It's not necessarily an issue of him taking you for granted. There is a good chance that his goodbye with his buddies was initially similar in length your goodbye and they just thought of something fun to do. The fact that his guy buddies blow him off all the time may mean that he is more likely to hang with them longer when he can.
I occasionally have extendeed periods of time (days at a time) where I hang with my boys just because I like relaxing with em. I don't necessarily think this is something to worry about unless he is changing plans to avoid hanging with you and instead hanging with his friends. It doesn't seem like this is the case, and instead just something more like he had to finish a lengthy conversation he was having with them or they had a funny story to tell him, or they were making plans for when he got back.
I get sidetracked when hanging with my friends all the time, and it is never meant as a slight to my gf
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Would you be willing to have your emotions be more like what a guy has? Would you be willing to be a tomboy, to stop menstruating in order to be more like your boyfriend? If so, tell your gynecologist you want a prescription for "Seasonale."
It isn't normal guy behavior, it is the behavior of a guy who just isn't making you a priority and doesn't find any value in doing so. He is getting more of an emotional charge from his friends than from you. In your age group, hey, not surprising and maybe it will continue to be okay with you for now, but over time a guy that just is not able to put us as his top priority versus his friends or his work or any other thing, well it will wear on you. Oh, and they usually cannot change it up. I ended up divorced after 13 years of coming 2nd or 3rd place. I will never accept that again. Good luck!
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He has more fun with his friends than with you.
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