How do I become more approachable?

[kethhhh]

[thomual]

No details? Well it depends on what you look like. What you wear. Are you grotesquely ugly, average or frighteningly beautiful? Each would have a different solution for being more approachable.

If your ugly, sexy yourself up with clothes and hygene. Wear makeup and revealing or form fitting clothes every day. Style your hair at the salon at least once a month, and consider dying your hair a natural or fun color like blonde, strawberry, silver, or pink. Avoid black, cherry red, green, blue, and brown. Platinum is a maybe depending on your look and personality. Remember to make eye contact and smile.

If you're too beautiful, wear cute but modest clothes and only wear sexy clothes on dates, white color job settings, and special occasions. Then leave your hair messy, and dont wear makeup. Dont go TOO overboard, you dont want to make yourself ugly, you want that average approachable sweet spot.

If you are already average then go fashionable, but not sexy. Dye your hair an exotic color like silver, pink, blue green, or purple. Avoid platinum, blonde, red, and brown. You can style your hair as best as possible if you are average. Then just remember to make eye contact and smile. The rest is easy.

[thomual]

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[MrOracle]

You have to be a bit more outgoing and you need to seem fun and happy. Smile at people, let them see you laughing and having fun, maintain a positive attitude, and do your best not to be offended by relatively minor rudeness.

Introduce yourself to people, and look them in the eyes. Break the touch barrier - shake hands, pat people on the shoulder, and if you are more friendly, hug them or touch their hand or arm when you talk to them.

If you go to a party or gathering, walk around the room and say hello to everyone and/or introduce yourself. Be very casual about it and light-hearted - if someone is rude, brush it off with a smile and keep working the room.

All of these things will make you more approachable and attractive to other people. Everyone wants to be around positive, happy, fun people.

[btbc92]

Don't worry about being approacable. People will judge you no matter what you do. I have learned that if people want to really get to know you, they would. If they don't, it's not you, it's them. Worrying about who wants to approach or not will just make you miserable.

[_Jay_]

wear nice clothes. wash your body. And teeth. And hair. maybe throw some skin care into you routine.

[kethhhh]

Okay
I'll start washing my body now

[Daniel3035]

Keep sitting there and wait to be approached I'm sure it will hit you, girls, eventually that us guys aren't going to approach you anymore and deal with your shit.
Him: Hey hows it going?
Her: What's it to you. or I have a boyfriend. or leave me alone creep.
We're not dealing with that rubbish as if you girls have everything to offer when it's us who's paying for that mortgage and the food you eat when you're pregnant and unable to work.

You want a guy get off your lazy ass and work for us for once.

[kethhhh]

Omg
I didn't put the question under the dating category for a reason.

[Daniel3035]

Same applies for friends.

[lightbulb27]

The best way to do that is to be your best self. The easy way to do that is do things you enjoy doing, walk in confidence and be positive. Look/smell/sound good.

develop confidence around people by practicing and working on yours self esteem.

[Anonymous]

Smile, eye contact. Think if you were doing it to someone, what would you want to see? Make it look like you want them to approach. But on the subject of you doing it, you should! lol Seriously. Approach guys you are interested in. At least go up and say hi and try and strike up a conversation. This shows him interest, nothing more.

[crazy8000]

Approach yourself.
Attitude.
How you behave.
Open and approachable non verbal cues.
Show non verbal signals that you are attracted to the person you're after.
How you treat other's gives signals if you are approachable, for instance, if you are unfriendly or aren't nice to people that doesn't mean a thing to you or those you dont like, you get deemed badly by most people in their subconscious, high risk individual.

[Anonymous]

Be more social, participate in different social activities, make as much friends as possible and smile
But you see these qualities can easily make you more approachable but I really wanna know why you want to be more approachable

[kethhhh]

I don't really know why

[Opinion Owner]

You don’t have to be more approachable
According to me being more aloof people are the ones who attract more attention and gain more respect
I’ve experienced it

[Browneye57]

Grow up a little first. My god, you're barely past childhood.

[kethhhh]

Yeah!😂

[Boppy]

If you have a favorite book, show, game, school subject, philosopher, etc.

A little pin or sticker can show it to the world, and give people something easy to start off with when approaching you.

[Substantialman]

Definitely makes my day if a female smiles. Be yourself relax. You can be approachable in many ways calm, attention seeking etc everyone's different. Make eye contact think like an interviewer or sales person or leader or good friend.

[Substantialman]

I lacked all those when I was a teen. I was very shy. I was approachable though as I was calm, kind and happy from the outward appearance.

[JimmyQ]

Wear a name tag. You think I'm joking? Get out in the public view. I guarantee, you will be shaped up before you know what hit you.

[JimmyQ]

I hate word "correct". that was "snapped up"

[Anonymous]

Why do you think you are not as approachable as you want to be now?

[kethhhh]

I don't know

[Opinion Owner]

I just mean like has someone told you you're not approachable? At your age guys are very shy and insecure and that makes it hard to approach girls, even if they really want to. Chances are you're not the problem.

[kethhhh]

Nobody has called me unapproachable but I believe that I am!
I actually agree with the second part of your answer..

[Opinion Owner]

I'll share something I've learned since I was your age. I was very insecure when I was 17 and I was sure there were a thousand things wrong with me, and if anyone knew who I REALLY was they wouldn't want anything to do with me.

That's how people your age think. Every 17 year old thinks there is something wrong with them. That's a fact, even if they don't let on to it (and they rarely do). That's the problem with comparing your inners with other people's outers. You have no idea what is going on inside their heads, and if you knew, you would feel much, much better about yourself.

Now I know you're thinking "yeah, that may be true of others, but not me because there really IS something wrong with me". Trust me, there's not. You are perfect. You're just judging yourself because others are too insecure to approach you. That's not because of you, that's because of them.

Hang in there.

[kethhhh]

Wow
Thanks!

[TPtreasures]

Be yourself, smile, be kind, have a big heart and anyone will fall for you!! :)

[sweattdogg]

Just be yourself and your god-given personality will shine through.

[Meatunnel69]

Join a group of people your age doing stuff you enjoy try meetup website

[MannySimms]

Another easy one!

[Mystery_World]

It's simple just Smile always... trust me it works wonderfully. Smile solves everything.

[Jamie05rhs]

Are you sure that's what you want?

[kethhhh]

Why?

[Jamie05rhs]

Because most girls get sick of guys approaching them all the time.

[jenn11161986]

Smile more not to the point that you look stupid

[Jltakk]

People flock to me, but never for relationship reasons. Gets tiresome

[JimmyQ]

You're probably fat and out of shape. Aggressive females want aggressive males. If you are tired and lazy, no wonder no one wants you except maybe your dog, and then only for food.

[ThisIsMyOpinion]

Start approaching yourself.

[pretty_bad]

This is a question i need answers for myself too

[Anonymous]

Go and speak to people.

[Tru-陳]

and smile

[frecious]

Let your radiance do the work

[gigglesexe]

Be yourself.

[GreenGold1992]

try smiling more

[justunlh]

Say hello. Ez

[-alexander_delarge-]

Just smile.

[CrzyBtchN40]

Smile more