Is it ok to give people a taste of their own medicine?

[hopefulecynic]

For instance, you have a good friend who dissapears, is unresponsive or ignores you then comes around acting y'all are tight again.

If I purposely start to do the same thing to them, is that mean or vindictive?

[Unit1]

Sounds justified to me. Always make sure you can handle your own medicine in most dosages before giving it to the others. And make sure to return the favors (or the opposite of favors).

[DiversityHire]

Only if you believe that two wrongs make a right, in which case perhaps you have some maturing to do.

[hopefulecynic]

What wouldn you so in a situation like that?

[DiversityHire]

I would drop them from my social circle. I would still be friendly with them, but they would no longer be someone I felt I could count on.

[hopefulecynic]

That was kinda what I was thinkin. Just slowly distancing myself.
I'm not trying to get back at anyone. But I do want to respond less and less and just back away.

[DiversityHire]

Yeah, cutting them off would be for the best. 👍🏻

[MannMitAntworten]

Why put that kind of energy into doing this? If it bothers you that much, cut them from your life.