Everything that you explained above is the textbook version of a "Codependent" they're too busy taking care of others to look after their own needs. And the results of such are never nice.
So if you think that you're attempts to be nice have crossed the line and qualified you as a pushover, then here are few points that you should take note of-
Good take, perhaps I'll explain myself in my own mytake to show a different perspective where being too nice is ok. I do agree with you to some extent. I think I was tired, sorry for the earlier comment I
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I wish I knew this while in high school.. Thanks. Good mytake
No one cares except what they want for a meal and who they have sex with.
The problem of being too nice is that some guys dont like many women like that they want bold and asertive women
well every time I'm an asshole people don't like it
so what would they rather me be
I try being far right to attract girls
Everything that you explained above is the textbook version of a "Codependent" they're too busy taking care of others to look after their own needs. And the results of such are never nice.
interesting read. Im changing my name to Matt. Door Matt
Great take and very true. Being too nice comes off as being at least a little bit fake.
I think kindness is important, but boundaries and holding people accountable is important too.
lately, I've been trying to balance these things
I agree. This is actually very, very, important. It's about knowing emotional boundaries. Thank you.
Can't relate to #3 or #6
😱 does that mean I'm not too nice?
So if you think that you're attempts to be nice have crossed the line and qualified you as a pushover, then here are few points that you should take note of-
Extremely relatable. Nice take
Thanks☺️
That’s not being too nice. That’s lacking things like willpower and self esteem.
Exactly, since when has kindness/niceness been mixed with having no back bone
I agree. Had my fair share of being too nice. Great Take!
I have come to the conclusion that the best you can do is not be a dick.
Nope
Lol sorry, that sounded bad.
Good take, perhaps I'll explain myself in my own mytake to show a different perspective where being too nice is ok.
I do agree with you to some extent.
I think I was tired, sorry for the earlier comment
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It's alright. I understand.
Im only nice to those that deserve it.
True and nice take 🤓
I'm too nice to people
That happens when you're nice to the wrong person