My mom always scolds me and says to me that I'm useless. I'm depressed. I all the time cry. Should I die?

[Anonymous]

I never want or try to hurt her. Even I hide my all pain, my all unwellness, my injuries, my depression and my all tears from her so that it does not make her feel stressed and upset. Even if I'm feeling ill still I don't share with my family because I don't want to see them worried because of me but my mom always scolds me abuse me and compare me with other girls and admire them and tells me that I'm useless. I'm number one in studies and in all extracurricular activities and my whole college admires me and my teachers says about me that my parents are so lucky that they have a great, geniuos and wonderful daughter like me. My mom's those words and behaviors hurts me I never let her feel and realize that she hurts me but I'm really going in depression, all the night I cry and I hurt myself cut myself and I always feel numbed and empty and I've started hate myself so much and I always think about me that I am the worst person ever and worst daughter ever and always hate myself and I've absolutely stopped taking care of myself. I think that I should not exist..

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My parents have not any child except me but my mom usually says that how bad luck she has that she does not have any child..

Then my dad says to her that you have a daughter...

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I always do my best to take care of my parents and I always try my best to make them happy and to make them feel proud. I always respect them and never talk to them even in loud voice.. I always try my best I always do my best to be the best ever daughter.

[longjohndan]

Hmm all of these people around you think so much of you. It would really be a shame to lose such potential because one person has made such a horrible decision. You show your true capabilities all the time to those who are open to seeing it. Sometimes, some people, especially the ones closest to you chose not to see and it's not your fault. Your mom has a problem alright but it isn't you that's her problem. She is creating problems for you and yet you are still overcoming them, every day. I'm sure that you feel a lot of pain, but if you look, just so carefully, just above the horizon there is hope.

You actually sound a lot like my girlfriend, i'd almost bet you are Asian. There are so many people around you that would be shocked to hear this from you and don't see what you are going through, but they would hate themselves so much if they knew and realized that you had given up.

[Asker]

So sweet of you. Thank you so much. And how you knew that I'm Asian, yes I am Asian. Thanks a lot for giving me your most precious ever opinions and most precious ever time.

[Asker]

My mom usually scolds me and insults me in front of guests, neighbors, relatives and in front of my friends as well and also in front of strangers. And it makes all those people think that I'm very bad And I can't do anything and it makes me feel so bad. I can't do anything to tell and convince those people that I am not like that and people thinks that I'm really bad that's why my mom is treating me like this. And my dad also sometimes scolds me and abuse me and he says that I'm not worth to live and when my mom scolds me and treats me rudely and badly my dad does not stop her he supports her and encourages her and he makes my mom more aggressive about me.

[Asker]

And even if I try to tell my mom that I feel bad it makes me feel bad it hurts me then my mom treats me more badly, more rudely and scolds me more abuse me more and she says to me that I don't hurt you, you hurt me. My boyfriend is someone who's so respecting and caring about parents, he respects parents so much and he admires me that it is sure that you are a very good daughter the best ever daughter and it is sure that your parents feels so proud of you and so proud and glad to have you so lucky to have you as daughter it's sure that your parents feels so blessed to have a daughter like you.

[Asker]

He trust so much that I'm the best ever daughter and my parents are so proud of me. I'm afraid that my mom will treat me like that in front of him she will say those things those words about me in front of him and he will think that I'm very bad it will make him think that I'm a very bad daughter and I'm not good and may God forbid he will start hating me and stop trusting me. I love him so much I don't want to lose him and don't want to lose his trust otherwise I will really commit suicide. It's obvious that to see my mom's behaviour with me my boyfriend will think I'm bad that's why my mom is treating me like this. I wish I get death before this happen :'(

[Asker]

I always do my best to take care of my parents and I always try my best to make them happy and to make them feel proud. I always respect them and never talk to them even in loud voice.. I always try my best I always do my best to be the best ever daughter.

[longjohndan]

a lot of Asian parents treat their children this way. It's not because they don't love or care, they just want to know their children will have a good life and this is their way of driving you. I think it's very misguided. I said you remind me of my girlfriend... she is Asian and has gone through the things you are saying here. She was a concert pianist, something she did for her parents but grew to resent it. Very talented but the stress put on her by her parents caused her to hate it. She went to a top school in the usa on a full scholarship and graduated with honors and it was not enough for them. She actually saw it as an under achievement. Then she decided she would rather stay in the usa than return to japan mostly to keep distance from her parents. They have since backed off because she is running her own life now and they had to decide if they wanted to continue to be idiots or be a part of her life so of course they chose to be a part of her life.

