to work with the cattle). 2) that the uniform imposed an undue cost/burden on female employees vs that of male employees (i.e. the required uniform is $350 for women and the male required uniform is only $25). 3) that ONLY females are required to wear different or special uniforms that have nothing to do with the workplace or it's branding (men don't typically wear sports bras/tights, and their gym attire is usually tanks/shirts/shorts/pants so it's unreasonable for their requirement to be the same exact uniform here).
The uniform pictured is not an unreasonable request for a gym as several women who frequent gyms wear the same things. Your boss may be a chauvinist, but unless you can prove he has done something illegal, such as sexual harassment or the aforementioned, you have the choice to work there or not.
The way you said it? - NO way. And no gym with that policy would survive exposure here (socially) even if somehow they managed to stay open. Especially if they joked about it like that, it just show how little respect they have. Incredibly damaging.
However, there is also a balance to this. What I mean by that is, a clothing policy is fine within certain limits. It's reasonable to say it should be gymclothes, there should be some fair options to what type. And what is worn under is private and not to be regulated. And while the clothes on the picture isn't something overly exposing and it isn't something I'd be surprised to see at a gym by regular gym-goers, it shouldn't be forced.
It sounds to me like the bossguy is driving the gym like it's a stripclub. It's the wrong way yo go about it! He should be focused on finding competent coaches, dietitians, gymnasts and rolemodels for people to be inspired by. All those things are internal stats and traits. It doesn't hurt to be fit but it hurts to be superficial about it.
You should record one of those staff meetings. Saying that women staff members should be prostituting themselves is crossing the line. No boss should tell you what type of underwear you are aloud to wear. I'd find a new job and shove my foot up his ass so far that he can taste the rubber soles on the sneakers
Ok, two sides to this. Your boss is both absolutely right and absolutely wrong.
On one hand, he's right, "sex sells" is a tried and true well known concept. I'm not 100% sure it's legal for a dress code can dictate what type of underwear you wear, but a dress code is something an employer can require. They can fire you for not adhering to it. If your profile pic is of you, then you are a very attractive woman, and to be honest with you, at 19 you're probably well aware already; in this world, being attractive will get you all sorts of privileges with little to no effort that unattractive people don't get. Getting work will always be easy, in fact, your looks probably had a lot to do with you getting this job. Anytime you go to a restaurant, have a look at how attractive the staff is; it's not an accident or coincidence. Pretty people get hired because they are pleasant to look at, people like them more and feel more comfortable around them; hiring managers and customers alike. The physically unattractive people tend to work behind the scenes, at a desk somewhere, or maybe in the kitchen of the restaurant.
Your boss is absolutely wrong to treat the female staff disrespectfully. Suggesting prostitution is demeaning. I don't know what else has happened, but that's over the line. The dress code is borderline, and I could see it being tolerable if it was handled in a more ethical fashion and the female staff were behind it. This reminds me of the Hooter's chain of restaurants in the USA. It's based on the pun of "hooters" being a word for boobs, and also they have an owl as their mascot, which makes the sound of "hooting". They only hire female staff as servers; male staff can only work in the kitchen or as managers. The female staff uniform dress code is a revealing outfit the accents the boobs and body:
Hooter's servers are absolutely sexualized and encouraged to flirt with the mostly male customers as a way to get optimal tips. They no doubt experience a lot of inappropriate come ons or remarks. There have been a couple public cases of the (male) managers being very inappropriate and sexualizing or having sexual or demeaning interactions with their staff. That said, what woman would apply to a Hooter's not expecting and knowing that it's about her getting displayed as a sexually attractive object that is the main theme of the restaurant? A lot of women apply because they want to, because it makes them feel sexy and they want to make good money with the ego boost that they are making that money mostly based on their looks.
I don't know how helpful any of that is, but it's up to you. If you are not a good fit for this gym, then get out. If you think something illegal is going on, do some research, gather evidence, and expose them. This is a age where women are saying no to this sort of treatment and turning things around.
