My mother is mistreating my step sister. How could I help her?
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Your mom is cruel why would she encourage that.. your step dad is good to you.. your mom should be too! Everyone deserves love no matter who birthed them! Let your mom crumble she's an ugly monster and the man she's with needs to see that.. record the mistreatment stick up for the innocent!
Omg your mom is a horrible, horrible person! I really don't know how you live under one roof with such a monster. You need to step up your age and if you want to be the better person, you need to call the authorities when your mom starts physically and mentally abusing her. You mom needs to know that it is not okay to treat a child that way. Period.
tell her your father or step mother about everything your mother is doing to her or tell your mother you will disown her if she continues to treat her step sister like this - you could also try having your mother thrown in jail because if she is arrested and unable to find employment after being charged with domestic violence, your father will probably divorce her and then she won't be able to bother your step sister again.
Tell the father immediately. Also if you're both 18, you should get away from her.
I'd say find a place for the both of you, maybe the father can help too.
Apologize to your step sister, be good to her, and help her get over it. Confront your mother, that might help her realize the wrong she's been doing, especially if she tries to imagine in your step sister's shoes. If she doesn't come to reason, take real measures, like reporting her to the police and moving out of the house.
She does that because of her own insecurities.
So instead of discussing with her the topic at hand, tell her how stupid she is. Move the conversation to her behavior and the fucked up reasons why she does that.
Don't dive into the play of the verbal games, trying to explain your points. But straight reflect to herself her behavior, like a mirror.
your mom absolutely is a b... sorry but its true
your stepsister was a kid too!!! why did your mom look after her like she was her own kid?
What would happen if her father did the same to you as your mom did her? ThatS NOT FAIR.
Now be yourself! Dont get afraid of your mom! And protect your step SISTER!!! HELP HER! or Tell your step dad this your mom treats her bad !!!
For starters you can not listen to your mom, talk to your step sis, apologize to her about whatever wrong you did, and come clean to her about everything.
She probably needs you more than you realize right now.
Stand up to your mother and support your step sister through this. Who knows? Maybe you'll gain a friend for life.
And I'm sorry, but your mother is not showing love to your step father if she can hate such a crucial part of him. He has to know.
U need to call the police on ur mom and u also need to have proof if she got bruises or scars or anything...
And u need to have ur sister get a protection order against the mom
Both of You when Out on your Own... Don't Go Home... xx
tell your step dad everything and let him find a solution
I know you wouldn’t want to offend your mother but, in that type situation, the best advice I can think of offering is just telling your stepdad and/or sister in private or maybe even just telling your counselors at school. Nothing can be solved if you don’t speak up.
“Have courage and be kind” -Cinderella movie (2015)
Tell your stepfather!! And if he doesn’t do anything, go to the police.
Your mother sounds psychotic, no offence but she is wrong. You might not want to offend your mother but she offended you. if you don't want to be a doormat stand up to your mother.
The only way your a doormat in this situation is if you keep letting your mom abuse your stepsister without doing anything about it. She needs to have this shown to her. She’s beating on someone that’s to afraid to stand up for themselves because she enjoys it and she’s jealous of the attention this girl gets from her dad. Stand up for yourself and your sister. I don’t see a way to do this without upsetting your mom but at this point I’d be more concerned about your sister than her. Also where is your stepdad in all this, is he aware of any of this? If not he needs to be made aware, because this is not ok behavior and it shouldn’t be allowed to continue.
Nice to know you two like each others. Let you mother to know you care of her, that is what you should do. You are a nice person :)
Okay you need to offend your mother and offend her hard. You need to flip her bullshit right back on herself. Bully your mom she deserves it
Report her to social services.
Your 18 move outa home already
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Tell her father right away. I usually never condone hurting women, or people as a whole for that matter, but if I found out that my partner was treating my daughter that way... I'd quite simply beat the shit out of my partner, if someone wasn't there to control me
Your mother sounds like trash, if you're both 18, move out.
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