I am now the step mother of a 15 year old, how should I approach this situation?

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I am engaged to his father who is 33, I moved in about 3 weeks ago. His son is 15years old and lives with us Monday-Friday and goes to his mother's house on weekends. At first he was very awkward and shy around me and didn't really talk much. We we would go to bed he would hug and kiss his father goodnight and just wave at me and say night. One day my fiancé had to work and I was gonna be home all day with him, I thought to myself this is perfect for bonding. I told him that we were gonna hangout and fun and he said ok. We went out to breakfast at Dennys and afterwards went to an amusement park, then back home. He was a lot more talkative this time and laughing and having a good time with me. He then ask me if he could call me mom and I felt so good inside and said of course! We got home and he wanted to go into the pool with me so I went to change into my bikini. When I walked out his eyes lit up as if he's never seen a woman in a bikini before, he said that I looked great and my ass is unbelievable lol so we got into pool and played around and splashed each other and etc... finally I got out and just wanted to tan. His birthday is coming up and I've been wondering what to get him, his dad however told me what he wants and he said all he wants is a night with me! I was fucken shocked! He said he was still a virgin and he has a huge crush on me and he wants me to be his first! His dad said he was ok with it he would rather have me do the honors other then some hooker! His birthday is on Saturday and he wants his present tomorrow night. I told him I would think about it, this is so fucked up I feel so wrong but at the same time I'm not his real mother so? What should I do? 

Thanks for an suggestions and thank you all for reading this

modeve · Accepted Answer

Very interesting situation.
1. The boys is 15, a very dangerous age when sexual desire arises all the time.
2. You are quite young and must be attractive. As you say boy was shy earlier. Once you took him out, chatted and became bit frank (not necessarily that you had any sex in your mind), he wrongly and age desire, thought that you were inclined to him.
3. At home you wore bikini, his eyes glittered, admired your ass, saying that he had never seen a lady in bikini. Can you claim that wearing bikini, getting into pool with him, playing and splashing water to each other was an "innocent" behavior on your part? I am sure somewhere in your mind you wanted to show him your semi-nude body. And you were successful.
4. Again boy got a wrong message about your willingness to have sex.
5. His father also wanted you to have sex with the boy. You have expressed your "shock" only, no protest, no agony, no refusal. What does it mean? To me, it is your silent consent.
Think of your self. If you are a bit inclined to enjoy sex with a virgin, 15 years boy living with you, go ahead, especially when your would-be hubby also wishes for it.

btbc92 · Accepted Answer

I think you should break it off with him. That is crazy! That is technically considered incest, sexual abuse/rape, because you are told it's okay to have sex with a minor! That family is crazy! What was the reason he got divorced from his ex wife? If that get's out, you as well as the father can get arrested, charged then go to jail. If his mother doesn't pick up, then he will end up in foster care. And you can get charged with rape, a sex offender and so forth. You are an adult and he is still basically a child! A consenting 15 year old with a person under 18 is different, depending on the legal age. But NOT with a 15 year old over 18! You better off leaving it all, or break it off. I vote for breaking it off. You know where your values lay. And this is not one of them.

bitter_passenger · Accepted Answer

Oh my God! No! Just no. Your husband is mental for agreeing and your step son is out of his mind, do not. He's underage and you could seriously get in trouble. Having a family like that is not healthy.

ginny_weasley · Accepted Answer

Gross. I am going to wash my mouth out with holy water.

Yumix · Accepted Answer

you're a catfish
you have Raquel Ayala as profile pic and pretended in multiple questions to be her.
https://www.instagram.com/909_raquel/

you did not only get her age wrong, she's 22, but she also posts tons of family stuff so its easy find out that you're posting crap

so this is of course also bullshit, but that was obvious even without knowing that you're a catfish

Regulatus · Accepted Answer

This sounds like it was written by a 15 year old boy describing a video he saw on pornhub.

April10 · Answer

You obviously have a threesome with him and his dad.  Invite his mom and have a real party! Why the hell not right?

Zendrya · Answer

Depending on where you live that would be legal but think it would be wrong because you are so much older.

falafelany1 · Answer

Ew ew ew. Not only is the age difference illegal, but that is so morally wrong ugh

ilovesexyfeet · Answer

In the uk if u live with a step child then sex is illegal if this is for real then run a mile don't look back

Anonymous · Answer

This question is gross , he's a child , and you're planning on having sex with him.. I really hope that the police are contacted with this question if you're being serious. Disgusting

Tenseven · Answer

OMG I can't believe you're even thinking about this. That's disgusting.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Keep away from the whole family coz they're crazy. And carry a bottle of pepper spray when you're around the boy.

Nomad69 · Answer

Do it that kids life will be made you can get double penetrated whenever you want after that if the man is gone lol

TruExo · Answer

As a studying law student, I would advice you do not, anything could happen that boy could press rape charges you never know, If my opinion matters to you that is, in which case do as you please.

Anonymous · Answer

That would be really wrong and will make the situation really weird. Get him on a date with a nice 15 year old girl. If you do this with him now it will fuck him up psychologically and he won't have a respect for women for quite some time.

FantasyGeek05 · Answer

I don't know if this is real or fake but i wanna be in this situation lol

girlinthemirror · Answer

a taboo dreams of 23 yo adult dreaming of 15 yo teen?

Anonymous · Answer

If his dad ok with it you should fuck him in every way you enjoy sex  But they will be a problem he will want to fuck you every time is right

Alyssa1111 · Answer

I am really hoping this is a joke...

MissHope · Answer

Is this even real? 🤔🤔🤔

akadatank44 · Answer

Yeah I'm hoping you stole this from a porno.

Try6Curious9 · Answer

Doesn't seem real, but if it is, wish I were him.

Anonymous · Answer

what the hell

Anonymous · Answer

Just do it

Supersonic_Sex_Ninja · Answer

Fuck, Tht's hot! <3

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