Is it good or bad to find love in college or university?

[Anonymous]

Some people want to focus on their dreams. To become what they want to be through college or university. They don't want distractions or is afraid that love come in between the relationship and their dreams. Is it bad to find love in college or university even though it'll might affect your future? Is it worth it?

[SweetJoyGirl]

It isn’t bad. In fact, I encourage it, but it is very important not to let get in the way of your studies.

Personally, I would have found love on campus, if I hadn’t been in a relationship that lasted through my college years. I had guys interested in me. I remember one guy and I had amazinggggg chemistry. I mean super good chemistry! I am a deep feeler and he was also a deep feeler. When my boyfriend at the time and I broke up, I ran into the guy again. We went out a few times, but the break was still very fresh. We stopped talking for a bit, and then started talking again later on. By then I was deeper in my faith with Christ and he wasn’t Christian. We had met a year earlier when I was still wearing fishnet tights and mini skirts. I was very lukewarm at the time. lol 😂

He kept telling me we would balance it out and make it work like his grandparents (his grandmother is Christian and his grandfather isn’t). Due to my biblical beliefs, I knew I couldn’t. Anyways, eventually did try to give him a try and that was when a family emergency happened for him. It changed everything. He was grieving and I felt sorry for him. I wasn’t sure why it affected what we had going, but it did. Tbh, I think it was God’s way of putting me back in check. Even after that again I tried, but it didn’t feel the same. I knew God didn’t want us together. I also think that perhaps two deep feelers together is not exactly the best. We get hit with things pretty hard, which can affect another deep feeler badly.

Either way, I would say that college is where you can meet like minded intellectual individuals. People you can really truly connect with more than you can imagine. 😊

[Nikki1989]

Life is short. Find love where and whenever you can.

[Asker]

But, what if love comes between your dreams and your lover in college or university?

[jeremy_09]

It's the last place you'll be where there are so many people to have sex with, people out in the world complain that they can never find anyone but in college they're everywhere and usually up for sex a lot.

[DrPepper12]

I say BAD. I always told my HS seniors that college is for finding your bridesmaids / groomsman, not your fiance!! Many have told me that those were wise words.

[ICanSmellTheCosmos]

That *used* to be the best place to find someone, but most folks at university nowadays are too focused on education or only want to hookup / experiment.

[thearchjoker]

neither each situation is unique