I did a lot of dancing and acting in high-school...
I was also a dancer in a Caribbean dance group and we had so much fun practicing and performing. I miss dancing on stage.

I did a lot of dancing and acting in high-school...
I was also a dancer in a Caribbean dance group and we had so much fun practicing and performing. I miss dancing on stage.

Oh, dang, you do West Indian dance? With all the big feathered costumes and whatnot?😝 That stuff is awesome. My semipro football coach was Jamaican, and his daughter Janeika and I bonded early on when he basically had me babysit her at practice one day when I was sitting out with an injury. She was probably about eight at the time. I was still around when she turned sixteen, and she insisted that “Shady” should be in attendance at her Sweet Sixteen party. She must be like 25 now, goddamn, lmfao, I’m just remembering this is like 10 years ago. Can’t believe it.
Anyway…Coach rented out this big function hall at a church, and they had a whole thing for her. It was a little awkward for me, just because I was the only guy from the team who was there, I didn’t know anybody except my coach and his daughter, and they’re busy entertaining and being the star of the show, respectively. So I was more or less dolo, and everybody there was Jamaican or Trini, family and friends of their family, so they’re looking at me like “who is this random ass white dude in attendance?”😂
But anyway, the highlight of the night was a full-on performance by a West Indian dance group. I grew up in a pretty Caribbean-heavy area, more so Haitian, but plenty of Jamaican and Trini folks too, so I’ve caught a few performances in my lifetime, and they’re always impressive. Great dancing, and the costumes are next-level👍👍
For myself…my first one was pretty young, maybe like first grade, and my mom signed me up for some children’s theater group. We put on some play that I think was called “To Please A Prince”, and it was some Camelot-based thing, and I think I was Prince Lancelot. But it might’ve been Prince Valiant, I can’t remember. I just remember that the gag was that there was this lineup of prince brothers, and I was the youngest, and kind of the comic relief. Like I had a sword like everyone else, but it was floppy, and drooped when I drew it. I remember that getting a good laugh from the audience.
There’s a side of me that thinks I could’ve pursued acting, not necessarily professionally, but at least during my childhood and teen years via school or independent programs. But I caught the sports bug shortly after that, and that was the end of it. Although I was one of the stars of my 2nd grade class play, I think just because I was more self-aware than my peers. Like it was me and three other kids who they could trust to not wander off and start picking their nose on stage😂 We were direct-able, haha.
So, maybe with some effort I could’ve been decent. I don’t think Boston is really the right launchpad though. I was listening to a podcast with the dude who played Zack Morris on Saved By The Bell, and he was talking about how he started as a kid, and it basically boiled down to “I was a good-looking child who lived in the LA area, someone told my mom I should model, so I started doing that, then auditioning for acting jobs, just working after school, then I got Saved By The Bell, and now I’m a successful working actor.” It should all be that easy for all of us😂
Not for nothing, I took Intro To Acting for a low-pressure summer class in college, and I did get an ‘A’…. but I think it was based on effort more than performance. I learned that acting is HARD. I was like “this is easy cake. I’m already kind of a ham, I had my brief child acting history where I was put in prominent roles both times, and just a general overconfident self-delusion that I was a natural for this. Fast forward to the class, and all I’m getting is “you’re indicating” from the instructor😂 And in my mind, I’m like “THE FUCK I AM”, but I guess I must’ve been.
And we did this exercise where I had to “seduce” one of my classmates, but use this totally non-seductive dialogue. Her job was to say when I was getting to her. And at this point, I’m like 23, I worked at Abercrombie & Fitch, did pretty well with ladies…I was at peak “feelin’ myself.” “I could read this girl a menu from Wendy’s and have her in a puddle.”😎

I did not seduce her, lmfao. I think she gave me a pity-“ok, that was close” because she was tired of me trying to stare her down with my piercing baby blues, lmao.
Whoops…. went off on a tangent, lmfao. Point is, that children’s theater workshop, we put on a performance for a full auditorium of parents, so probably a couple hundred people.
In high school, we had pretty good crowds for football games, but nothing like other parts of the country. We played our Thanksgiving Day game at Boston College, in a mostly empty stadium, but a bigger crowd than usual, because that’s the final career game for most seniors, and Thanksgiving high school football is just a major tradition around here anyway. So that was probably a couple thousand people. I played in two semipro National Championships (2x 🏆🏆😎), to a crowd of like 11😂😂😂 That’s how much semipro matters, lmao.
Also in my 20s, I was kind of an adjacent member of my friends’ weirdo alt-rap group. They’re actually both really talented MCs, but it’s just not like usual rap. I’m good enough to have a couple features with them, and I’d perform with them, usually at some local dive bar to our small following of mostly people who were already friends.