[longjohndan]

But now, her mom is encountering her worst night mare cause her daughter is in a. long term relationship with a white American. What comes around goes around. Hahaha. I smile a little bit every time I think about it.

[CityBoy773]

My granma used to say the same and it used to get to me until I realized if I do fail, I gave her what she wanted. So I do better, graduated, got enrolled in college, and now I look at her with a smirk. 18 and I'm already farther than her in life because I actually am going to college.

What you should do is get away from her. Move out. She sounds like she's not going to stop. Don't do anything hurtful to yourself, don't die, don't harm yourself cause it's not worth it. Just find a job and move out of there and let her fuck herself over for all you care. You're smart, just find the confidence in yourself to see that and ignore her.

[Asker]

Thank you very very much from the bottom of my heart. Thanks a lot for giving me your most precious ever opinions and most precious ever time. May God always bless you. Thanks again.

[Asker]

I wish you all the best.

[Asker]

My mom usually scolds me and insults me in front of guests, neighbors, relatives and in front of my friends as well and also in front of strangers. And it makes all those people think that I'm very bad And I can't do anything and it makes me feel so bad. I can't do anything to tell and convince those people that I am not like that and people thinks that I'm really bad that's why my mom is treating me like this. And my dad also sometimes scolds me and abuse me and he says that I'm not worth to live and when my mom scolds me and treats me rudely and badly my dad does not stop her he supports her and encourages her and he makes my mom more aggressive about me.

[Asker]

And even if I try to tell my mom that I feel bad it makes me feel bad it hurts me then my mom treats me more badly, more rudely and scolds me more abuse me more and she says to me that I don't hurt you, you hurt me. My boyfriend is someone who's so respecting and caring about parents, he respects parents so much and he admires me that it is sure that you are a very good daughter the best ever daughter and it is sure that your parents feels so proud of you and so proud and glad to have you so lucky to have you as daughter it's sure that your parents feels so blessed to have a daughter like you.

[Asker]

He trust so much that I'm the best ever daughter and my parents are so proud of me. I'm afraid that my mom will treat me like that in front of him she will say those things those words about me in front of him and he will think that I'm very bad it will make him think that I'm a very bad daughter and I'm not good and may God forbid he will start hating me and stop trusting me. I love him so much I don't want to lose him and don't want to lose his trust otherwise I will really commit suicide. It's obvious that to see my mom's behaviour with me my boyfriend will think I'm bad that's why my mom is treating me like this. I wish I get death before this happen :'(

[Asker]

I always do my best to take care of my parents and I always try my best to make them happy and to make them feel proud. I always respect them and never talk to them even in loud voice.. I always try my best I always do my best to be the best ever daughter.

[CityBoy773]

If you are under 18, or have any other siblings, you can call protective services just to be safe. Otherwise, just try moving out ASAP. She seriously sounds like she has some serious issues and does not care for you much. With that said, just get out of there and let her destroy herself. That hatred and anger will get to her and start cutting years off if she can't learn to chill.

[badgerly]

Honey, I have had that kind of death in my family before and just know, taking your own life solves nothing. I am not trying to be mean, but you need to see someone about this either a doctor or a psychiatrist. They will help you find a way to help you, and possibly describe you medication to help you. Just remember that depression isn't something that you need to be ashamed of, and I myself have it. Remember that you are not a problem and from what you said, you are top of your class, and that is something to take pride in. Please go to someone to get help, and call this number just to talk or really start thinking about taking your own life 1-800-273-8255 (1-800-273-TALK). Please be safe and have a nice night.

[Asker]

How sweet of you. Thank you very very much from the bottom of my heart. Thanks a lot for giving me your most precious ever opinions and most precious ever time. May God always bless you. Please you too be safe and I wish you very nice day. Thanks again.

[Asker]

My mom usually scolds me and insults me in front of guests, neighbors, relatives and in front of my friends as well and also in front of strangers. And it makes all those people think that I'm very bad And I can't do anything and it makes me feel so bad. I can't do anything to tell and convince those people that I am not like that and people thinks that I'm really bad that's why my mom is treating me like this. And my dad also sometimes scolds me and abuse me and he says that I'm not worth to live and when my mom scolds me and treats me rudely and badly my dad does not stop her he supports her and encourages her and he makes my mom more aggressive about me.

[Asker]

And even if I try to tell my mom that I feel bad it makes me feel bad it hurts me then my mom treats me more badly, more rudely and scolds me more abuse me more and she says to me that I don't hurt you, you hurt me. My boyfriend is someone who's so respecting and caring about parents, he respects parents so much and he admires me that it is sure that you are a very good daughter the best ever daughter and it is sure that your parents feels so proud of you and so proud and glad to have you so lucky to have you as daughter it's sure that your parents feels so blessed to have a daughter like you.

