My dad is committing adultery. What should I do? (Page 2)

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i’m 15 years old, too young? I don’t think so. anyway, a year ago i found out that my dad commits adultery because i’ve seen nudes sent to him from a woman that i’ve never seen before. I’m not sneaky it’s just my eyes accidentally fell on his phone seeing the notification, and the woman was telling him she can’t wait to see him so they can do it again. My dad works in another state and i was alone with him, i was sick and i couldn’t move from bed. Despite all that, he went to that woman. I couldn’t forgive him since then and i couldn’t forget, seeing how other fathers treat their daughters hurt me sooooo much that i refused to go out with any of my friends if their father was present. And time passed and now i’m alone with him again. I thought everything changed but i still see him texting women and sending them nudes. I feel so bad for my myself and my mom too. I always thought my dad was a fighter because he always worked far away from home to save more money so that he could provide us a good living, until i found out what i’ve never thought about. Other than cheating on mom, he’s committing adultery, so sad that he left me so sick, home alone, just to go and have sex with another woman. please tell me what to do but i want any solution other than telling my mom i don’t want to hurt her.

ThisIsMyOpinion · Answer

What do you mean "how other fathers treat their daughters"? Anyway you need to tell your mother. It will hurt her, but it's the right thing to do

Anonymous · Answer

I would tell my mom i did that when she was married

Daddybeardance · Answer

Attempts to change others is a form of violence not love. Who he is with is his life let him live it his way you love him that means accepting him unconditionally.

ImagineSketchy · Answer

You should stay out of it honestly. It isn't your place to interfere.

AngelLily · Answer

You have to tell your mom she deserves to know she deserves better you deserve better.

Anonymous · Answer

blackmail him. I wouldn't care if my father committed adultery since well my mom is a bitch and i want my father to find someone better. But ljke yea you should blackmail ur dad. Get money. Computers. New phones. Clothes. All sweet shite.

Freezer110 · Answer

Take it easy, if its just sex he won't leave you and your mom. The perfect man has never been born, same for perfect woman.

Justbeyouandbehappy_ · Answer

The truth always has a way of coming out you should tell her. Chances are that she already knows

vald9inches · Answer

talk to him about it but people general need change in their sex life

robertKugler · Answer

She might know already... or suspect.. N just put up with it.. she might have a side gig too... if u want I'll tell her

Gabri94 · Answer

Maybe it would help talking to himself. Maybe not personally but u could get help from some really good friend/s of the family. I hope it ends well

Thatsamazing · Answer

... Didn't you just ask this like two weeks ago or something?

ChiPaPa · Answer

It's too late. Tell your mom. HE HURT HER, NOT YOU.

Cruizer · Answer

I'm Sorry, but you have to murder him. It's the only way.

samael_kmarty · Answer

Tell him that what he is into is wrong. If he doesn't then get away from him.

Shamalien · Answer

You absolutely have to tell your mom, you're old enough to do the right thing

Anonymous · Answer

can u confront him first? or are u too worried to do so?

Anonymous · Answer

you're old enough to talk this matter through like a grown up lady... talk privately, if it doesn't work tell your mom...

Iron_Man · Answer

You have no choice but to talk to your father and your mother about it you can't go on like this

hafinjun · Answer

my questions wheres mom if she was abandoned by dad while sick and what were you sick with

_dude_ · Answer

Leave it. Regardless of your age, it´s your parent´s private matter.

jonty69 · Answer

Talk with your dad about this. That this is cheating. Polietely. If you have not spoke with your dad about this

Anonymous · Answer

You should tell your mom because you know and if she found out another way that could be a problem

Anonymous · Answer

his dick his choice... dont interfare he wanna fuck women let him

Evslarg · Answer

Tell your mom. It'll hurt, but it'll hurt the least.

angeledgar · Answer

Don't be sick. Forgive him. Don't think about self. Don't commit adultery.

chazzknox · Answer

Blackmail him to get what you want then tell your mom

FreakingFreaky · Answer

Blackmail him. Make him do nasty things. Use him.

manmeat · Answer

join in with him and her?

Guanfei · Answer

Get proofs, show to your mom, live with her.

Bismarck_96 · Answer

How long have they’ve been separated?

PrinceOfAljazeera · Answer

mind your damn business woman.

BIGBOSSTRAPSTAR · Answer

avenge your mother by being the worst bad girl

jondaddy0816 · Answer

Try and steal his girl

daddy4ugirl · Answer

I don't know message me?

Anonymous · Answer

A man cheating? Why would anyone be surprised?

baerose · Answer

Tell your mom

Agape93 · Answer

Tell your mom

Matt6013 · Answer

Mind your own business kid

jonnyboy1974 · Answer

Have a talk with your dad

lemongrabswife · Answer

Tell your mother

Anonymous · Answer

she has a right to know

Kelly6 · Answer

Nothing

Anonymous · Answer

it will eventually come out shhhh

ChefCurry · Answer

What a sad story

Anonymous · Answer

tell your Mother

esotericstory · Answer

tell your mom.

CosTanSin · Answer

call 911.

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