BUT…. we did get a small taste of the bright lights, because we were twice contracted to be the opening act at a local venue for a couple of fairly significant headliners, Blackalicious (R. I. P. Gift Of Gab…we kicked it after the show, Gab was a real good dude), and one of the boom-bap pioneers, the great KRS-One. THOSE were big crowds. Definitely not there to see us, lmao, but we played for them.
We weren’t in a big stadium or anything, but we definitely had over a thousand in the building, easily.
This is just from a dive bar performance, but here’s me, with my Kangol visor and my football gloves. I used to always say “You gotta grip mics to rip mics”😝

Yeah, the feathers and all that lol. It was a lot of fun. I had two friends in high-school that were Jamaican and they saw me dancing at one of the school dances.
"You have to join us, you have Jamaican hips."
So it was 3 of us...
I definitely think you would make a great actor lol starring in comedies hahaha.
"Fast forward to the class, and all I’m getting is “you’re indicating” from the instructor And in my mind, I’m like “THE FUCK I AM”, but I guess I must’ve been."
Oh man this made me lmao 🤣 I didn't know you did some acting as a kid. That's pretty cool. Acting is definitely not ad easy as it looks. My hs teacher would yell to us... "Stop acting and become the character!"
Jamaican hips, hahaha. That’s awesome, though! I love the costumes👌
And I appreciate the vote of confidence! Especially coming from you, someone who can actually claim to be a thespian! 🎭 I feel like if I acted, it’d have to be like you said, haha. In front of the camera, multiple-takes and straight up theater acting…. NOT THE SAME. I’d probably make for a good outtakes/blooper reels😝 But I could probably get them that one good take👍
I’m so fascinated by those method actors that stay in character on- or off-set. That must be wild to deal with if you interact with them, depending on the role😂
The baby blues have gotten me a few places😎 But not that day😅🤣
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That is me😅 Rap name: White Steve, lmao
Haha, it’s a slightly older nickname than that, freshman year of college. Two Steves on the floor of my dorm, myself and a dude who was of Korean heritage, so we were White Steve and Asian Steve. Asian Steve actually just had a good, punchy monosyllabic Korean last name that went well with his first name. So we ended up just calling him by his full government, it was actually a syllable quicker. And then I’m just so pasty that White Steve really stuck with me😅😂👻
And then I was just un-creative when it came time to pick a rap name😝 Although I did eventually expand it to include “aka Furious Stylez” (you know it’s cool when you put a ‘z’ at the end😂), and that morphed to an informal “Prettyboy Stylez”, I think because I’m the only one who didn’t look like he got dressed in the dark, lmao.
I'm a guitarist and vocalist, so I have performed in front of several hundred people quite a few times, mostly in rock bands, beginning in about 11th grade. I also played gigs with the band I had from about 2005 to 2020.
And from 2005 to 2020, I also played a set of Irish rebel and pub songs at a large, annual Irish ceilidh.. Every year, I would cobble together a band consisting of accordion, bass, mandolin, harmony vocals and sometimes an extra acoustic guitar. We had people dancing and singing along.
In high school and early 20s, my signature song was Highway Star by Deep Purple.
I had another band from about 2005 to 2020. We played several gigs, a couple of big ones were at an air force base.
In that band, I had a few favorites. Dancing in the Moonlight by Thin Lizzy, Ghost Riders in the Sky, Runnin' Down an Dream by Tom Petty, Shakin' by Eddy Money, and others.
From 2005 to 2020 I also played a set of six songs or so at a large, annual, Irish ceilidh. I would cobble together a band including accordion, bass, mandolin, penny whistle, background vocals and sometimes an extra acoustic guitar. I sang lead and played acoustic guitar
The Irish songs I liked were Black Velvet Band and Orange and Green.
Here is Orange and Green. We played it similar to this.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2Fl9_9No4wE
I was in band, orchestra, theater, then as a museum guide and science explorer during summers I spent volunteering, I had to put on a lot of demonstrations in front of large crowds, and at one of my first jobs, I even made cameos as the uncredited dolphin number 2, in a play the kids were putting on for a few weeks because they were all too short to act as dolphins jumping up and over the waves, lol.
