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Would you rather your partner be a loner or should they have a lot of friends AND WHY? (Page 2)
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I'd rather choose either first too option, was thinking about this the other day, got to the point where I realised a wedding with bridegroom and mates would be a little undersized lol
As a kid my fam wanted to force me to invite everyone to my wedding. It was 143-175 people on just my side. When i narrowed it down to who i actually wanted there, it was only 20 people on my side. My bridesmaid/men would be siblings/cousins
Yeah I'd prefer to just get married without the ceremony and just have a better honeymoon with the money.
Like don't u think it's weird having cousins in those positions?
No because my cousins have been my friends since birth. I want thte ceremony more than the reception lol. Im willing to drop $8-15k for a small wedding with 50 guests
A loner.. Because then it'll be just you and them.. So romantic..
Yes 😍🙌
❤️❤️
Yes absolutely! A quiet house with the glow of the tv in the dark.
@Darknut omg yes and some candles lit
Yes. Nobody there bothering you etc
@Darknut unless its my dude
With that, I take it you're still with this fella that you mentioned awhile back?
@Darknut who me? Nope
I just wondered was all.
My feeling says B but I'd be okay with dating any girl I feel a click with :D
I would rather she have friends, hangout with them and then come and share her fun filled day with me. Because that would keep her in a good mood and her mood would reflect on mine.
Really don't have a preference regarding this. You should always put in the effort and time for one another no matter what your situation.
Yea but some dont
I have never thought about that, I am more of a loner in my spare time, when that happens
Thats nice in my opinion
It helps I don't get as much as I would like I am hoping that changes. Not dating I seriously seem to be naked too much and most of the time in people's presence
I’d want what’s gonna be best for him. We all need some space sometimes , I’m fine with his friends or him being by himself.
i would rather date a loner that why we have a lot of time together besides work
Yes i agree
Both people are different. Having a partner who is who you expect is security rather then, randomness. So loner or outgoing works. All about the compromise.
Having lots of friends is not a problem but I don't like it when she ignores me to spend time with them.
Yea that would piss me off
doesn't really matter to me to be honest. Fine with either way.
It doesn't matter to me. I would love them just the same either way.
It doesn't matter to me. If she's a loner, then we'd both have that in common; if she had lots friends, her friends might be mine too.
I'd want him to have a few good friends. I will never date any guy that is too popular/sociable and has too many friends.
Yep, a few good friends would be best, that way I can hide occasionally whilst she sees them :)
I say she should have few friends if she loner I might give her chance their could reason why she single. If she had 4/5 real friends.
i would prefer her to have some friends so that i am not the only person that she interacts with
Thats not the case tho. Read update
that is understandable, that is needed in the end. well being able to make yourself happy would always be needed
I've noticed it for some years now, women see it as a red flag more than men do if someone is a loner and is not that outgoing, not that social or has little or no friends.
Well im different. I like a loner
I read factors about it, they say that a lot of women, find men who are loners, as lacking social proof, they think, if he is a loner, then he must not be desired by a lot of people, so why should I desire him?
Hmm yea i dont see it that way
well that's great and awesome to know, but I assume you are probably old-fashioned when it comes to relationships though, as in, you expect the guy to make the first move
Im old fashioned but i make thre first moves a lot these past 3 years and im loving it. However, he needs to make moves after like the first couple weeks. I like being domnant in the relationship but i like him to be dominant in the bedroom and protective in the streets
ya i'm talking about in terms of starting the relationship, the beginning, such as introducing yourself first, asking out first, etc.
Yea im fine with that. I love to talk 🤷♀️
so you would never approach a guy?
I said i would and i do. What are you not seeing?
I guess i'm just used to the belief that most women are stubborn and adamant about their refusal to make a move on a guy first or ask him out first, even if they are really attracted to him or really want him
We’re not all the same but yea the majority are that way
ya it sucks and its unfortunate
Im a loner and trust me you wouldn't. There is a reason we are loners, we are not wanted by society and we do not want society in return.
In a loner myself. I am wanted by society but i just dont care much for them
ok then i guess im just unwanted due to faggot
Even though I have lot of friends I prefer loneliness. I would prefer girl with smaller circle of friends.
