You have moved out and are living on your own. You don't have to take care of your siblings anymore. It sucks that you had to deal with that at such a young age but you cannot go back and change that, you can only go forward.
Do not let your parents guilt you into doing anything you don't want to do. Instead, put your energy into making your life better. Meet new people, have an adventure or two and move on.
One thing I would suggest however, do not cut off all contact with your family. Your sibling are still your siblings. I know you hated taking care of them but they all probably still miss you and the younger ones are confused over your absence.
Someday they might become a source of joy for you.
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That’s one older sibling steal they take care of the younger siblings that’s been going on in every single culture for many generations. If you don’t want kids don’t have kids don’t have sex because that will cause you to have a child unless you’re using birth control which doesn’t work all the time but it’s not wrong to not like kids I don’t have any kids. I don’t kill them before they’re born either
Okay so you shouldn’t be a parent. What’s the question here?
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Just tell your parents to stop guilt tripping you. Tell them its not your responsibility. Tell them all these kids including yourself were not a necessity. They should invest in a babysitter. Tell them you have suffered in life because they were relatively absent as parents towards your siblings and didn't allow you to grow in life.
I’m glad you hate fucking kids, it’s illegal anyway.
Well, I would HOPE You hate f*cking kids... that's a punishable crime.
Now, if You F*cking hate kids, that's a different story.Just move out you're 23. Then you can take care of yourself but no kids.
Your family sounds like a nightmare. Please enforce your boundaries. You have a right to say "yes" or "no" to requests from other people.
That's probably a good thing. You shouldn't be fucking kids in the first place, but that is just my 2 cents.
"You" can be sure "fucking kids 🤬" are also "hate" on you. 😂
The joys of grammar lol
Wait so you fuck kids? 😳
So move out. & also not your responsibility.
That’s insane.
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