You know what, I would actually complain to the boss about the dress code. Girls in skin tight clothes are the last people I want to see in a gym. I come there to focus on myself and only. Leave my reason out of it. The girls are being subjected to something they do not want. And that too mildly or your choice of rating sexual in nature. That is completely unacceptable by me and certainly by my friends too. Our families respect women a lot, and my friends (not me) are quite influential in their native place. Such kind of behavior would definitely not be accepted.
And if the boss does not listen, then we would find out the authority for such gyms and complain to them. And if not them, then above them. Till we are heard.
In my first year, I went to those gyms where you get instructors. The instructors comprised of both male and female instructors, like in your gym I believe. The uniform was really appropriate. No sexualization, no anything of that nature.
In fact this did not even come to my mind, till I saw your question.
I do not know the law in your place, but the laws with women are really tough in India. If the boss gets reported in India... His life will get over, like this... Literal finish.
And I feel good about such laws, until girls start abusing them, which is a different matter altogether.
The answer is C: Many jobs have a dress code and for a specific reason.
In this day and age, it may seem inappropriate to sexualize employees to attract customers, but the entire commercial sector is based on that!
For example, how many ugly models do you see? You don't, because good-looking people are what normal people aspire too so when they see nice clothes or whatever the model is helping sell, people are more inclined to buy.
Another example: Hooters. Would Hooters be successful if the women dressed in business suits? Hooters would go out of business!
Another example: Lawyers or big business. These people all wear suits to look professional. Would you hire a lawyer or a stockbroker who looks like a hipster? Probably not because you'd expect them to not be as serious as these professions need to be.
========== So, bottom line: While I feel for you, I think you are stuck. That said, you can always ask the male employees were enticing clothing as well to attract more female customers to the gym.
I think it's wrong especially as he clearly tells you what underwear to wear and that he allows you only a sports bra. Calling him a pig clearly tells me that you don't like it. I don't know if it's legal but you should go if you're uncomfortable for your safety because the way you describe your boss he is using you girls as eye candy. Sure that will attract more male clients but it could also bring you in situations where you're presented in a humiliating way. Like in situations where you have to put away weights up or down in front of only men. Therefore I would consider quitting and look for another gym to work for.
But if you're a trainer at a gym you do need to understand that picking attractive trainers and having them show up looking as sexy as what is appropriate in a gym is part of the job.
The thong rule was too far. And so was joking about prostitution yourselves. You should be respected in a job like that. Trainers are educated and trusted with the wellbeing of others. It's not a dive bar in the city.
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Anonymous
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It would be interesting to know what the police think also.
Companies can have a dress code, if they do, they usually provide the uniforms also. And why are women working for him if he's like that? I mean, I get it's a job and you need money, but I say if you're uncomfortable (or any woman is), don't work there. Not worth it. Find another job. Yes guys aren't going to complain about the visual presentation, however guys are going there to work out. I'm guessing memberships aren't so great if he's relying on his female employees to bring in the public.
If he did not sexually harass you, you have no right to do anything. If you don't like the culture, you can leave the job. It is HIS business. You have no right to tell him how he should be making money. And keep in mind that if his business revenue declines, he might start thinking about laying some workers off. If his wallet shrinks, get ready for one of you to lose your jobs. Your salary comes from his ability to attract customers.
The guy is a dick, don't lower yourself to his level, you can do much better. Pretty sad that he has so little regard for his female employees, I'm all for looking sexy and attractive to men, but dictating what I wear as undergarments seems a bit over the line. The leggings and sports bra aren't totally out of line for a gym, but the underwear thing is just off the wall, I'm just surprised he has any female employees at all.
I wouldn't want my wife in that for reals. I bought an $899 weight cage and a bench just to avoid all that gym stuff. I mean as the guy I got sick of dealing with... how should I put this... being turned on? Wouldn't want my wife doing that as a job just to be real with you. It's just 90mins of my day and I'm just really glad I can just do it at home. I do what I want, wear boxers only if I want, and don't have any grunting rules... no wiping another man's sweat off a bench just to lift.
No way this type shi* must be stop. Voice Recording is against the law without the party consent. Unless you record it and send it to cooperate. It will get you fired for sure but if you place your quit notice before then give the reasons. Will be hard for them to fire you. Instead you quit due to sexual harassments.