[Asker]

He trust so much that I'm the best ever daughter and my parents are so proud of me. I'm afraid that my mom will treat me like that in front of him she will say those things those words about me in front of him and he will think that I'm very bad it will make him think that I'm a very bad daughter and I'm not good and may God forbid he will start hating me and stop trusting me. I love him so much I don't want to lose him and don't want to lose his trust otherwise I will really commit suicide. It's obvious that to see my mom's behaviour with me my boyfriend will think I'm bad that's why my mom is treating me like this. I wish I get death before this happen :'(

[Asker]

I always do my best to take care of my parents and I always try my best to make them happy and to make them feel proud. I always respect them and never talk to them even in loud voice.. I always try my best I always do my best to be the best ever daughter..

[ScorpioandAries]

In order for you to grow as an adult you need to take the iniative and do right ny yourself. See if your school offers counseling. Take advantage if they do! I know you may rely on your parents still to some extent financially, but if you are in a position to cut her off forna bit... do it. She is reflecting her insecurities on you. Misery loves company.

[Asker]

How sweet of you. Thank you very very much from the bottom of my heart. Thanks a lot for giving me your most precious ever opinions and most precious ever time. May God always bless you. You are so sweet. Thanks again.

[Asker]

My mom usually scolds me and insults me in front of guests, neighbors, relatives and in front of my friends as well and also in front of strangers. And it makes all those people think that I'm very bad And I can't do anything and it makes me feel so bad. I can't do anything to tell and convince those people that I am not like that and people thinks that I'm really bad that's why my mom is treating me like this. And my dad also sometimes scolds me and abuse me and he says that I'm not worth to live and when my mom scolds me and treats me rudely and badly my dad does not stop her he supports her and encourages her and he makes my mom more aggressive about me.

[Asker]

And even if I try to tell my mom that I feel bad it makes me feel bad it hurts me then my mom treats me more badly, more rudely and scolds me more abuse me more and she says to me that I don't hurt you, you hurt me. My boyfriend is someone who's so respecting and caring about parents, he respects parents so much and he admires me that it is sure that you are a very good daughter the best ever daughter and it is sure that your parents feels so proud of you and so proud and glad to have you so lucky to have you as daughter it's sure that your parents feels so blessed to have a daughter like you.

[Asker]

He trust so much that I'm the best ever daughter and my parents are so proud of me. I'm afraid that my mom will treat me like that in front of him she will say those things those words about me in front of him and he will think that I'm very bad it will make him think that I'm a very bad daughter and I'm not good and may God forbid he will start hating me and stop trusting me. I love him so much I don't want to lose him and don't want to lose his trust otherwise I will really commit suicide. It's obvious that to see my mom's behaviour with me my boyfriend will think I'm bad that's why my mom is treating me like this. I wish I get death before this happen :'(

[Asker]

I always do my best to take care of my parents and I always try my best to make them happy and to make them feel proud. I always respect them and never talk to them even in loud voice.. I always try my best I always do my best to be the best ever daughter..

[helica_xoxo]

First off no u should not die. and u were put here on earth for a reason!. Second sometimes moms dont realize what they are saying or the effect of what they say have on the kid.. id say let ur mom know whats goin on and how u are feeling and let her know what she says hurts and how it affects u.

[Asker]

Thanks..

[Asker]

Actually I don't want to make her feel bad about her that's why I never share, I never let her know my feelings..

[helica_xoxo]

ur welcome sweetie 😊.. Well it probably won't ever stop if u dont tell her. Maybe it will make her feel bad but maybe it will also make her see what she's doing to u? How do u think she will feel if u actually did take ur life? Either way if u tell her or dont and something happens to u she's gonna feel horrible.. i say just let her know what she's doing and how ur feeling 😊

[Asker]

You are really so sweet. Thank you so much.

[helica_xoxo]

Aww thank u!, and your welcome, no problem 😊

[Asker]

My mom usually scolds me and insults me in front of guests, neighbors, relatives and in front of my friends as well and also in front of strangers. And it makes all those people think that I'm very bad :( And I can't do anything and it makes me feel so bad. I can't do anything to tell and convince those people that I am not like that and people thinks that I'm really bad that's why my mom is treating me like this. And my dad also sometimes scolds me and abuse me and he says that I'm not worth to live and when my mom scolds me and treats me rudely and badly my dad does not stop her he supports her and encourages her and he makes my mom more aggressive about me.

