How can I stop coworkers saying my promotion was for being sexual?

[Anonymous]

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Go to HR and file complaints especially if they are putting it in writing. They will be talked to and if they do it again and it gets back to you it's still happening then at least you will have backup to prove your case. Nobody should have to put up with that kind of nonsense.

[Asker]

okay i’ll do that thanks

[DirtyOldMan777]

@Ez-Bri-Z_v2 Ok Karen

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Lmao thats the best you got? Karen?

Careful or I will ask to speak to your manager too... which at this point seems to be your two "wives" since you are so scared of them taking your money.

If she is experiencing workplace harassment then she NEEDS to report it before it gets out of hand.

[DirtyOldMan777]

I work from home, so do my wives. they get sad at the end of the day if I don't harass them. And they are free to leave. they don't get anything I have. they walk out the door with what ever clothes they can carry of theirs.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Hey, whatever floats your boats in your bdsm relationships at home is fine but it doesn't work in the actual workplace. And them being free to leave with only their clothes is not only proving my point of you being scared they can take your money, but is a BIG warning sign to those who want to be tradwives of what could happen to them.

[DirtyOldMan777]

I was very wealthy when I met them. I am wealthy now. I have been burned by far to many women that "loved" me just enough to get to my cash. So if they have to sign a contract to prove to me they want to be with me. Or if they are after my cash, know they will get nothing if they decide to leave. Which forces them to at least be very good at pretending to love me.

[slatyb]

You can't. Ignore them unless their remarks are impeding your ability to complete assigned work.

[DirtyOldMan777]

do you dress like a slut?

[Asker]

i wear dresses

[DirtyOldMan777]

ok. are those dresses better suited for the club or grandmas church?

[Asker]

I don't know about church. but they show my figure

[DirtyOldMan777]

Ok. if you are showing to much and are a lower performer at work. Then yes, your coworkers might have a point. but If you are out working your coworkers and show almost nothing. like no cleavage and dresses at least to the knees. then they're just jealous.

[Asker]

i send a follow request and i have a pic up of what i wear

[DirtyOldMan777]

A little tight for cooperate work. fine for dinner. so that begs the question, are you out performing coworkers at your job?

[Asker]

i feel like i am? i work OT and i come in on my offs days

[DirtyOldMan777]

so maybe it is from your work. but coworkers see the way your dressed and think otherwise.

[Anonymous]

They are jealous, ignore

[Asker]

okay

[jazzy34]

Well….was it?

[Asker]

no i done a lot of work.

[DryGermanGuy]

I had a sexual relationship with my boss, now his replacement questions my role—why? ↗

[Asker]

why you posting someone question here?