100% wrong. Leave and don’t look back. That is not the purpose for a gym and it is certainly not a way to advertise for it. That is one of the worst men on earth and I pity you for having the displeasure of being forced to engage in his disturbing rules.
I think sincerely this is only mere female body exploitation. It’s not a part of your work and as a worker you have rights. It’s ok for boss asking for proper dress code for employees but that’s nearby to prostitution and enticement, so it should be illegal. Your right, as a worker, to the decency and dignity should not be sacrificed in the name of business.
Wow. At my workplace my employer made everyone take a mandatory sexual harassment education course so that everyone knows how to spot and report sexual harassment. What’s going on there at your workplace sounds like blatant sexual harassment to me. That’s not cool.
Definitely wrong the second underwear is involved, what? That's rudely inappropriate. The rest (leggings and tops) is fine if it was just a dress code, but because he gives you those reasons you can be sure he's just pretty disgusting. Nope out as soon as you can and maybe file a complaint
It’s very wrong but you are not a slave to that job either. You can make a choice to stay or leave.
But if what you are saying is true then he is not going to get away with this for long. I could see him AT LEAST getting fined from the city or maybe even a class action lawsuit.
I would never want to work out in a place like that. I am pretty serious about fitness and hate gym that are just dating bars with dumbbells. There is a chain of coffee shops where I live and they have the girls dress in shortshorts and tight t-shirts. My niece applied for a job there and she decided against it because they were all dressed up like hookers.
If you don't want to work there, you don't have to. Don't know if it's legal or not, but what i do know is how you present yourself and your company as a worker is part of the job description in pretty much every job that involves customers. Whether it's women wearing makeup and showing off their body shape, or men being clean shaven and in a uncomfortable suit, dress codes are dress codes. If you don't like it, get a different job that doesn't involve dealing with customers.
Probably you should consult a lawyer. It is hard to say. The prostitution comment definitely went to far. As for the dress code, in certain businesses bosses no doubt have the right to regulate attire (like the fashion industry) I am not sure if the gym is one of those places.
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Anonymous
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It might be legal to sexualize people for work in some places but regulations underwear as a gym boss is completely unacceptable and I think it constitutes harassment.
This guy sounds like a terrible boss anyways and I think you should quit. Luckily in your line of work there are hundreds of different gyms all of them desperate for employees. Any boss would be better than the one you have now.
If its related to your job duties then yes. But there is a fine line been job related and harressment. Making you wear skin tight clothes as part of company image for marketing is probably ok. But telling you what underwear to wear is too much. Usually there will be general guidelines of do’s and donts like wear attractive athletic wear to look part, or in a office wear business casual attire. But asking a tilted kilts girl wear the skimpy outfit with makeup is part of the company image/theme.
At least the boss is straightforward about it. Whatever it's called in English - "job inspection" - these are the people to turn to. I'm not sure if the equivalent of this institution exists in the US, though. Technically, you are not sex workers, but sports instructors.
I'm not sure of the legality as hooters, twin peaks, strip clubs, etc all require a skimpy dress code so there must be some sort of loophole. I'd quit if you don't feel comfortable. The dude sounds like a slimebag and he'll get his comeuppance sooner or later.
There’s something to be said about the gym having for employees so it looks like it’s working. But to speak to you guys like that…is there HR there? The prostitution joke and demanding types of underwear is h believable
This is the luxury of owning a company, you can do whatever you like with the dresscode. If you don't like the rules then leave and search for another job that fits you better.
Surely you don't see the risk and the struggles people would actually face to start a company. If I asked you to start your own company, majority of the time I'll hear excuses
Yes you can decide for all the investments for all your assets, taxes you pay for the government, business liabilities and all the responsibilities you have, that's the price for all those risk they took. If you say it's unfair then try only accompany yourself and see how long you would last
You are totally overlooking my point 🙃 I'm just talking about dress code my guy. At one company it was a black dress blouse and at the other one a white t shirt. I have no clue what you are trying to prove to me.
That's because everything has reasons. It just proved how much you like to jump to conclusions without even analyzing the situation. Also what are you trying to prove by saying company owners are luxurious? To just rant and try to bring people down for something they deserved?