[Asker]

And even if I try to tell my mom that I feel bad it makes me feel bad it hurts me then my mom treats me more badly, more rudely and scolds me more abuse me more and she says to me that I don't hurt you, you hurt me. My boyfriend is someone who's so respecting and caring about parents, he respects parents so much and he admires me that it is sure that you are a very good daughter the best ever daughter and it is sure that your parents feels so proud of you and so proud and glad to have you so lucky to have you as daughter it's sure that your parents feels so blessed to have a daughter like you.

[Asker]

He trust so much that I'm the best ever daughter and parents are so proud of me. I'm afraid that my mom will treat me like that in front of him she will say those things those words about me in front of him and he will think that I'm very bad it will make him think that I'm a very bad daughter and I'm not good and may God forbid he will start hating me and stop trusting me. I love him so much I don't want to lose him and don't want to lose his trust otherwise I will really commit suicide. It's obvious that to see my mom's behaviour with me my boyfriend will think I'm bad that's why my mom is treating me like this. I wish I get death before this happen :'(

[Asker]

I always do my best to take care of my parents and I always try my best to make them happy and to make them feel proud. I always respect them and never talk to them even in loud voice.. I always try my best I always do my best to be the best ever daughter..

[Anonymous]

You should google "narcissistic mother" and have a look at this website: https://www.daughtersofnarcissisticmothers.com/

Of course, I cannot diagnose your mother via the internet, but you should definitely take a look at it.

[Asker]

Thank you so much.

[Asker]

And even if I try to tell my mom that I feel bad it makes me feel bad it hurts me then my mom treats me more badly, more rudely and scolds me more abuse me more and she says to me that I don't hurt you, you hurt me. My boyfriend is someone who's so respecting and caring about parents, he respects parents so much and he admires me that it is sure that you are a very good daughter the best ever daughter and it is sure that your parents feels so proud of you and so proud and glad to have you so lucky to have you as daughter it's sure that your parents feels so blessed to have a daughter like you.

[Asker]

He trust so much that I'm the best ever daughter and parents are so proud of me. I'm afraid that my mom will treat me like that in front of him she will say those things those words about me in front of him and he will think that I'm very bad it will make him think that I'm a very bad daughter and I'm not good and may God forbid he will start hating me and stop trusting me. I love him so much I don't want to lose him and don't want to lose his trust otherwise I will really commit suicide. It's obvious that to see my mom's behaviour with me my boyfriend will think I'm bad that's why my mom is treating me like this. I wish I get death before this happen :'(

[Asker]

My mom usually scolds me and insults me in front of guests, neighbors, relatives and in front of my friends as well and also in front of strangers. And it makes all those people think that I'm very bad And I can't do anything and it makes me feel so bad. I can't do anything to tell and convince those people that I am not like that and people thinks that I'm really bad that's why my mom is treating me like this. And my dad also sometimes scolds me and abuse me and he says that I'm not worth to live and when my mom scolds me and treats me rudely and badly my dad does not stop her he supports her and encourages her and he makes my mom more aggressive about me.

[Asker]

I always do my best to take care of my parents and I always try my best to make them happy and to make them feel proud. I always respect them and never talk to them even in loud voice.. I always try my best I always do my best to be the best ever daughter.

[Opinion Owner]

I was once where you are now. My mother constantly bitched about me to everyone, she lied, she cried to them saying I treated her badly (when in reality she treated me badly). I was always worried that people would believe her. Then I came to the realisation that those people who know me won't believe her, and those who don't don't matter.
I am the daughter of a narcissistic mother. I tried for years to have a good mother-daughter-relationship with her but it's not possible. My sister is the same way. It took us years to realise that my mother has actual problems, problems that we cannot fix. It's very painful to realise this, and to realise that you will never have what other people have with their mothers. All you can do now is get away from her and keep the contact to a minimum. Your mother won't change. No matter how nice you are to her, you cannot please her. You're basically trying to get love from someone who has none to give. Again, I'm in the same situation. It's not easy.

[Music4life1203]

No lord no. Don't kill yourself. Tell your mom about your depression and if she's a good mom, she should get you some help. Look it's gonna be alright but don't die, just tell her how you feel and what's been going on. You need to open up and tell her. Your mom is a bitch for comparing you because you should be loved for being a good damn child. But don't die, just get some help. Please.

[Asker]

How sweet of you. Thank you very very much from the bottom of my heart. Thanks a lot for giving me your most precious ever opinions and most precious ever time. May God always bless you. You are so sweet. Thanks again.

