Why does work make me so depressed?

[Anonymous]

There were times in life where 40hrs didn't feel like a lot, in fact I'd work 70hr weeks with two jobs.

But now it makes me so depressed, that all I can think of is ending everything. I'll work a basic job that pays pretty good; and I'll feel like it's physically killing me.

I finally opened up to my husband about this, and he's letting me put in my two weeks. I miss being home, cleaning and making meals everyday. Work has taken all my energy to do anything that makes me feel fullfilled. I just want to understand why work suddenly has this affect on me where every day is miserable.

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, I totally get what you're feeling. Work can seriously drain the life out of you sometimes. A few things might be going on:

- Burnout is real. Even if the work itself isn't that hard, doing it day in and day out for long shifts takes a massive toll on your mental health and energy levels. Your body is telling you it needs a break.

- Priorities have changed. It sounds like you've found more fulfillment at home lately with your husband and in daily life stuff. So the job probably isn't as rewarding or meaningful to you now.

- Depression can sneak up on you. Maybe it's more than just the work - have you been feeling down or struggling with motivation in other areas too? Might be time for some self-care and therapy.

I'm glad your hubby is supportive of you leaving. Taking that breather will do you good. And don't feel like a failure - it's so normal for what we want out of life and work to shift over time. Be kind to yourself as you settle into this transition. You'll figure out your next steps when you're feeling more like yourself again. Just remember - your worth isn't defined by a job title!

[Anonymous]

Find a better job

[Asker]

I was just hired just as I applied to one today 💀 God is too kind to me.

[Opinion Owner]

Why the death head

[jahaims]

It's not natural