I didn't "cut" anyone out but we all drifted apart very quickly. I mainly saw my main best friend when he was home from college but that only happened a couple of years. I don't talk with or see any of them now.
We drifted apart. Some started lives, getting careers and focusing on marriage and babies. Others just moved. Others just changed a lot to where we didn't fit, anymore.
People change a lot in the late teens and early 20s.
I didn't cut anyone off. It was harder to keep in touch in those days. I worked with some friends from HS. I went to college with some. But over time I lost touch with most. A few are still friends though.
I only had two real friends in high school. We remained friends for another three years. One just disappeared. I can't find him anywhere. And the other just drifted away after I moved to another state. Now I got no friends.
I kept in touch with a couple of them for a short while. I went off to college hundreds of miles away, and soon the connection was lost. I know a girl, who still keeps in touch with a few of her high school friend, after more than ten years.
Didn't really have any friends on high school.. and the few that I did have always said this "I miss you, we need to hang out" and then never tried to make arrangements and never agreed to my arrangements. So all I got is my boyfriend
Lost all the friends I had in the last half of my junior year then when in went back for the last half of my senior year half to make new one. So it was hard to get new friends in five months that are worth keeping. by the way it was a bad freak accident that caused the problem with friends.
I'll be honest, pretty much! You just find there isn't anything really in common with them except the bane of your existence being school. Same with most college friends too.
I kept many of mine because I stayed in the same town to go to college. I did not keep up with the 18 year old sophomore I took to my senior prom. She promised summer sex and then ghosted me.
didn't have many friends from high school so ehh. I am only in contact with one person and she doesn't like me all that much so i just stopped messaging her. I have no friends as of now.
I cut off one & the others disappeared out my life slowly. One because I wouldn't date him and a bunch of other guy friends after they realized I wouldn't sleep with them. I talk to one friend who moved across county, once in a while
I still have a group of four close friends I met before but I also have nearly all of my high school friends on like Snapchat or Instagram. I only talk to them on rare occasions though.
No I'm still in touch with some of them, but it's never my fault really a lot of them changed schools right before final years , we lost touch ever since. But of course you have that thing where neither of you know wether your stills friends and no one says hi first on Facebook!
I didn't cut off any friends who were interested in maintaining a friendship. Unfortunately some of us just drifted apart as other things took priority in our lives.
I wouldn't say I cut them off, I just didn't have a reason to be seeing them anymore. We all went our separate ways and now I occasionally see someone I knew at the grocery store.
i cut them all off haha, its nothing personal, friends are expendible and i do not require them once i have left the city and now have to spend money visiting them.
In my closest friends group - I went to school with most of them and the others met my friends when they went to different schools - I don't have a close male friend of less than 30 years.
I only had one or two close friends and I'm still friends with them. As for acquaintances or friends that I wasn't as close to... they act like they dont know me
I only had five friends from high school. Three of which turned out to be major assholes. One is busy most of the time raising his daughter and the other is my best friend.
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I didn't "cut" anyone out but we all drifted apart very quickly. I mainly saw my main best friend when he was home from college but that only happened a couple of years. I don't talk with or see any of them now.
We drifted apart. Some started lives, getting careers and focusing on marriage and babies. Others just moved. Others just changed a lot to where we didn't fit, anymore.
People change a lot in the late teens and early 20s.
I didn't cut anyone off. It was harder to keep in touch in those days. I worked with some friends from HS. I went to college with some. But over time I lost touch with most. A few are still friends though.
I only had two real friends in high school. We remained friends for another three years. One just disappeared. I can't find him anywhere. And the other just drifted away after I moved to another state. Now I got no friends.
I kept in touch with a couple of them for a short while. I went off to college hundreds of miles away, and soon the connection was lost. I know a girl, who still keeps in touch with a few of her high school friend, after more than ten years.
Didn't really have any friends on high school.. and the few that I did have always said this "I miss you, we need to hang out" and then never tried to make arrangements and never agreed to my arrangements. So all I got is my boyfriend
Lost all the friends I had in the last half of my junior year then when in went back for the last half of my senior year half to make new one. So it was hard to get new friends in five months that are worth keeping. by the way it was a bad freak accident that caused the problem with friends.
I'll be honest, pretty much! You just find there isn't anything really in common with them except the bane of your existence being school. Same with most college friends too.
I kept many of mine because I stayed in the same town to go to college. I did not keep up with the 18 year old sophomore I took to my senior prom. She promised summer sex and then ghosted me.
I never decided to cut anyone off, we just drifted apart or were never that close to begin with.
I stayed very close with 2 of them, my best friends.
didn't have many friends from high school so ehh. I am only in contact with one person and she doesn't like me all that much so i just stopped messaging her.
I have no friends as of now.
I cut off one & the others disappeared out my life slowly. One because I wouldn't date him and a bunch of other guy friends after they realized I wouldn't sleep with them. I talk to one friend who moved across county, once in a while
I still have a group of four close friends I met before but I also have nearly all of my high school friends on like Snapchat or Instagram. I only talk to them on rare occasions though.
No I'm still in touch with some of them, but it's never my fault really a lot of them changed schools right before final years , we lost touch ever since.
But of course you have that thing where neither of you know wether your stills friends and no one says hi first on Facebook!
I didn't cut off any friends who were interested in maintaining a friendship. Unfortunately some of us just drifted apart as other things took priority in our lives.
I wouldn't say I cut them off, I just didn't have a reason to be seeing them anymore. We all went our separate ways and now I occasionally see someone I knew at the grocery store.
i cut them all off haha, its nothing personal, friends are expendible and i do not require them once i have left the city and now have to spend money visiting them.
In my closest friends group - I went to school with most of them and the others met my friends when they went to different schools - I don't have a close male friend of less than 30 years.
I only had one or two close friends and I'm still friends with them. As for acquaintances or friends that I wasn't as close to... they act like they dont know me
I only had five friends from high school. Three of which turned out to be major assholes. One is busy most of the time raising his daughter and the other is my best friend.