[Asker]

My mom usually scolds me and insults me in front of guests, neighbors, relatives and in front of my friends as well and also in front of strangers. And it makes all those people think that I'm very bad And I can't do anything and it makes me feel so bad. I can't do anything to tell and convince those people that I am not like that and people thinks that I'm really bad that's why my mom is treating me like this. And my dad also sometimes scolds me and abuse me and he says that I'm not worth to live and when my mom scolds me and treats me rudely and badly my dad does not stop her he supports her and encourages her and he makes my mom more aggressive about me.

[Asker]

And even if I try to tell my mom that I feel bad it makes me feel bad it hurts me then my mom treats me more badly, more rudely and scolds me more abuse me more and she says to me that I don't hurt you, you hurt me. My boyfriend is someone who's so respecting and caring about parents, he respects parents so much and he admires me that it is sure that you are a very good daughter the best ever daughter and it is sure that your parents feels so proud of you and so proud and glad to have you so lucky to have you as daughter it's sure that your parents feels so blessed to have a daughter like you.

[Asker]

He trust so much that I'm the best ever daughter and my parents are so proud of me. I'm afraid that my mom will treat me like that in front of him she will say those things those words about me in front of him and he will think that I'm very bad it will make him think that I'm a very bad daughter and I'm not good and may God forbid he will start hating me and stop trusting me. I love him so much I don't want to lose him and don't want to lose his trust otherwise I will really commit suicide. It's obvious that to see my mom's behaviour with me my boyfriend will think I'm bad that's why my mom is treating me like this. I wish I get death before this happen :'(

[Asker]

I always do my best to take care of my parents and I always try my best to make them happy and to make them feel proud. I always respect them and never talk to them even in loud voice.. I always try my best I always do my best to be the best ever daughter..

[Music4life1203]

Please, don't do that. You are not perfect. They want perfection from you and they are asking too much. Way too much. My own dad is kind of like that with me because I'm the only girl and the smartest out of the 3 kids they had. Look, no one is perfect and you definitely aren't. Don't try to be something your not. Just be yourself. You're in college and you're supposed to be living on your own. Get a job and an apartment and go live your life. The more you stay in that house, it seems like the more chains they put on you. You are a woman and you have every right to be independent so don't let your parents criticism hold you back I believe in your abilities and I know you can do this. But you keep letting your parents take over your life. You have to cut them off and set them straight because they need to under stand that you're a fucking adult and that they can't reach you like a child. So what if you cry, everyone does it. You just cry more because you're just a little more special :

[Saletri]

No you should not die. You are not useless. Just because she says you're useless means nothing. If anything she's useless to you for failing to be the mother figure in your life. to always be by your side, and show how amazing and beautiful you were always meant to be. don't let what anything she says put you down. because one day she is going to need you.

[Asker]

So sweet of you. Thank you so much.

[Asker]

My mom usually scolds me and insults me in front of guests, neighbors, relatives and in front of my friends as well and also in front of strangers. And it makes all those people think that I'm very bad And I can't do anything and it makes me feel so bad. I can't do anything to tell and convince those people that I am not like that and people thinks that I'm really bad that's why my mom is treating me like this. And my dad also sometimes scolds me and abuse me and he says that I'm not worth to live and when my mom scolds me and treats me rudely and badly my dad does not stop her he supports her and encourages her and he makes my mom more aggressive about me.

[Asker]

And even if I try to tell my mom that I feel bad it makes me feel bad it hurts me then my mom treats me more badly, more rudely and scolds me more abuse me more and she says to me that I don't hurt you, you hurt me. My boyfriend is someone who's so respecting and caring about parents, he respects parents so much and he admires me that it is sure that you are a very good daughter the best ever daughter and it is sure that your parents feels so proud of you and so proud and glad to have you so lucky to have you as daughter it's sure that your parents feels so blessed to have a daughter like you.

[Asker]

He trust so much that I'm the best ever daughter and parents are so proud of me. I'm afraid that my mom will treat me like that in front of him she will say those things those words about me in front of him and he will think that I'm very bad it will make him think that I'm a very bad daughter and I'm not good and may God forbid he will start hating me and stop trusting me. I love him so much I don't want to lose him and don't want to lose his trust otherwise I will really commit suicide. It's obvious that to see my mom's behaviour with me my boyfriend will think I'm bad that's why my mom is treating me like this. I wish I get death before this happen :'(

[Asker]

I always do my best to take care of my parents and I always try my best to make them happy and to make them feel proud. I always respect them and never talk to them even in loud voice.. I always try my best I always do my best to be the best ever daughter...

