No details? Well it depends on what you look like. What you wear. Are you grotesquely ugly, average or frighteningly beautiful? Each would have a different solution for being more approachable.
If your ugly, sexy yourself up with clothes and hygene. Wear makeup and revealing or form fitting clothes every day. Style your hair at the salon at least once a month, and consider dying your hair a natural or fun color like blonde, strawberry, silver, or pink. Avoid black, cherry red, green, blue, and brown. Platinum is a maybe depending on your look and personality. Remember to make eye contact and smile.
If you're too beautiful, wear cute but modest clothes and only wear sexy clothes on dates, white color job settings, and special occasions. Then leave your hair messy, and dont wear makeup. Dont go TOO overboard, you dont want to make yourself ugly, you want that average approachable sweet spot.
If you are already average then go fashionable, but not sexy. Dye your hair an exotic color like silver, pink, blue green, or purple. Avoid platinum, blonde, red, and brown. You can style your hair as best as possible if you are average. Then just remember to make eye contact and smile. The rest is easy.
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You have to be a bit more outgoing and you need to seem fun and happy. Smile at people, let them see you laughing and having fun, maintain a positive attitude, and do your best not to be offended by relatively minor rudeness.
Introduce yourself to people, and look them in the eyes. Break the touch barrier - shake hands, pat people on the shoulder, and if you are more friendly, hug them or touch their hand or arm when you talk to them.
If you go to a party or gathering, walk around the room and say hello to everyone and/or introduce yourself. Be very casual about it and light-hearted - if someone is rude, brush it off with a smile and keep working the room.
All of these things will make you more approachable and attractive to other people. Everyone wants to be around positive, happy, fun people.
Don't worry about being approacable. People will judge you no matter what you do. I have learned that if people want to really get to know you, they would. If they don't, it's not you, it's them. Worrying about who wants to approach or not will just make you miserable.
wear nice clothes. wash your body. And teeth. And hair. maybe throw some skin care into you routine.
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Keep sitting there and wait to be approached I'm sure it will hit you, girls, eventually that us guys aren't going to approach you anymore and deal with your shit.
Him: Hey hows it going?
Her: What's it to you. or I have a boyfriend. or leave me alone creep.
We're not dealing with that rubbish as if you girls have everything to offer when it's us who's paying for that mortgage and the food you eat when you're pregnant and unable to work.
You want a guy get off your lazy ass and work for us for once.The best way to do that is to be your best self. The easy way to do that is do things you enjoy doing, walk in confidence and be positive. Look/smell/sound good.
develop confidence around people by practicing and working on yours self esteem.Smile, eye contact. Think if you were doing it to someone, what would you want to see? Make it look like you want them to approach. But on the subject of you doing it, you should! lol Seriously. Approach guys you are interested in. At least go up and say hi and try and strike up a conversation. This shows him interest, nothing more.
Approach yourself.
Attitude.
How you behave.
Open and approachable non verbal cues.
Show non verbal signals that you are attracted to the person you're after.
How you treat other's gives signals if you are approachable, for instance, if you are unfriendly or aren't nice to people that doesn't mean a thing to you or those you dont like, you get deemed badly by most people in their subconscious, high risk individual.Be more social, participate in different social activities, make as much friends as possible and smile
But you see these qualities can easily make you more approachable but I really wanna know why you want to be more approachableGrow up a little first. My god, you're barely past childhood.
If you have a favorite book, show, game, school subject, philosopher, etc.
A little pin or sticker can show it to the world, and give people something easy to start off with when approaching you.Definitely makes my day if a female smiles. Be yourself relax. You can be approachable in many ways calm, attention seeking etc everyone's different. Make eye contact think like an interviewer or sales person or leader or good friend.
Wear a name tag. You think I'm joking? Get out in the public view. I guarantee, you will be shaped up before you know what hit you.
Why do you think you are not as approachable as you want to be now?
Be yourself, smile, be kind, have a big heart and anyone will fall for you!! :)
Just be yourself and your god-given personality will shine through.
Join a group of people your age doing stuff you enjoy try meetup website
Another easy one!
It's simple just Smile always... trust me it works wonderfully. Smile solves everything.
Are you sure that's what you want?
Smile more not to the point that you look stupid
People flock to me, but never for relationship reasons. Gets tiresome
Start approaching yourself.
This is a question i need answers for myself too
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