Gender Roles: The Differences and the Proper Roles

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The Roles

-Roles for a Women-

-Cook

-Bake

-Clean

-Care for kids if they have them

-Teach their kids (Home-school them)

-Welcome their Husband

-Make shopping lists

-Go shopping

-Being a good Wife and Mom

-Make her Husband happy

Conclusion:

Women should do these things. This is the natural place in a household. A woman works all day. While a man works 8 hours and comes home. Women work those extra hours because they need to make their family happy, specifically her husband, to his needs. A wife should never argue with her husband unless he is being unreasonable.

(btw: as you read highlighted point, women can always work, but for now her husband decides spending) Reasonably I might add.

-Roles for a Man-

-Work

-Make the money

-Manage the money (highlighted point)

-Pay bills

-Pay for other necessary things

-Come home to a nice meal

-Relax

-Make his wife happy

Conclusion:

A husband needs to make sure his wife can listen to him. Of course he won't make every decision but he needs to have most control in the relationship. A man/husband needs to be/feel loved. He needs to feel wanted. And a Man should not get stressed out. A wife needs to comfort him.

The End Result

Both the man and woman need to listen to each other, don't keep feelings hidden. They both need to love their kids and love each other. Remember this is not what everyone wants but I think it's a great thing

[Anonymous]

Nice take. Few young people will agree with your views today, which is unfortunate because these principles are the most likely to lead to a happy, healthy, lasting marriage.

In any case, these two are the most important roles for each gender:
- Make her Husband happy
- Make his wife happy

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you for MHO!

[CubsterShura]

I understand your choice and that you want to be a housewife, which really isn't bad. If it's what you want to do then go for it. However you just can't tell others what they should be doing and not doing.

In fact, Fatima used to be a devoted housewife, and it has been the primary duty of a Muslim woman. The role of Mother Aisha being publicly influential is secondary. However, remember that Prophet Muhammad used to cook his own food despite having multiple wives to do that for him. A man should be helping his wife with household work and looking after the children, because they are his children too.

So it's not like the gender roles have to be completely split up or every single work has to be divided into exact half. There are options, there is flexibility so couple have the choice to do what suits their lifestyle.

I hope you get the kind of husband you desire and may you have a happy married life. 😊

[SirRexington]

I agree with this to an extent because gender does effect how one thinks and acts but cooking, Cleaning? This has zero to do with gender. This take is too far in the other direction. We need balance, not traditional gender roles or none at all.

[11110000bbbb]

I was only adding to the Extent that since a man should work he should home home to a nice meal and not worry about cooking or cleaning.

[11110000bbbb]

come home*

[SirRexington]

That is only for individual circumstances. I like to cook and would rather me and her cook together. Unless specified otherwise that she will make dinner it shouldn't be expected. It shouldn't be expected for the man to be the breadwinner either. If both want to work or if the man wants to stay that is perfectly okay. It should be a thing of if it happens, it happens, if it doesn't then it doesn't.

[11110000bbbb]

(btw: as you read highlighted point, -Women Can Always Work-, but for now her husband decides spending) Reasonably I might add.

[11110000bbbb]

that is what I said

[11110000bbbb]

women can work too, yes, but the main ordinance is set specific.

[SirRexington]

No both should decide spending. An equal balance. Not one over the other but equal partnership.

[11110000bbbb]

It's his money he decides as long as it's fair given to each thing you need.

[lilaqua]

Wait so women’s sole purpose is to comfort men? Yay, that makes me really inclined to get into a seriously relationship 😐

[11110000bbbb]

Yes, and his job is to comfort you. It's Mutual.

[lilaqua]

boring, fuck that. I'll mix my cauldron, cackle and lure men upto my lair with love potion before sacrificing them to the devil.

[11110000bbbb]

Why don't you follow, and be a good girlfriend.
I'm gonna give you a little advice don't come crying after your boyfriend is not happy with how you act.
lol GOOD LUCK! :)

[lilaqua]

"be a good girlfriend" hahahaha

[11110000bbbb]

Lol yeah your boyfriend won't like you unless he's very submissive.

[lilaqua]

why do I need a boyfriend?

[lilaqua]

fuck that

[11110000bbbb]

Lol okay Asexual? or Lesbian?

[lilaqua]

nah just don't think men should control me, especially the one's I know.

[11110000bbbb]

haha no I never said that haha

[lilaqua]

"he needs to have most control in the relationship"

[11110000bbbb]

"Most" haha and "in the relationship" not you lol

[lilaqua]

still sounds a bit off. I'm not a fan of it. Plus I'd like to work, I hate shopping, I think home schooling is the dumbest parental decision, i'm also pretty independent. So shucks, no man will ever love me. boo hoo. I'm not sad.

[888_sarcastic]

Sure and in the mean time ill wash mens feet a bow down to them and be their bitch
I'm no feminist but come on

[11110000bbbb]

Haha no, Unless of course well... He wash your feet and bow to them.
Well, Marriage is something that needs to come back...
Women need to love to do this because it is good.

[Madirashed]

Nice take... i don't a lot of girls will agree with you.

[Madirashed]

I don't think**

[11110000bbbb]

That is very True, girls in this day and age don't wanna follow Gender Roles.
Some men don't either.
I think Gender Roles are good for society mostly.

[Madirashed]

Something is wrong with this world it's like thy're fighting nature.

[11110000bbbb]

Yeah, and it's sad. It will be reversed, men stay home and women act like men one of these days. Even though that is already happening to some extent it will only get worse.

[Madirashed]

Well said... i coudn't agree more but there's girls like you thats a good sign.

[11110000bbbb]

yeah, :)

[Deathraider]

I think whatever works is fine. And I think anyone would want to be the more rational one, wouldn't they?

[ovoxo_]

More women should come read the roles to see what they need to be like

[Victor1212]

If the couple 👫 will follow the the End Result it will be like heaven.

[Jude_Wills]

Wish I find wife like you mention above

[11110000bbbb]

Yeah and I wish to be the kind of wife I said :)
I wish more woman would want to be it.

[Jude_Wills]

I like ur thoughts 😊

[11110000bbbb]

Thanks :)

[Jude_Wills]

Welcome 😊

[HaveNoName]

Agree 100%.

[HaveNoName]

Oh !!! I didn't even notice you had submitted the Take. AslmAlkm.

[11110000bbbb]

Wa alaikum assalam

[krrish12]

You know i found already like that girl😂