[Saletri]

and even if she does say that in front of him, I don't think he will think you are bad. I think he will think something is wrong with her. because if he does things from his pov. you'll be fine. because he's gotten to know you enough right.

[Anonymous]

Don't let your mother bring you down. You are not alone. My family still ignores me and blames me. They have always made me feel inadequate and try to ruin me. There is something wrong with those family members ;not us. Please stay strong and focus on your goals, so that you can become independent of them.

[Asker]

Thank you so much. I wish you all the best. May God bless you. All the best!

[Asker]

My mom usually scolds me and insults me in front of guests, neighbors, relatives and in front of my friends as well and also in front of strangers. And it makes all those people think that I'm very bad And I can't do anything and it makes me feel so bad. I can't do anything to tell and convince those people that I am not like that and people thinks that I'm really bad that's why my mom is treating me like this. And my dad also sometimes scolds me and abuse me and he says that I'm not worth to live and when my mom scolds me and treats me rudely and badly my dad does not stop her he supports her and encourages her and he makes my mom more aggressive about me.

[Asker]

And even if I try to tell my mom that I feel bad it makes me feel bad it hurts me then my mom treats me more badly, more rudely and scolds me more abuse me more and she says to me that I don't hurt you, you hurt me. My boyfriend is someone who's so respecting and caring about parents, he respects parents so much and he admires me that it is sure that you are a very good daughter the best ever daughter and it is sure that your parents feels so proud of you and so proud and glad to have you so lucky to have you as daughter it's sure that your parents feels so blessed to have a daughter like you.

[Asker]

He trust so much that I'm the best ever daughter and parents are so proud of me. I'm afraid that my mom will treat me like that in front of him she will say those things those words about me in front of him and he will think that I'm very bad it will make him think that I'm a very bad daughter and I'm not good and may God forbid he will start hating me and stop trusting me. I love him so much I don't want to lose him and don't want to lose his trust otherwise I will really commit suicide. It's obvious that to see my mom's behaviour with me my boyfriend will think I'm bad that's why my mom is treating me like this. I wish I get death before this happen :'(

[Asker]

I always do my best to take care of my parents and I always try my best to make them happy and to make them feel proud. I always respect them and never talk to them even in loud voice.. I always try my best I always do my best to be the best ever daughter..

[Thrifty]

My dad said to me if I wasn't successful that he wouldn't look at me or acknowledge me, but I told him I am going to be successful but since he can't accept me at my worst that he doesn't deserve me at my best.

[Asker]

Thanks and I wish you all the best. May God bless you.

[Asker]

My mom usually scolds me and insults me in front of guests, neighbors, relatives and in front of my friends as well and also in front of strangers. And it makes all those people think that I'm very bad And I can't do anything and it makes me feel so bad. I can't do anything to tell and convince those people that I am not like that and people thinks that I'm really bad that's why my mom is treating me like this. And my dad also sometimes scolds me and abuse me and he says that I'm not worth to live and when my mom scolds me and treats me rudely and badly my dad does not stop her he supports her and encourages her and he makes my mom more aggressive about me.

[Asker]

And even if I try to tell my mom that I feel bad it makes me feel bad it hurts me then my mom treats me more badly, more rudely and scolds me more abuse me more and she says to me that I don't hurt you, you hurt me. My boyfriend is someone who's so respecting and caring about parents, he respects parents so much and he admires me that it is sure that you are a very good daughter the best ever daughter and it is sure that your parents feels so proud of you and so proud and glad to have you so lucky to have you as daughter it's sure that your parents feels so blessed to have a daughter like you.

[Asker]

He trust so much that I'm the best ever daughter and my parents are so proud of me. I'm afraid that my mom will treat me like that in front of him she will say those things those words about me in front of him and he will think that I'm very bad it will make him think that I'm a very bad daughter and I'm not good and may God forbid he will start hating me and stop trusting me. I love him so much I don't want to lose him and don't want to lose his trust otherwise I will really commit suicide. It's obvious that to see my mom's behaviour with me my boyfriend will think I'm bad that's why my mom is treating me like this. I wish I get death before this happen :'(

[Asker]

I always do my best to take care of my parents and I always try my best to make them happy and to make them feel proud. I always respect them and never talk to them even in loud voice.. I always try my best I always do my best to be the best ever daughter.

[Thrifty]

nal Version
"If anyone comes to me and does not hate father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters--yes, even their own life--such a person cannot be my disciple" -Jesus

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[Mesonfielde]

I guess she actually hates herself and she is just projecting.

