You got yourself in this mess, which is apparent since you are saying "my baby daddy" not "my husband". Marriage exists for a reason, and having children out of wedlock is stigmatized for a reason. This sounds harsh, but you need to face reality and admit that you screwed up too (As we get older, we find out that we are not in fact smarter than every generation that came before us). Your best bet is to get him to marry you (better late than never), and start a proper family. He is not going to feel any real obligation being called "baby daddy".
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You need to get child support from him, even if this means taking him to court. This is for the good of the child.
Just go apply for child support. It looks like he may not try to help you so might as well make him help by law. It takes two to make a person, he can’t run from this.
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You can sue him. That'll wake his ass up
Also, he only has to be pay for child support until the kid is 18. After that, good luckTake legal action. They'll stop him for you.
Why haven’t you got court ordered child support?
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