Boyfriend's ex (baby mama) is too close for comfort?

[zombiebetty]

I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and I'm worried about his ex girlfriend (sons mom). I just found out from her that she has a key to his house and came over while he was at work to clean his sons room out. She also buys him cat food and cat litter and expects him to come pick it up from her before he goes to work. She also talks to him everyday and talks to his mother 2x a week or more. She lives with her parents and they haven't been together for 8 years. I just think its strange that she is so close to him and his family. I think its great that they get along for their sons sake, but I think there's a time to draw a line. I just don't know how to go about getting over this. I know 100% that they are not together but they're still too close for my comfort. I've tried to talk to him about it but he gets defensive about it. To add to the drama of my life we just found out that we are going have a baby. If we don't make it I don't want to be known as baby mama #2! Please help I have no idea what to do or what to think!

[wanacot]

You have to realize that his girl has a very large role in his life, she's his son's mother. While they may not be together still, their lives will always be entwined because of his son. Honestly, this doesn't even sound like that bad of a situation. She seems to be helpful. Often you read about some real psychos on here. If you want a lasting relationship with this guy you're going to have to learn to accept that this woman is a part of his life and always will be.