[Asker]

My mom usually scolds me and insults me in front of guests, neighbors, relatives and in front of my friends as well and also in front of strangers. And it makes all those people think that I'm very bad And I can't do anything and it makes me feel so bad. I can't do anything to tell and convince those people that I am not like that and people thinks that I'm really bad that's why my mom is treating me like this. And my dad also sometimes scolds me and abuse me and he says that I'm not worth to live and when my mom scolds me and treats me rudely and badly my dad does not stop her he supports her and encourages her and he makes my mom more aggressive about me.

[Asker]

And even if I try to tell my mom that I feel bad it makes me feel bad it hurts me then my mom treats me more badly, more rudely and scolds me more abuse me more and she says to me that I don't hurt you, you hurt me. My boyfriend is someone who's so respecting and caring about parents, he respects parents so much and he admires me that it is sure that you are a very good daughter the best ever daughter and it is sure that your parents feels so proud of you and so proud and glad to have you so lucky to have you as daughter it's sure that your parents feels so blessed to have a daughter like you.

[Asker]

He trust so much that I'm the best ever daughter and my parents are so proud of me. I'm afraid that my mom will treat me like that in front of him she will say those things those words about me in front of him and he will think that I'm very bad it will make him think that I'm a very bad daughter and I'm not good and may God forbid he will start hating me and stop trusting me. I love him so much I don't want to lose him and don't want to lose his trust otherwise I will really commit suicide. It's obvious that to see my mom's behaviour with me my boyfriend will think I'm bad that's why my mom is treating me like this. I wish I get death before this happen :'(

[Asker]

I always do my best to take care of my parents and I always try my best to make them happy and to make them feel proud. I always respect them and never talk to them even in loud voice.. I always try my best I always do my best to be the best ever daughter.

[Mesonfielde]

You'll eventually get the resources or means to leave, and you'll never have to come back and be abused for zero reason.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Your life is worth living don' let her shallow minded bring you down

[Asker]

I'm really still crying and I have just tears in my eyes while typing..

[Asker]

Perhaps I'm wrong that's why she behaves like this with me...

[Asker]

:'( ...

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Sweety don't do anything wrong your life is worth everything and I'm sorry she's the way she is

[Asker]

My parents have not any child except me but my mom usually says that how bad luck she has that she does not have any child..

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Please don't die Hunnie

[Asker]

Then my dad says to her that you have a daughter

[Asker]

How sweet of you! Thank you so much <3

[Asker]

Really so sweet of you, thanks a lot..

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

I know it's sad :(
Hey i had parents who were unloving, my dad was son-of-bitch
my mother she was depress cause him and took it out on us kids

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Your welcome Hunnie <3 :D

[Asker]

I'm really so sorry to know this. I can understand your feelings... I'm really so sorry :(
Please don't be upset. May God always bless you. Please take care of yourself be happy and stay positive. God is with you and really you are a very nice gentle person. I pray for you. May God bless you and keep you always safe and happy and give you all the happiness and wellness. May all the best and all the happiness always come to you. My best wishes are always with you sir. Please take good care of yourself always. Keep your beautiful glorious smile on your glorious face ever. Stay happy stay well stay safe stay blessed. God bless you! All the best!

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

All Thank You that was so Beautiful of You <3 :D :) <3

[Asker]

Thanks <3

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Your welcome anytime sweetheart <3

[Asker]

How sweet of you! <3

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Your Welcome Honey <3

[Asker]

How sweet of you. Thank you very very much from the bottom of my heart. Thanks a lot for giving me your most precious ever opinions and most precious ever time. May God always bless you. You are so sweet. Thanks again. May God always bless you.

[Asker]

My mom usually scolds me and insults me in front of guests, neighbors, relatives and in front of my friends as well and also in front of strangers. And it makes all those people think that I'm very bad And I can't do anything and it makes me feel so bad. I can't do anything to tell and convince those people that I am not like that and people thinks that I'm really bad that's why my mom is treating me like this. And my dad also sometimes scolds me and abuse me and he says that I'm not worth to live and when my mom scolds me and treats me rudely and badly my dad does not stop her he supports her and encourages her and he makes my mom more aggressive about me.

[Asker]

And even if I try to tell my mom that I feel bad it makes me feel bad it hurts me then my mom treats me more badly, more rudely and scolds me more abuse me more and she says to me that I don't hurt you, you hurt me. My boyfriend is someone who's so respecting and caring about parents, he respects parents so much and he admires me that it is sure that you are a very good daughter the best ever daughter and it is sure that your parents feels so proud of you and so proud and glad to have you so lucky to have you as daughter it's sure that your parents feels so blessed to have a daughter like you.

