Should I snitch on my sister for drinking alcohol underage?

[supersally12]

Yesterday my parents caught me drinking vodka, myself and my sister drunk it because we were bored with this covird lockdown thing.
my parents didn't see my sister drinking so she got away with it, my parents are VERY anti alcohol so now i am being punished, i am confined to my bedroom and am not allowed out until further notice to make things worse while i was drunk i swore at my mum and refused to stay in my room, so they LOCKED my bedroom door, my parents have said i MUST serve a minimum of 4 days imprionment and then my punishment will be reviewed.
My sister has got off scot free do you think i shouls snitch on her or should i just accept my punishment?

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yesterday i tried to blackmail my sister i told her that unless she gave me her phone and unlocked my bedroom door i would snitch on her, then confessed to my parents that she drunk vodka as well and that i was trying to blackmail her, my parents said as she owned up she would recive a very light punishment, as for me my parents went mad and said blacmail is unacceptable and is even a crime, i have now been given another 2 days imprisonment as punishment for trying blackmail my sister
IS FAIR?

[N192K001]

Yes, this 'Snitches get stitches.' is a disastrous idea that supports corruption across societies. Law must be enforced equally, there must be 1law for all, and all violators must be punished.

She must also learn not to consume alcohol, or all sorts of disastrous lifestyles will become an option to her. It is for her own good.

[supersally12]

i tried to blackmail her i told her that unless she gave me her phone and unlocked my bedroom door i whould snitch on her, she then went and confessed to my parents that she drunk vodka as well and that i was trying to blackmail her, because she was honest my parents gave her a very light punishment, for me i got another 2 days locked up in my bedroom , i am BORED fed up and VERY VERY misreable what should i do?

[N192K001]

Blackmail? Of course, that made things worse. If you reported it immediately, her punishment would have equaled yours. Now, you've added an extra charge against you, while adding sympathy for her as an attempted-victim.

Other than taking your punishment, learning your lesson, and behaving form hence forth, I see no other piece of advice I can offer.

[supersally12]

i am so so bored and misreable , its baking hot and sunny outside and my sister is out in the garden while i can only watch from my bedroom window from behind a LOCKED bedroom door why is punishment so tough?

[N192K001]

Then, stop focusing on the outside and focus on what you can control: your 'inside' (both in terms of your room & your inner being). DO SOMETHING THAT WILL ACTUALLY BENEFIT YOU:
• Learn a new language. (I have a list of free online lessons paid by the taxpayers of the respective nations who created those languages. My listing includes German, French, Russian, Korean, Japanese, Arabic, and Turkish. Chose any and I'll send you a listing.)
• Read a book.
• Exercise.
• Establish or strengthen your religious convictions: Pray, read your Scriptures, self-reflect, etc.
• Pick-up a skill you can use. With the Internet age, mankind has never had so much information so accessible as it is today! Make use of it.

Here's what I've learned from my study of Economics: What's the difference between tiny Singprore & Hong Kong, plus small Taiwan & South Korea vs. the whole continental Africa? Those relatively-puny jurisdictions make use of what they have to the max, so they've become wealthy & prosperous, even boasting more than half of the world's economic transactions. Meanwhile, Africa has multiple times more resources than them, but they languish in poverty, since they have failed to optimize the usefulness of what they do have.

Likewise, you have what you have (whatever it is). Will you leave it to waste or will you make use of it? If you use it, will you just use some and waste the rest, or squeeze the most usefulness out of what you do have? (Even 'useless' literal-crap has been used as fertilizer in ages past.) Will leave what you have now (your situation, in this case) as a worthless liability or will you make it into an asset by trying to make it an advantage?

You have this time to focus on yourself. Whether you choose to use it to make yourself a better person or not is your choice.

[Fuentes]

Their is just certain things you don't tattle about and also y'all shoudnt even be drinking

[Isten]

I guess this is "misery loves company". Imagine if she was caught and she snitched on you, you wouldn't really like that... Next time if you want to do this again, just make sure your plan is foolproof.

[supersally12]

i am finding the punishment very hard, the sun is shining outside and i am locked in my bedroom, my parents refuse to unlock my bedroom door because they say i can't be trusted is this fair?

[Anonymous]

You should accept your punishment; but if you are going to tattle on your sister make sure that you do it in a round about way that gets her caught without you actually saying that she did it.

[supersally12]

i dont like being locked up its really MISREABLE i want to go out into the garden to get some fresh air but my parents say my punishment is to lose my freedom which means NO going out of anykind is this fair?

[Opinion Owner]

As long as they are feeding you and you get regular bathroom breaks; it sounds fair to me.

[Opinion Owner]

It could be worse; they could have taken your electronics away.

[supersally12]

yes i get my meals , but when i need the bathroom i have to knock on my bedroom door then my mum unlocks my door and escorts me to and from the bathroom, its HORRIBLE hearing my bedroom door SLAM shut then the key turning in the lock ( CLICK ) its a MISREABLE punishment i dont deserve to suffer like this?

[supersally12]

they have, i have NO tv NO phone etc, i only have my pc for 5 hoursper day to do my schoolwork, because of coronivirus we have no school but have been given homework to do , so thats why i have my pc but i am NOT suppposed to be on the internet?

[Opinion Owner]

You might want to get off the internet then; because I imagine things will get worse for you if they catch you on here.

