Even if you would never cheat yourself, do you find movies involving cheating and adultery to be interesting and arousing?

[rachel776]

[Finchie40]

No , those movies actually make me shake my head , because I been cheated on before and it’s such a selfish act from a POS person that only cares about themselves. Unfortunately that type of selfish behavior happens a lot more than we like to think it does. If you can’t stay loyal and faithful to someone , then don’t get into a relationship with anyone period. Stay single and fuck whoever you want to if variety is something you really need. But selfish people lie all the time because they know nobody in the right state of mind will have sex with them if they know they are a player. Guys’ and Girls’ can be players big time , I had my fair share of them , especially with lying married women and lying girls’ that have boyfriends’ already ,, that tell me they are single when really they aren’t , I usually don’t find out the truth u til after I screwed her a bunch of times. Most of these taken females’ Go back to their partners’ like nothing happened especially she gets away with it. I have experienced this a bunch of times to the point I don’t even care what a girls’ relationship status is anymore , when I meet a beautiful girl that is coming on to me ’ am more than likely going to give her my D because I am an honest guy and hoping she is honest as well, but unfortunately that isn’t always the case in my experiences. When I find out the truth that she isn’t single , I just say Oh well, thanks for a good time , but not a long time. Why I no longer jump into relationships with girls’ but bed? That’s a different story lol

[Bricealan]

@rachel776 I agree with you, in that I find it interesting and arousing, although, I only cheated on one girlfriend when I was in my late 20's, and in retrospect, I SHOULD have married the girl I cheated on, as she would have been the mate of a life-time, and I certainly shot myself in the foot several times, by NOT marrying her.

With that said, I did not have any regrets about having the affair, with the younger girl I cheated with, as she was a virgin, and I learned a GREAT DEAL about having sex with a much younger virgin girl, and have factual information about that kind of sex - rather than the BS I often read about having 'virgin sex'... a trade off - so to speak after an affair.

My only wife, cheated on me with a man she knew before, AND SHE is buried in the back yard under the Grapefruit tree...😂😂😂🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️😁😁😁

[Bricealan]

Thank you for the MHO

[avery58]

A little interesting, just for the drama. I grew up with Latin soaps and watched a few Turkish and Korean series, a lot of cheating in the plots 😂

[Genie23]

No, it makes me shake my head, sigh and say "Not again..."

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Since I'm interested in the notion of inner conflict, I'm interested in the thinking process behind adultery. Like I'm interested in any other notion that threatens personal balance for someone. It's not common for a movie to address it in an elaborated way though. TV show format is better for this, considering they have more time to expand on characters and psychology in general.

The act of cheating itself, no special interest, no, I'm only intrigued by its roots/origins

[SteveSmith1985]

No, funnily enough. Quite the opposite. It makes me indignantly angry, and disgusted with the character. I find it off-putting in the extreme. It would kill my arousal, if I started off aroused. We just have a different view of things, I guess.

[Tarifa]

Arousing, no. Interesting yes, as it creates a conflict for all people involved. These situations are better kept as a fantasy, not to be enacted in real life. It's a recipe for disaster.

All things forbidden create a strong attraction, on the verge of addiction.

[Dongie]

That movie with Michael Douglas and what's her name paltrow was good. I just kind of rooted for him.

[rachel776]

A Perfect Murder - one of my favorite movies, i hardly ever see it around

Mrs. Taylor, your husband has been
buying U. S. and foreign bonds on
margin, and using those securities
as collateral. That's illegal.

[Dongie]

Hehe, yeah, ol Mikey was shrood!

[Kaneki05]

Cheating is hot, things can be hot without it meaning anything. It would be like applying the logic you watch horror films meaning you will start killing folk, or played Cod.

The logic of you finding something wrong based on fake entertainment shows me 1 of 2 things, one is a idiot or a hypocrite who is lying to themselves. Let's check their porn history find out what so called things they morally object to in there right?

