That others opinions truly do not matter (outside the workplace that is).
Recently my boyfriend and I discussed going out for dinner after work. He said he wasn't presentable enough (he was wearing jeans and a tshirt). We were going to a place like Earls. Its not 'fancy' but he felt uncomfortable. I asked him why, and he said that it was because he doesn't know whos going to be there and see him (work colleagues, etc.). I told him that if they judge him for wearing something appropriate, then thats on them. He also dresses up to go grocery shopping. I think that if people judge you on what you do on your personal time, then thats a 'them' issue. He judges me for not caring haha
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2 moI realized it’s important to keep secrets while being honest. A Harvard psychologist said, you should never lie, but you should always withhold information. What I mean is, if I am ashamed about my income, I will choose to avoid discussing my income, but I will not post a fake number on social media to trick people.
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The vast majority of people are good, very good. But the few percent of people that are bad are truly bad, very bad. I met most of those bad types of people in business. Liars, cheats, backstabbers and more. Anything for a dollar. These were smart people but untalented in real business generally. I think our government is loaded with these types as well. I also think much of the division in our country is caused by these types of people as well for their own personal gain.
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2 moAs I got older I realized how similar we all really are
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2 moIt's very important to tell people that you love them. We never know what people are actually going through and love can a make difference.
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2 moI realized I was afraid of getting older 'cuz I don't want to end up a crazy old cat lady or something.
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u 2 moAs I got older, I realized that I was getting older!
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m 2 moAs I got older, I realized that, instead of flying cars we anticipated, we got Google, Amazon, Facebook, Apple and Microsoft. I feel robbed. But at least we got memes.
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... anything can happen.
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2 moThat loss comes in many forms.
Loss of loved ones...
A band you listened to might not be active anymore...
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2 moAs I got older, I realized stretching my nutsack out and shining a flashlight through it was a cool party trick. I call it the 'bat wing.'
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2 moAs we age, our change in perspective shifts our perception of time and it seems to pass faster and faster.
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2 mo... the world is a Battle Royale of epic proportions.
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00 Reply320 opinions shared on Education & Career topic. Less things matter compared to the ones that do matter.
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m 2 moI don't have to fight every war. Enjoying just peace and quiet is valuable.
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2 moas I got older, I realized that being low-key saves you from a lot of conflict.
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Also in the end, you are always by yourself.
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2 moAs I got older, I realized that eighteen isn't particularly old.
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Anonymous(30-35)2 moThere is a lot I don't know. Life is different from movies (e. g. good guy doesn't always win) and bad guy may see them as the good guy. Things aren't so black and white. Not everyone has empathy. World seemingly runs on lies.
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Opinion Owner2 mo*see themselves
Opinion Owner2 moAlso, I should have put good and bad in quotes
Opinion Owner2 moPeople can be in abusive relationships/situations but not realize it because that is their "normal".
2 moYou will get the same ailments as your father. It's genetic.
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2 moI realized that the things women are attracted to were acquired as i got older.
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2 moHow much in life I was wrong about, and how much I was right about and didn't act.
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2 moFAT BROADS SHOULD BE LEFT TO DATE FAT DUDES !!!
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2 moAs I got got older I realized the world is a cruel place
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Anonymous(45 Plus)2 moThat the meaning of life is there is no meaning.
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2 moTime is truly like money. Spend it wisely.
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2 moI'd like to have kids after all
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Anonymous(30-35)2 moIt's pretty mundane 🫠🫣👀 the calendar 🗓️
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2 moI really am intolerate if stupid people
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Anonymous(36-45)2 moThat my current life is still crappy.
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