My best friend's boyfriend was hitting on me.. should I tell her?

[Anonymous]

My BFF and her boyfriend have been having problems and they broke up but they still see each other and have sex... y idk? But This is the first guy that she actually Likes a lot.. a lot! Anyways we go to his house every weekend and chill there with his friends and drink. I kinda noticed he has been looking at me weird but Last week my friend was in the living room, and I went to the kitchen to get a beer and he came with me to open it, Then he grabs me by the waist and pushes me against him (well he tried, I pushed him away) I just left back to the living room, He still looks at me like he wants me... so I don't know should I tell her? She really likes him a lot and I don't want her getting jealous or should I just let it go until he tries something really inappropriate?

[saphirasilverwings]

I think perhaps you should talk to him first, and tell him you are not interested and it's inappropriate considering the ties between him and your friend. Maybe he doesn't know how much she still likes him or that he is expecting him to be monogamous. Then if it still continues, let your friend know.

[saphirasilverwings]

maybe he doesn't know that SHE (your friend) is expecting him to be monogamous*

[saphirasilverwings]

I think you should encourage him to straighten out his feelings and be honest with your friend about what he wants. She deserves to know if he is wanting out or wanting to be with others, if that's really what he wants.

[Asker]

he does want out he already broke up but since were always hanging out theyre still having sex and I guess my friend still thinks there's a chance of getting back together.

[fascination_streak]

I had this happen with my close friend and her husband. The first time it happened, I let it go. When it happened again, I told her and she confronted him. She was REALLY upset but I was glad I told her. I wasn't going to disrespect her or her marriage. Her husband hates me but I could care less.

[caseydylan]

Don't tell her, you need to talk to him. Tell him that you're not interested in him in anyway.

[Anonymous]

i personally wouldn't tell her. Something are best left unsaid.

[Opinion Owner]

somethings*

[Asker]

yea I agree I just feel weird not telling her because I tell her everything

[Opinion Owner]

then tell her.