All these whiny posts about the ways "good guys" differentiate themselves from "nice guys" make me want to puke. So rather than giving you folks another social science explanation for why everyone can be an alpha, and how the only reason she doesn't want to bang you is because her inner cavewoman hasn't evolved; I'm gonna give you real, actionable advice on how to stop feeling you're misunderstood. And the advice is simple:
I want you to wake up tomorrow morning, look in the mirror, and ask yourself what you are doing that day, simply because YOU want to. Now stop posting all this nonsense and go do whatever comes to mind.
Maybe if you do this well enough, you'll start to inspire the people around you, men and women, to believe that they can help you make that happen.