No the luxury is that you can make up the dress code. If you want the girls to wear bikinis behind the bar I think you can. Like bikini baristas have to wear bikinis. That's the whole concept. And that is the luxury you have as the boss.
Which is a right they earned. It's not even close to luxury because that still comes with responsibilities workers don't have. It's not even that easy. What else? They get bashed by SJWs by setting rules like that and they have to defend it. What's so luxurious about that? It just sound like if i say, those who just work have the luxury of not having to worry about those CEO stuff despite earning less.
I don’t agree that this should be the case. Enforcing that as work practices is wrong and sexist. Does he enforce such policies with male staff to bring in female clients? If the female employee chooses to dress in such a manner, that’s different, as ling as it didn’t breach policy. This amounts to sexual harassment and workplace bullying.
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Anonymous
(30-35)
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That is incredibly disrespectful. You should be there because you can help clients (male and female) achieve fitness results, not to be eye candy. Y'all should report his ass as he is discriminating against you in a work capacity for your sex.
My personal trainers are both women and I do not expect them to dress any kind of way. I hired them because they has proven they can get results for their clients.
It’s pretty much the same thing as hooters and those other restaurants where it’s only hot women who are servers plus at a gym it would make sense to wear that anyway
What😭 where tf did onlyfans come up. She said she has to wear stuff like that to bring in more guys which is exactly the same thing as what hooters does. What are you even talking about😭😭
Some people think because I have an OnlyFans page that I shouldn't be complaining about my boss. But posting some raunchy pictures on a page which I have control of how far I want to go is completely different to being over sexualised and pimped off by your boss so he can make money.
@ItsAimee You do realize that you have the freedom to walk away and say no at any moment, right? You're not obligated to do as he says. You can quit. So if you know that this is wrong and illegal, why are you still there? And why are some of your colleagues willingly allowing him to pimp them out?
Hooters do have written contract and dress code. Can't be sued.
The gym can be sued if they don't have a written contract dress code. She can get fired due to outside the dress code policy. Not fired from verbal dress code.
I mean almost every job has a uniform. If he thinks that's how their employees should dress for work it should be part of the rules of the company but the way he's addressing the situation is really disgusting.
My advice is to stop allowing the big business known as liberal politics to run your life. The actual business you work for is your boss's. As long as the men also have a dress code, then you are not being discriminated against.
I take a look at your profile picture and notice you sexualize yourself. Clearly this does not mean you have abjections to your sexualization, it’s the fact someone is profiting off your sexualization besides you that bothers you.
I was going to say similar, that it sounds totally illegal, but I cannot be sure of the laws there. Sounds like this guy deserves you to run up and boot him straight in his balls, and then for you to get right out of there 😤 I’m sure you can find a more professional boss to work for.
@NobodyXox for blocking me, I'll just say it right here. Trying to run away by calling someone stupid just doesn't prove you anything. I can just say you're a moron at this point if everything is stupid for you.
That's about what a wrestler for women would wear. nothing too bad. however, it's wrong to tell a woman these things. i can't believe hr is letting him get away with it (if they know about it of course, if they don't, you really ought to tell them)
I would say that it is illegal, but he would probably say that it is the dress code or “uniform “ to work there. He is only looking at his bottom line and his profits. The prostitution comment was way over the line.
I mean he’s the boss. Many jobs have dress code. If you’re uncomfortable with it, most gyms don’t do this, so find another. If you’re very attractive and that’s why he hired you, ask for a raise. After all, you’re bringing the clients in right?
This might or might not be illegal but it doesn't matter since even if it is you don't want to be in that messy fight. Get another job and then quit this one.
There are "millions" (no literal pun intended) of other countries in the world that aren't harbored with selfishness and delusions, and not a single Anglo-Saxon country is on that list. This whole CULTure prioritizes crap like Hooters and Victoria's Secret, and even use God's name to promote these satanic cults. In Africa and Eastern Europe, women's lifestyle is modest, but still reasonably feminist. Even Christianity in those countries is not as radical as in America, especially in the South.
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