Age 3-8 I was in ballet. Other than that, I’ve given public speeches and had to give one when graduating top of my HS class
I love to talk and write but i do hate big crowds
Lol that was probably just me trying to be proper. Most of the time, Im speaking straight slang with a bit of country twang
I've never been a performer myself, but I totally get the thrill of being on stage! 🎭 I've attended countless performances and festivals, so I can appreciate the energy and excitement of a live audience. It sounds like you had some amazing experiences dancing and acting! Why not consider joining a local community theater or dance group to get back into it? It could reignite that passion! 😊
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I used to perform in parades and do shows when I danced as a kid. I wouldn’t say any of the crowds were huge though
I recently performed the role of Prince Hans of the Southern Isles, in front of.. 200 souls? Unlike my stage partner though, I had no costume, no script and not much dancing abilities... Remind me to be wary when spectating live performance for children, these guys recruit people at random, in the middle of the freaking show 🫤
yup, like really, for about 3 minutes, it wasn't an easy task !
I remember being in a play when I was a little kid wearing a cardboard heart. I forgot my lines so I kicked myself in the head (I wish I was still that flexible) and fell flat on my back. I enjoyed the crowd of laughter. I was pretty much always the class clown after that in school.
Wouldnf call it big per say but there was a forced podium event every year at my school where others could sign you up. When people discovered I had a natural talent for beatboxing 5 of them told me they individually signed me up. I knew guaranteed I was gonna be dragged up stage that day so I prepped a small routine involving the festive song and some others. Everyone loved it.
Back when I was doing martial arts and fighting I was in a lot of martial arts tournaments and championships so I've been in some decent crowds.
And I don't know if this counts or not but I've had a lot of stuff I've written be read by people, had some stuff published in a book or two and had something I wrote on the radio. So I suppose in a way the listeners/readers could count as a form of crowd.
Poetry I've done stuff about sex, love, nature, pain, mythology, dark/macabre, noir and noir detective, some philosophical type stuff and a collab, things like that. I think I've had around 24,000 people read my stuff that I know about.
One of my pieces
Bad Angels
Bad angels looked upon a city coloured like a TV tuned to a dead channel.. drenched in the dead moonlight of a starless dead sky revealing creeping shadows soaked in alcoholic tears and crimson sanguinary-painted streets.
As a man drunk on adrenaline, liquor, and lead, rushed apprehensively through oppressive smoke-choked alleys.
As devils drank from mirrored reflections of suffering and slow-danced to the sweet screams of sin he ran to buy sand for his leaking hourglass though ain't no one sellin.
Little did he know the demons he tried to drown in bourbon had just learned how to swim and they were on his tail with a thirst for vengeance.. and blood.
He turned and saw them but could only scream in muted verses as he met his pitiful end. His falling body kissing wet asphalt.
All as bad angels watched in glee from a dead starless sky.
I have performed piano solos, percussion solos, and I have sang solos. Most recently, I sang to my bride when we got married in April 2024.
I was part of a high school band. We marched in major parades and performed at football games. In 1962 we marched and played at the Seattle, Washington World's Fair! So large crowds for various events.
Yes. Ballet. I love to sing, too, but I don't have the confidence to do it in front of people.
@7Phoenix7 I don't know how good I am, LOL. I just love to sing! It's probably the howling sound the neighbors were asking about... :D
Yeah. A lot of different things for work and school and stuff. Some random modeling too. Some days I miss it, some days I thank God it’s all in the past.
Did theatre performances a few times & once sung at a festival. The crowds weren't too big though, but it was fun.
Yeah I was in a few rock bands when I was a teenager and we used to play some concerts. Not the gigantic crowds that the major bands drew but we did pretty well sometimes and had some that had crowds with maybe a thousand people or more.
Lead guitar and lead singer.
If that's you in the picture, you look like you have a great body for dancing. Why don't you try to get back into it? You seemed to really enjoy it.
I gave a 2 day presentation to 80 senior Japanese executives through several interpreters. It went extremely well and the entertainment and hospitality I was shown was unbelievable. I have spoken to bigger groups but that was most memorable.
Yes I have because I am a musician. I have sing, rap, and a played a musical instrument in front the whole school and amateur crowds back in my days.
Yes. I performed an awesome guitar solo at my high school's battle of the bands as a guest spot.
Getting back into it.
Thousands of times. Mostly with my band but also in school plays and working on the magic show a few years ago as well as some t. v., video and movie appearances.
BIG TIME!!!
lol...
too many to pick
the other two are by John Cena...
Yeah I have. My friends and I started a rock band (ROCK HARD) in HS I played guitar and we played in front of the entire school everyone dug what we were doing. Me and our drummer Robbie went on to form a new band later on and now play a lot of clubs in our spare time. It’s still cool and a lot of fun.
In between baseball and football, I was the mascot for our basketball team in high school my senior year. I used to perform with the cheerleaders and walk through the crowd in the gym, maybe 100-200 people at most.
