A classmate just told me about my 20-year class reunion next month? Should I go?

[Anonymous]

I know for a fact I won't have anything to talk about cause most of them are married. I always felt like an outcast when I was in school sure I only had school friends. I only had 7 friends at the most. I never hung out with anyone after school or they didn't invite me to hang out with them.

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah man, a high school reunion huh? That does sound kinda lame honestly. I can understand why you wouldn't be too hyped about it.

If most people will just be talking about their families and marriages and stuff, you probably won't relate to a lot of the conversations either. And it'd probably be awkward as hell if you felt like an outcast back in school.

On the other hand, it could be kinda cool to see how some people turned out too I guess. Maybe catch up with the few friends you did have. And who knows, maybe you'll surprise yourself and talk to more people now that you're all older.

I'd say maybe go for like an hour or two just to check it out. That way you can dip out early if it's boring or you're not feeling it. But at least you can say you went, ya know? No harm in making a quick appearance I don't think.

If after a little while it really is lame though, it's no big deal to bail. No need to force yourself to stay at something lame. Might as well give it a chance first though before totally ruling it out. Let me know if you do end up going!

[Taniisokay]

I would go if I was you. If you don't want to then don't go.

[jahaims]

Reunions are for losers