I caught my uncle peeping on me! What should I do?

[Anonymous]

I caught him last year. I was living with him and my aunt along with their two children because of certain circumstances. I wasn't going to take a bath but I took too long since I was having a stomach ache. I noticed a gap in the door and look through it. That exact moment I saw him leaning down to look through the hole so I immediately covered it. I feel so scared since no one else was at home that time. So I stayed inside till someone came home & immediately left the house. The thing is I never told anyone because I know it will ruin his family and I really love my cousins and I'm thankful to my aunt. Good thing I'm off to college and I'm living in the dorms. I only come home on special occasions since I don't want to see his face. But on the few times I was home I became more observant of him. I notice him stealing glances at him and being overly affectionate and touchy to my younger cousins. He would always disappear when his daughter is taking a bath. And... it really giving me the creeps to even think about it... He didn't know that I caught him peeping on his son's girlfriend! I don't know what to do. He even made me suspicious of every guy who comes close to me. Because that bastard was so nice to me. I kept thinking that everyone have ulterior motives. I don't want to think like this but I can't help it. What should I do?

[Paris13]

If he does it again, for you were Smart to have kept the other time to yourself because it could have turned into an ugly Family affair, you need to set Sexy Sam straight and let him know to keep his Eyes and any plans of his hands To-------Home.
He sounds like he has this Fetish for young females and perhaps your aunt may or may not know he has some sort of problem. And it Is definitely a "Problem" that this Problem child needs to go see a professional about. He may have even More Problems down the beaten path that would "Creep" you out even more.
However, handle it yourself, give him the Big "L" like Lecture in Sex education and while you're at It, give him the no nonsense One about getting some help and if you catch him again with his eyes looking at your own cookie jar, you Will take it up with the Whole family, not just Auntie. That will scare the pants off of him and bring him down to his knees where That should have nipped this little spud in his bud.
As far as the others, they need to take matters themselves in their own hands being he seems to be this octopussy in sheep's clothing.
Good luck. xx

[Asker]

Thanks. I will.

[Paris13]

Good... He has a huge problem and he needs help... But you shouldn't have to be his target... xx

[Mgoods]

You need to show your aunt everything you have written, here.
Your younger cousins are at risk- they don't get to go away, like you do. It's not fair.

[abundantlyrich]

I had that happen to me as a kid too. Why don't you pee in a cup and tell him it's apple juice? Add some sugar and ask him to drink it up.

[Asker]

Thanks for the suggestion but I think I'll pass. lol. I did tore some of his shirts with scissors though. I also accidentally.. ehem... sat on his glasses one time.

[abundantlyrich]

lol okay...

[Zango91]

LMAO!!! Sounds legit!!

[jacquesvol]

" I saw him leaning down to look through the hole so I immediately covered it. "
"He would always disappear when his daughter is taking a bath. "
"touchy to my younger cousins."

"Creepy" is often wrongly used but here it's the right word.

Talk about it with your mom. Avoid being in the same room with him. Avoid the kind of situations that might give him the possibility to do it again. But there are his daughter, your younger cousins...
Indeed, talking with a therapist about this might be a good idea
.

[molan]

I agree with jacquesvol, talk to your mother about it and avoid the kind of situations.

Whatever you do, talk to you parents about it first, you need allies regresses of what you are doing.

[Asker]

I can't. I'm the only one in my family in my country. I have no contact with my mom. Even if i tell my dad he can't do anything since he's far away.

[Theguyoverthere]

You need to inform your aunt. He's gonna be likely to succeed in those "affectionate" touchings of those cousins if you don't. He clearly needs help. I would do whatever you can to stay away from that house. Plus if you do anger him, who knows if he will peep and barge in on your bath or something crazy. I'm sure you'e afraid of that. The sooner you inform your aunt the better.

[athorable]

It is really sickening of him to do that. You are his niece. Real creep.

[Asker]

Yeah. He's a real creep. Good thing we're not blood related.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

You might want to go talk to a professional therapist about what happened.

[Asker]

I was thinking about that. But I find it really hard to talk about it. Thanks though