Does that count? I didn't think so!
I was a dancer for 16 years and I've sung a few gigs. I've also done a fair bit of preaching in churches
i sang up to 250 people not too many times about 10 still they were performances
I was in my school's choir group as the pianist and performed few times.
yea, not by myself... you should have heard the off note I made.
I used to have to present new products to about 60-70 people. Some of the presentations lasted an hour.
I've taught classes that had about 50+ college students. Does that count?
As a 5yo, I was on a TV game show, in front of a studio audience. Contestants had to guess how many pieces of candy I could pick up in one hand.
During my career, I have often trained moderate sized groups of around 20 people.
I performed in a couple of plays when I was still in school
Most was 150-200 but put on a show for 130 teenagers 5 days a week for 20 school years so yeah...
Since I don't think you ever received applause:
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You two are funny!! TY I needed that today. It's so weird that you put that because I used to use the line " who would like a standing ovation who's never had one? " On my students the first day of class Just so I can nail down who is the bold clown right away. Never failed.
clever detector lol
Yes. My biggest thing i did wasn't basketball. I know surprise surprise.
It was track. Actually was flown to Australia to compete
On stage. I walked few times in embarrassing clothes. I dance often but not on stage and my audience is rather aroused than fascinated.
School dance performances and basketball games yes...
Used to be part of t rock band. Did concerts and street festivals back when. Largest crowd was around 8000.
I did a public speaking course, which included talking in front of some decent sized audiences.
A few hundred with various bands but never something like a stadium or festival.
I still perform sometimes, but usually to crowds of around 100 or so. I miss being in an actual band rather than just a, "Hey, XXXXX is ill/out of town. Can you cover?" for bands.
I'm part of a dance group that performed now and it's a lot of fun!
Line dancing
No, not big crowds. Moderate sized crowds, 100-1000 people. I played varsity basketball in high school and I was in some school plays.
Bandeoke, ( that's like karaoke but singing in front of a live band) on a cruise ship in front of a few hundred people if that could
It was but I had a few drinks to calm my nerves beforehand
that's my entire job
I once had sex with a girl out in the open during a concert, does that count as a performance? lol
Hard as it is to believe, I'm a black man who can't dance.
In middle school but not solo. I joined an ensemble
https://youtu.be/9sLPB26LJXU?si=owrrr29aDWbXZ49w anklung ensemble. Good times and cringe times
No. That's just an example. We had no HD cameras like that back then lol. And also that's a good thing
Why do you look like one of them? Lol just be honest
That depends on your definition of "big crowd". Lol
Yes, I played bass for some local rock bands when I was younger and played a bunch of shows
Yeah, I've done a play in front of a decent sized crowd, and a few things in school.. A little dancing too when I was in church..
speaking on tech conferences :D
@MasterIslaTheWitch
@NathanDavis damn... and I'm still a Yoda lmao
@7Phoenix7 he is the only one who counts the points here :D
if not the damn poping badge, I wouldn't know...
@7Phoenix7 no... I'm in knowledge sharing mode :D
but the whole week before I'm really nervous... mostly thinking about how to remove myself from presenting :D
more like...
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IA steve is growing a pair... of additional fingers
@NathanDavis no... thank you... I like more what I see in the mirror :D
I know there's camouflage in your wardrobe...
@7Phoenix7 for drinks? always!! :D
@NathanDavis yeah... I have a few camo t-shirts and pants, but I still look like me in them :D
I've had sex in front of a stranger with my boyfriend a couple times does that count
School choir. More recently, apart from training at work, a best man speech.
I dance 💃 but not a big crowd, maybe 150 people on a busy night 💃💯
I used to sing on stage when I was younger, so if that is something you consider a performance luv, then yes I have.
Not since an 8th grade play in front of the school.
Singing and dancing in school
Never in my life and it would terrify me.
@7Phoenix7 Now I know who I’m not inviting to be part of that crowd lol
@7Phoenix7 Alright, but no laughing haha
No. I would definitely die. 😳
I was 7 they laugh haven’t since.
Yeah, maybe 15,000 as part of a chorus
Not really
The school play!
Does it count when, as a class, we sang? When I was about 6?
Not even in the shower. lol
Dancing
Yes I got into belly dancing as a kid because of Shakira lol I made my dad sign me up and I did Ori Tahiti dancing for a couple years after… also color/winter guard.
It really is beautiful and intricate! Also helps core strength which helps later on in life.
Belly dancing is the most sensual of all dances
@SixFootSexy It can be very sensual
Yes; in primary school though
Yes preaching
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