Its really your parent's business. But the fact that both you and your brother know about this and didn't tell your father will be held against the both of you later. What really bothers me is when your mother slapped you across your face. Shows she cannot reason and gives up to temptations.
Some mobile companies have all the histories recorded once you login to the user's account online showing all text messages and all call histories that cannot be deleted.
There are 2 options you can do.
1. Pretend not to know and wait until your father finds out.
Or
2. Both you and your brother tell your father. Let him do some investigation as your mother deletes evidence from her phone.
Once you tell your father, there might be a possibility for separation or divorce.
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It sucks i am sorry, but it's best not to get involved. I really think the fact that she slapped you is even worse. That also tells me that you can't reason with her. I'm so sorry
You should talk to her and tell her that if she doesn't talk to your dad about it then you will
My advice is, be in a good relationship with ur dad, do not tell him anything about what you have seen. Ask him if he loves your mom and ask questions but DO NOT tell him what you have seen. Your mom will eventually understand that you are on his side. Then, she will have to come clean, as long as you don't have evidence, there is no point discussing it with him. understand?
If you think that is bad. Imagine when your dad finds out (and he will) cheaters always slip up. And he finds out you knew a didn't say anything. It would feel like you would be picking a side by telling him but it the grand scheme of it all... It's never a bad thing to do the right thing. Even if it sucks sometimes.
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You don't need an ounce of proof. Your dad will believe you and confront your mom which will most likely cause a whole lot of fighting and drama but it's better than living day to day knowing that your mom is pulling some stunt like this
Gatheryhe proof in first place and then talk to her (without letting her know that u have the proof)... get to know what her intentions are and then decide whether to tell your dad or not
tell your father. by not telling him... well, it's basically a threesome-meaning, you become just as guilty
I wouldn't do anything. Not your business and eventually, your dad will find out anyway. This way you're not involved in it, aside that it's your parents.
There's a number of reasons why your Mum is cheating on your father! It could be that she's bored in her marriage and needs to spice up her life, your father isn't having sex with her and looking after sexual needs, she may be feeling lonely etc...
Best to keep out of it because you don't want to be in the middle of the storm that might happen if your Mum gets caught out by your Dad!You know she's seeing others.
What you may not know is why, or what the nature of the intimate relationship between your parents is.Is best to let him find out on his own rather than you telling him because your mother would not like you for telling him but if you prefer your dad tell him
Realize she is your mom if u agree or not ur little ass goin to be her spittn immage so learn how she cheats be there to know how she gets causght u go tell u fuk urself with both parents keep tht mouth zipped so ur dad doesn't resent u but watch her down fall so u dnt do tht later
Just get with your brother and tell your dad what transpired. Tell him you know you don't have proof, but your experience should be enough. Then step back and allow him to decide what to do next
It is difficult but stay out of it. She is your mother but she is also a woman who has needs sadly your father many not be giving what your mother wants..
Make sure its on her phone screen shot and send to yourself to show dad or just tell your dad once you know its on her phone. Its not fair to him he needs to know.
Just tell your dad. And then stay out of it.
The best thing is to do nothing. If you do anything, you will have to pick one parent to support and lose the other parent.
tell your dad what you know and what has happened. leave the rest to him
It's their problem , not yours. Get some popcorn for this show
media.giphy.com/media/Z0tFWbRWGwwTe/giphy.gifits easy get one your girlfriends to hook up with your dad...
Tell him and things will work out for the best
You both need to tell your dad.
Tell your father.
Till your dad he has to know and leave it to him
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