Quality of friends is important than quantity.
Some friends, no friends at all makes me question them, my ex didn't have any and well there you go good example
Im an ambivert. I had lots of “friends” but few close ones that I actually trusted til there were finally none that intrust. So even tho people love to surround me, i dont like to be surrounded by them for long and so i prefer to be a loner
Don't bring your friends around me true playa for real ask my buddy pharell
😂😂😂😂
They can have lots of friends, but I'm not gonna force them.
i will accept him as he wants to be, cuz love is accept the other without changing anything, i will adapt myself with his choice cuz this will make him happy and i want him happy
I am fine with a loner as well as with someone who has few friends.
My gal ran all my friends off. I now see how insignificant friends really were.
Do u miss them
I did at first. But now I prefer no friends.
I'd prob rather date a loner because they're loyal and value relationships more.
My girlfriend is pretty popular
And you like that?
I have to make do as its part of her job
@lemia true
Lot of friends because I got none
Don’t eat at an empty restaurant
Correction:
“Don’t eat at a CRAPPY restaurant.”
There’s a ton of people eating a McDonald’s, Burger King, and Dunkin Donuts, but does that mean these are good restaurants? No, of course not.
The restaurant needs to be judged by the merits and quality of the food not by the patrons. Now, the patrons can be a proxy for the quality of the food, but it’s more so an indirect or spurious relationship because there could be many reasons why people are at a restaurant unrelated to the actual class, health and quality of the food.
It’s a phrase that has a deeper meaning then it’s face value. The point is - don’t date a loner. Date someone who has good relationships with others and enjoys having solid friendships.
Furthermore I said restaurant not fast food chain.
Remember these are opinions 😊
I would not recommend eating at an empty fast food chain if that’s your concern... I don’t eat fast food though it’s processed and unhealthy
Im sociable, likeable and get along well with others. But i dont care to commit to a friendship with someone im not gonna marry etc
@Coloradomtnman2
What I’m saying is, just because a restaurant is occupied doesn’t mean it’s good, just like someone who has a lot “friends” and “relationships” is intrinsically good. It’s better to just judge the actual person or restaurant without reference to other indirect measures like how many people dine at this place, how many friends they have, etc.
Yes, McDonald’s is still technically a restaurant unfortunately. It should be a poison den to be honest lol.
I'm extroverted so I prefer not to date a loner.
But loners can be extroverts too... just withh the right one. Thats how i am 🤷♀️
I don't get it? How lol?
I like to keep to myself because im not a people person UNLESS its someone im dating. I can be myself when with them or when alone by myself haha
Hmm but then are you clingy to him?
The guy usually clings to me and i love it. But like i said im a loner so i like my alone time a lot as well
So you do a lot of things alone?
Yes but not because i have to. Its because i love to. My friends and parents ask to join but i like to be alone
Interesting. Im the opposite lol. I need people around.
I mean i need people to share the deets with but thats about it 😂 im not a good friend
Lol you're one of those 😂😂😂
Yes lol which is why im better off friendless cause i focus on myself and my probs too much 😂
Lol but you can focus on their problems too? Don't they give you the deets too?
Im a bad listener 😂
Lmao 😂
@DizzyDesii is correct. I'm confident, at work bosses get on me for socializing too much with many people, get along great with nearly all, am funny, entertaining, but have 10 contacts in my phone, at home will read, write, meditate, and many other things, but almost never socialize outside work.
I don't want hassles from superficial relationships, but at the same time to create as positive an experience as I can, while around others (laugh, smile, etc.), without selfish expectations, or strings attached, which can't be said of many I've met.
@chris0977 yes right on!!
a loner. Romanovs never had any friends,
Both A and B are cool. C isn't.
Yes cause Iam a loner too.
Nice :)
better loner than having fake friends
Yes 👏👏👏
Both cuz both are awesome in their own ways
Because I'm the loner
I don't care at all💕
I'm si jealous so i think i own him ❤❤
😂😂😂
Yeah sometimes this feeling make me laugh 😂😂
You nailed it
Thanks
Am a loner myself
I get more me time 🤷♀️😂
So do I
Don't care.
either