My dad is cheating. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

He is 56, my mom is a few years younger. Pretty sure they don't have a open relationship.

Saw him on tinder the other day, so after that I looked at his messages... I don't think he met anyone recently, but been trading videos with some bitches.

What should I do? I used to respect him, but now I can only look at him in disgust

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1 y

I don't want to ruin their marriage, I just wanted him to stop, maybe try having a talk with him first?

[Bolty44]

If he is only trading then just let him be it's just like watching porn onoine... don't ruin your relationship for that its gonna be so awkward everyday after you talk about that to him, but If he really starts to go out then you can talk with your mom and then set a family meeting to sit and talk about it and take decisions.

[NotTacocaT6969]

At that age, people can start to get bored sexually and also tired of whatever porn or outside source of stimulation they once relied on.


It could be as simple as him deciding that trading porn with strangers online is the new rush he needs in his life.


Or, he could be headed down a narrow road that leads to cheating…


Talking to him about it might make him delete his profile though. Lol I know I would if one of my family members saw me. Lol

[SiberFox]

Talk to him, and give him an ultimatum, either he stops or you tell.

[Wise4myage]

I say stay out of it unless you solid proof.

[Asker]

Messages, videos, GPS at the position after sending it on WhatsApp, I think it is solid proof

[Wise4myage]

Then do what you feel is necessary.

[In_Trance]

You lost me at "pretty sure"

This is not your business

[Googlemyahoo]

Maybe they have an open relationship