[supersally12]

its unlikely because i can hear my parents coming up the stairs, plus they are all sitting out in the garden in the sun, so you can see why i am so misreable, i DONT like this kind of punishment why can't my punishment be less painful?

[Opinion Owner]

There are more ways to catch you on the internet than coming up to your room and seeing you at the computer.

[supersally12]

my parents have also set me work to do they say they want me to learn from my punishment so i dont repeat the same mistakes again, i have to write a 4 page essay on the dangers of underage drinking, then copy this out 2 times total 12 pages, plus my parents got me leaflets on the dangers of alcohol and i have to write and copy these out as part of my punishment, i have 4 days to complete the work, do you agree with my parents saying education is a good part of punishment?

[Opinion Owner]

Yep.

[supersally12]

do you think if i really take the essays seriously and do a good job my parents might set me free early? they said i MUST serve a minimum of 4 days but i can't do 4 days i am already pissed off and i miss my freedom so much advice please?

[Opinion Owner]

It is a distinct possibility; plus it will at least make the time go faster.

[supersally12]

but i hate writing essays, i have asked my parents if i can sit in the garden for a couple of hours but they refuse saying i am being punished so i am not allowed out i think this is unfair dont you?

[Opinion Owner]

Not really.

[supersally12]

why not? what harm can i do sitting in the garden?

[Opinion Owner]

Because you haven't completed your punishment. It would be a punishment if it didn't make you miserable.

[supersally12]

but prisoners are allowed outside for 1 hour per day so why can't i?
anyway i have just told my sister that unless she lends me her phone i am going to snith on her, plus i want her to unlock my door so i can sneak out into the garden?

[supersally12]

yesterday i tried to blackmail my sister i told her that unless she gave me her phone and unlocked my bedroom door i would snitch on her, then confessed to my parents that she drunk vodka as well and that i was trying to blackmail her, my parents said as she owned up she would recive a very light punishment, as for me my parents went mad and said blacmail is unacceptable and is even a crime, i have now been given another 2 days imprisonment as punishment for trying blackmail my sister
IS FAIR?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes; you tried to blackmail your sister.

[Anonymous]

How many accounts do you want to create to complain about your punishments this has to be the 5th one this year maybe if you stop and start listening to your parents you won’t always be getting into trouble

[Isten]

But interesting how the story is always different: not doing homework, sneaking out, underage drinking... sounds almost like a fetish at this point

[supersally12]

excuse me i have not been in any trouble for several months, i dont see why you are making me out to be a serious trouble maker?

[supersally12]

i have been well behaved for several months, i just do what any teenager does at my age, its NOT my fault if my parents give me such harsh punishmets is it?

[Opinion Owner]

Doesn’t matter you are the one who keeps getting into trouble and then you come here complaining it’s the same thing over and over your never gonna learn so I have zero sympathy for you

[Opinion Owner]

@Isten totally agree with you

[supersally12]

i am not saying i shouldn't be punished what i am saying is i am being punished too harshley, have you got any idea what its like to look out of a bedroom window seeing the warm sunshine knowing i can't go out because i am locked in? PUNISHMENT STINKS?

[Opinion Owner]

Cry me a river I’m not sitting here arguing with you again grow up I know exactly what your punishment is like as I had the same punishment did I complain no I accepted my punishment and I learnt from my mess ups

[supersally12]

REALLY i bet you didn't have to spend 4 days locked up in your room? especially when its going to be 80f today in the sunshine, i dont like confined spaces so thats why i moan because i HATE the punishment, you should have sympathy if you have been punished like this?

[Opinion Owner]

Nope I have no sympathy for you I’m actually laughing at how childish you are goodbye I’m done with this conversation it’s annoying seeing you post all the time complaining over and over

[lovejyj]

They can call it snitching, but you'd be doing her a favor as you could save her from not only dying from intoxication, but also from addiction.

[Shivvy123]

No because it's just plain spiteful. People that are spiteful are horrible. Don't be like them.

[supersally12]

my sister is sitting in the sunshine while i am locked in my bedroom thats not fair is it?

[supersally12]

yesterday i tried to blackmail my sister i told her that unless she gave me her phone and unlocked my bedroom door i would snitch on her, then confessed to my parents that she drunk vodka as well and that i was trying to blackmail her, my parents said as she owned up she would recive a very light punishment, as for me my parents went mad and said blacmail is unacceptable and is even a crime, i have now been given another 2 days imprisonment as punishment for trying blackmail my sister
IS FAIR?

[Cryptic-Game]

You should tell on her. If she doesn't learn that alcohol is unacceptable, she will later do it more wildly.

[supersally12]

i tried to blackmail her i told her that unless she gave me her phone and unlocked my bedroom door i whould snitch on her, she then went and confessed to my parents that she drunk vodka as well and that i was trying to blackmail her, because she was honest my parents gave her a very light punishment, for me i got another 2 days locked up in my bedroom , i am BORED fed up and VERY VERY misreable what should i do?

[EnglundUberAlles]

They locked you in your room? That's child abuse. What if there's a fire?

In other news, sntches get stitches.

[supersally12]

they locked my door because i refuse to stay in my room, my parents can unlock my door very quickly in an emergency, i just dont like being locked in its HORRIBLE?

[Kathy_Scorpio97]

No then she won’t trust you with anything. All that did make me become sneaker.

[Anonymous]

No you should black mail her

[supersally12]

thats a good idea?

[stuntbrain]

Snitches get stiches