[Chazmatazz269]

No, i find them repugnant. Partly because i was cheated on and i understand that pain. Mostly because of the bizarre hypocrisy portrayed in the media. Whenever a woman cheats on a man, it’s either a comedy or she’s otherwise justified as the protagonist. Whenever a man cheats on a woman, he’s the antagonist or framed as the dark side of a moral quandary.
That sh*t got old a long time ago.

[Shiprex]

It creates a drama scenario people can relate to that allows folk to stimulate their imagination to experience this vicariously.

[mstbooblover]

In any case movies do involve at least a story, and depending on the subject, the story and how well the movie is made, characters cheating on each other may be very interesting to understand what's going on in the scenario.

Now, arousing? No, not in itself, set aside well made erotic scenes of course. But then, it's not relevant in that field whether the partners are cheating or not ;0)

[NathanDavis]

interesting somehow, yes... but not exactly arousing because of the affair

but maybe be the passion and intensity of certain moments

[nawtee_me]

I find it interesting that people posting here can’t see it as part of the movie and take it as if they really did it…. I find in most cases it adds to the movie plot or perhaps sends the movie in one direction so the plot twist works better. And yes, it can sometimes be a little arousing…. lol

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Maybe yes as when you are watching movies you don't sit with a moral compass you know it's for entertainment.


Fact being so ething is most desirable when you can't have it or when you can't but still won't you know you are desired even after you are taken.

It gives you thrill a moment of joy and ego boost but once you have it the magic ends.

[Cormac995]

no in fact they piss me off because they often portray it as a passionate loving fling instead on what it really is which is fucking disgusting.

[OlderAndWiser]

No, i get a very uneasy feeling whenever i see infidelity portrayed in a movie. I saw my father do that to my mother and i vowed to never be like him.

[Valdemort]

Depends on the overall storyline and delivery. Not necessarily the act of cheating/adultery itself.

[Friendlybro79]

I think fantasy can include things you wouldn't normally partake it. Also, I think in movies these things can absolutely turn a person on even though it's not something you even want to do or try.

[osmanthus]

Interesting, sure. Arousing, no. Any film could be interesting and none arousing. Titillating to the mind but not provocative to the rest of the body.

[osmanthus]

Cheating in the context of intimate married relationships has been the subject of many books, films, etc. and on the table of discussion by many psychologists. Some say the definition varies by person but the general consensus to most is sexual infidelity rather than he other aspects that may be construed as cheating in this context. It's often unwritten or unsaid in the marriage contract in the western world that to define it and find it forgivable to the other person would be most rare if only the spouse were only recently civilized from savagery or western society, as it were.

[osmanthus]

It's as if the marriage contract only works with two triple A batteries and not more or less than that. Sounds like a weird analogy, sure, but most marriages in America need batteries (sex).

[osmanthus]

Sometimes those batteries need recharging and other times replacing but it's generally agreed don't try to smash a 9 volt into a separate, two pocket receptacle.

[osmanthus]

A man in the marriage would most likely be a-ok to smash that 9 volt in there, ignoring all the women (separators) that formed the lines in the first place.

[osmanthus]

They the men don't usually consider the consequences of adding another person or leaving the marriage prematurely that it would have on the women who signed the marriage contract.

[osmanthus]

It's more the case that once the batteries die out the marriage goes with it.

[osmanthus]

Then again, if your marriage isn't running on batteries people outside the marriage start wondering what it is exactly you're in.

[osmanthus]

And as far as I know every car in America uses a battery. So unless your car is using something else you better be looking after your car (marriage), where else you won't be able to ride it on home anymore.

[Anonymous]

I think it shows a persons toxic traits. Even if you would never cheat. Because you know it's wrong or because you'd be judged as it being wrong?

