I have baby fever and I really wanna be a mom one day but I dont have a boyfriend and im single? What to do?

[Paolaa988]

I love children and I've known I've wanted to be a mom since i was young but i don't have a boyfriend and i have a lot of patience, care, and love to give to a child😭i also just got a new job. Its my dream to be a mom.

[loves2learn]

It was my dream my whole life too. And it came true. You are so young, you have time. I had my oldest when I was 28 and I’m glad I waited until we were both financially and emotionally ready.
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Your biological clock is ticking, bur you have so much time.

[Brebaby]

I have baby fever to but I mean I can have kids but the guy I just got with can't have kids no more so he said he would probably adopt a kid if I really wanted to. And I was thinking 🤔 damn maybe I am just over reacting over every little bullshit that pops into My stupid ass head and don't let me go until I get upsett and want to loose control but listen I just want you to know that I am definitely about to look into what. We got to do to get an adoption paper and we already got rooms for my babies to just got to finish getting the last little bit of the bull shit out the back rooms and pow ! There are the rooms and I remember getting one of them a bed with a big old heart ❤️ carved into it but it ain't red like that it is wooden bed and then heart 💜 is just gone but it truly beautiful and I am going to get ahold of my dude who got it right now

[ohshee]

Lol Paolaa you are just so cute and so funny you don't have a boyfriend but you want one right you want to have a baby because you love kids and just got a new job and very thing you said you need to remember one thing patience my friend patience you need to have more patience what I really think is that you need to find a rich dude take care of you so you could have a couple kids stay home mom and be happy I think that last I was being perfect

[ChrisMaster69]

Make sure your contraception is spot on and in use.

a lot of girls go through this.

simply getting pregnant is wrong.

take your time, get in to a relationship, have security, then think about kids

[ChrisMaster69]

@paolaa988 thank you and most appreciated

[exitseven]

Go to college, meet a guy, get to know each other, get married, have ten kids. In that order.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Don't jump the gun. Find a good man, wait til you fall in love, make sure he shares your desire to be a parent, then marry him and bring children into the world the right way.

[Luckycharms12]

You will be one day when it's right just enjoy life now you are young once have child be worried about them forever and always

[jerdanro]

Be patient. You have plenty of time. Is it common where you live for women to be married with children by 22?

[Anonymous]

If u have lots of patience then be patient and wait till you get a boyfriend. you are only 22 be patient.

[Andres77]

The baby deserves two parents.
Don't set the baby up for hardship.

[jasco]

Well find a boyfriend or adopt. Or go to one of those hospitals that let you get pregnant off of someone's sperm without actually dating them

[TallAnon]

Get to a point where a kid is a good idea, then get into a relationship with a dude you want to spend the rest of your life with.

[Romeocuck]

I would like to have children too and don't have a girlfriend yet.
I wish we would live close to eachother so we could meet to see if we are a match.

[Anonymous]

Glad that as a girl you're not expected to hit on guys or talk to them first

[Bklynbadboy12]

I'd give it time your still young but I know how you feel I want kids too

[Gwenhwyfar]

Enjoy your spirit doll 😊

[Jamie05rhs]

You can volunteer in the church nursery.

[loves2learn]

I got the BEST babysitting jobs doing that! Also I was 12-18.

[Jamie05rhs]

@loves2learn Yay! 😃

[COMMODOREII]

You have a long way to go. You are only 22.

[Seppel]

The only thing you can do is waiting

[Alyssa11]

Me and you both lol.

[Anonymous]

take some tylenol it'll bring that fever down

[Opinion Owner]

do you even know how to change a diaper or what to do when the child has an ear infection or starts teething or running fevers? do you know what happens to your nipples when you breast feed or how to stop your nipples from bleeding when you breast feed or how they become numb? do you know how to take care of a baby when it develops colic?

[Opinion Owner]

do you know how to mix baby formula? do you know what temperature the bath water needs to be or where to bathe a baby because it sure as hell ain't the bath tub

[Opinion Owner]

do you know what age the child will need to have it's mandatory vaccinations? or how to potty train a child or how to teach the child to read and write? or what type of paper is required for the child to write? do you know how to teach the child to speak correctly or what happens when it can't pronounce words properly? do you know what it's like to be up at 2 or 3am with a child who's running a fever? what do you do when a child runs a temperature over 102?

[Opinion Owner]

just because you have baby fever is no excuse to run out and have a baby it's a major responsibility and are you aware of how hard it is to find a baby sitter? or how much baby sitters cost? or how to run background checks on baby sitters? and how much energy is required taking a child or baby everywhere you go? you'll have no vacation time no time to yourself none and you won't be able to travel or see your friends or party or get drunk or do drugs of any kind you'll be forced to live a clean and sober life

[Opinion Owner]

and do you know what happens to babies who are born to parents who drink while pregnant or do drugs while pregnant? the kind of birth defects they develop while in utero and in their fetus stage? or how any of that stuff or any std's can get passed on to a child through their mother's breast milk or while in the womb?

[Jmmmfi4]

you will be some day