Yes, that is DEFINITELY a very unpredictable situation!
Very true! Living alone is much more fun!
Absolutely, but I think one guy doesn't fe that way.
Some people are unable to live alone.
I hear you, luv.
Thanks for the love, hun
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Sorry about your loss. But I’m glad you’re in a happy and stable relationship now!
Thank you, Flower.
I’m glad you gained more control over your life and don’t let emotions get the best of you.
Thanks for showing me your apartment! It's a very good idea to get as much help as you can from your family to make sure you don't run out of funds for your rent and bills. Are you an only child? You mentioned being alone when you were growing up.
I’m guessing your friend lives in LA? That sounds like LA prices.
Yep, right! She told me and the price shocked to me. I say holysh*t im fucking die.
I can see why you would prefer to live alone now.
Also when I married her my credit score was 760, but after she pulled her crap it was below 500. Everything was in my name and she intentionally tried to ruin my life. Her and her mother lied to the courts to try to get me charged with a felony. I never did anything, but that did not stop them from lying. The judge did not buy it though.
What felony did they accuse you of?
She tried to get me for domestic abuse. She yelled at me, I yelled back.
I’m glad the courts didn’t believe that you did that.
Exactly, she always plays the victim. I found out so much during the divorce.
Have you been divorced for a long time?
She cheated on me in May 2016, filed for divorce 3 days later. Divorce was final in Nov 2017.
Ok, that’s pretty recent then.
Why was the marriage so short? Were the two of you just not getting along?
Her only goal was to acquire money so after marriage she made it clear that I need to pay her good money as maintennce and she will spend her night with multiple sex partners and I should not interfere with her freedom and her way of life So I kept my money and left her
Wow, that was a horrible situation to be in. And you had no hints beforehand that she was like this? Had you dated for a long time before getting married?
After my parents died, I was not ready for marriage but at 25 my relatives said its necessary and they arranged the marriage, I didn't know her at all before marriage, I was not I a good state of mind at that time, possibly my relatives thought she was a okish girl, coz she looked well and had cosmetic implants and all, My parents died when I was 16 i got free from my wife when I was 26 so those 10 years are a time I don't want to think about,
She’s lucky to have you.
An animal is a good halfway point between living with someone and living alone.
I do feel like most people create stress and drain energy when living with them.
@Flower7 Sounds like you get the wrong kind of people in your life to live with.If personality is off in certain areas it will be draining since a lot of people can't lay of with doing thing's to mess with the other one.It's a immature trait many do subconsciously. sometimes consciously.Some people can't stand anyone. like those that was called hermit in the past.Even those can tolerate people that doesn't trigger them.Do you have any disorder like Autism or ADHD?
I suspect some form of autism but I’m not sure. That’s not something that’s checked for or cared about in adults.
@Flower7 Probably depends on where you live and if it's a problem for you and diagnose gonna help.
I’m in the USA.
The land of overdiagnosis. especially if you have a proper insurance or a lot of money.
I have neither.
You’re right to be cautious. Things can very easily go wrong in the situation of living with someone.
Yeah and the lack of alone time and privacy scares me.. or that we will fight over a lot of things and weaponized incompetence etc.
It's never a good situation when you have to put "family" in quotation marks!
True, but still some people don't understand it.
Cats are always nice roommates. 💕
Yes they are! I don't know what I'd do without mine, they are so much fun!
Animals are a great replacement for people lol.
That makes sense. The particular person can definitely make living together more or less enjoyable.
Always be sure to pick carefully on dating apps or blind dates in the future from friends in real life as to who'd be the right woman to live with romantically. Some people can gel. Some people should just never gel. So sorry to hear of the upbringing, I know those feels. But it shows us both the qualities a man doesn't want in a future woman as a silver lining 😅😅😅👍
@pickedcrisps Yeah lol