I think you could add things like rape in movies as well. I had cable growing up and it was mind boggling how many movies where a woman would be raped and midway through it she'd stop fighting and start to kind of dig it. Now it goes without saying that rape is wrong. But what kind of toxic message does that send?

[Simslover92]

Nope. Those kinds of movies usually end up with someone dead or in jail.

[fivebyfour]

Yes very much so, I actually like being cheated on tbh, as long as it's only for sex, my ex used to go to bed with her estranged husband, when it all came out we had some amazing threesomes lol,,,

[Joshydavid25]

Nah, cheating in movies are annoying.. Especially the way Hollywood portrays it.. Nothing alluring about that.. But I guess depending on how well the plot is written, it can be interesting for storytelling purposes.

[abc3643]

Maybe interesting... to a point... but not really arousing.

For instance, watch Fatal Attraction... and make sure no bunnies are watching with you.

[trella_bella]

Yes. We all do. The suspense, the chase and then experiencing the forbidden fruit! :p

[ProbablyClueless]

No. My mom stepped out on my dad, so the real world impact of that behavior is something I’m a little too familiar with to have any spicy feelings about cheating.

[Communicationisking]

The sex part can be arousing but if it is blatant cheating on a good partner then it is not really a happy vibe I get

[Anonymous]

Sometimes they have good sex scenes. Like I can be turned on by a hot scene where one or more of the characters is cheating even though I would never do that myself.

[DonaldDarko]

No I find them to be depressing. It's sad that people act that way there's not one thing got about it.

[AviatorTom]

If it's an important part of the overall story line, I find cheating/adultery scenes interesting, but rarely arousing.

[Geo1970]

I think that possibly because it’s televised, acted and doesn’t physically involve the viewers……yes!

[KennethNoisewater]

I truly can’t stand it. That’s something that cuts deep with me. I have no shame in turning something off if the vibe is off.

[Staximus]

No, cheaters are shit bags. If you want to fuck other people, just break up. There's no sugar coating or romanticizing it, it's just a shit bag thing to do.

[RavVid]

I'm moralistic about cheating so no I don't.

[MannMitAntworten]

Nope. There is that and the movies I tend to watch don’t feature romantic relationships as a forward or even secondary theme.

[Circushowcowboy]

They can definitely be interesting sometimes

[virgo2267]

More thrilling at first… but I think that may be quite normal to some extent

[Imsmurter1]

Hard to say. Depends on factors like whether I like the characters and their relationship or not.

[Anonymous]

No. I don't know why Hollywood makes so many movies directed at women where the woman cheats.

[Brady]

Yes if it was a pretty lady who was undressing, cheatin n havin an affair.

[Hanrej]

Yes I do. Particularly with unfaithful women.

[WearyTraveler]

It can weirdly be kind of understandable but still entirely wrong. I take them as a lesson to be learned

[Jltakk]

Naw it frustrates me because people don't know how lucky they are and they trash it

[fuddly]

The movie
The ice storm 1997
I really enjoyed
Adultery with sad event

[Anonymous]

Nope it makes me think why?
Why attraction even tho they are in a commited relationship...

[Anonymous]

No it just infuriates me.

[whereismyjohnny]

Nope. I find it disgusting.

[Jersey2]

No, I never have found them that way.

[WonderingManII]

No I just tolerate those scenes.

[Wiredone]

Interesting, yes. Arousing, no

[LiamS95]

Yes sometimes.

[glennos89]

No definitely not my thing

[zombiewoof]

Usually

[Anonymous]

No, I usually dislike that kind of movies.

[retarb]

No I find it infuriating.

[Hellraiser1984]

No I just find them a waste of film stock.

[Zoe91]

I can’t wait for them to get caught.

[Sal_Monella]

No. Offensive.

[DCVsMarvel2]

No, not really

[katiesmuff]

Only in Porn!

[wkhan_87]

No i find it disgusting and hurtful

[lyrem04]

Nope

[Deserter3]

Why must you show feet when I am on NoFap?