[Asker]

He trust so much that I'm the best ever daughter and my parents are so proud of me. I'm afraid that my mom will treat me like that in front of him she will say those things those words about me in front of him and he will think that I'm very bad it will make him think that I'm a very bad daughter and I'm not good and may God forbid he will start hating me and stop trusting me. I love him so much I don't want to lose him and don't want to lose his trust otherwise I will really commit suicide. It's obvious that to see my mom's behaviour with me my boyfriend will think I'm bad that's why my mom is treating me like this. I wish I get death before this happen :'(

[Asker]

I always do my best to take care of my parents and I always try my best to make them happy and to make them feel proud. I always respect them and never talk to them even in loud voice.. I always try my best I always do my best to be the best ever daughter.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

I wish you the best :D

[OlderAndWiser]

I think you need to be in counselling/psychotherapy. Your mother sounds like a witch.

[Asker]

My mom usually scolds me and insults me in front of guests, neighbors, relatives and in front of my friends as well and also in front of strangers. And it makes all those people think that I'm very bad And I can't do anything and it makes me feel so bad. I can't do anything to tell and convince those people that I am not like that and people thinks that I'm really bad that's why my mom is treating me like this. And my dad also sometimes scolds me and abuse me and he says that I'm not worth to live and when my mom scolds me and treats me rudely and badly my dad does not stop her he supports her and encourages her and he makes my mom more aggressive about me.

[Asker]

And even if I try to tell my mom that I feel bad it makes me feel bad it hurts me then my mom treats me more badly, more rudely and scolds me more abuse me more and she says to me that I don't hurt you, you hurt me. My boyfriend is someone who's so respecting and caring about parents, he respects parents so much and he admires me that it is sure that you are a very good daughter the best ever daughter and it is sure that your parents feels so proud of you and so proud and glad to have you so lucky to have you as daughter it's sure that your parents feels so blessed to have a daughter like you.

[Asker]

He trust so much that I'm the best ever daughter and my parents are so proud of me. I'm afraid that my mom will treat me like that in front of him she will say those things those words about me in front of him and he will think that I'm very bad it will make him think that I'm a very bad daughter and I'm not good and may God forbid he will start hating me and stop trusting me. I love him so much I don't want to lose him and don't want to lose his trust otherwise I will really commit suicide. It's obvious that to see my mom's behaviour with me my boyfriend will think I'm bad that's why my mom is treating me like this. I wish I get death before this happen :'(

[Asker]

I always do my best to take care of my parents and I always try my best to make them happy and to make them feel proud. I always respect them and never talk to them even in loud voice.. I always try my best I always do my best to be the best ever daughter...

[Anonymous]

Go see a professional

[Asker]

Means?

[Opinion Owner]

You got to talk to some one and let all the repressed emotions go

[Asker]

Thanks

[Asker]

My mom usually scolds me and insults me in front of guests, neighbors, relatives and in front of my friends as well and also in front of strangers. And it makes all those people think that I'm very bad And I can't do anything and it makes me feel so bad. I can't do anything to tell and convince those people that I am not like that and people thinks that I'm really bad that's why my mom is treating me like this. And my dad also sometimes scolds me and abuse me and he says that I'm not worth to live and when my mom scolds me and treats me rudely and badly my dad does not stop her he supports her and encourages her and he makes my mom more aggressive about me.

[Asker]

And even if I try to tell my mom that I feel bad it makes me feel bad it hurts me then my mom treats me more badly, more rudely and scolds me more abuse me more and she says to me that I don't hurt you, you hurt me. My boyfriend is someone who's so respecting and caring about parents, he respects parents so much and he admires me that it is sure that you are a very good daughter the best ever daughter and it is sure that your parents feels so proud of you and so proud and glad to have you so lucky to have you as daughter it's sure that your parents feels so blessed to have a daughter like you.

[Asker]

He trust so much that I'm the best ever daughter and my parents are so proud of me. I'm afraid that my mom will treat me like that in front of him she will say those things those words about me in front of him and he will think that I'm very bad it will make him think that I'm a very bad daughter and I'm not good and may God forbid he will start hating me and stop trusting me. I love him so much I don't want to lose him and don't want to lose his trust otherwise I will really commit suicide. It's obvious that to see my mom's behaviour with me my boyfriend will think I'm bad that's why my mom is treating me like this. I wish I get death before this happen :'(

[Asker]

I always do my best to take care of my parents and I always try my best to make them happy and to make them feel proud. I always respect them and never talk to them even in loud voice.. I always try my best I always do my best to be the best ever daughter