No it’s not your fault. He’s a piece of shit. However it wouldn’t hurt to use birth control and make a man work hard to prove his worth to you before you sleep with him. That should prevent you from getting mixed up with riffraff like that.
My dad used to call my mom a whore all the time when i was a kid because she would enjoy her weekends without my brother & i while we were with our dad. I just looked at him thinking, "if she's single, who gives a shit?" my mom never introduced me or my brother to her partners UNLESS things were getting serious...
No, I don’t think that and I don’t think too many people think that either. I assumed people felt pity or sympathy more than anger or disgust. Nothing wrong with being a single parent, especially when it’s not your fault
It's about how you live your life, not the fact you have a kid. Although having a kid is a symptom. Like a cough can be a symptom of having a cold. It doesn't prove you have a cold but if you're coughing all the time... it's more likely. If you have other symptoms like changing 'boyfriends' every 5 minutes or trading sex for money then yeah... it's not an unfair label. You earned it.
@Still-alive I did not say a child is a symptom. The context here is having a child without having picked a good father for that child. Creating a baby who will live for the next 60 years and not putting in the care/effort to pick someone who will be around for even 2 years is not a virtue. Next.
@Jazquee you're deep in your feelings. Nowhere did I say you're a whore. There's symptoms tho... like if you dress up 100% like a street hooker and walk down the street you'll be confused with being a street hooker.
Whore? No. Gullible? Possibly. A woman that has a child out of wedlock is akin to serving bread with spaghetti. Who gives a flying fuck? It happens and it's not the middle of the 19th century.
My Mom was a single mother. The only reason I'm not in prison serving a life sentence is because nobody ever called my Mom a Whore. Mother's are the font of all of human creation and should be respected regardless of whether the father decided to do the right thing and be a man.
Probably projecting the feelings he has from a bad or traumatic childhood, if it isn't that he probably is crazy or at the least uneducated lol. You are an amazing mother ❤
Mature people aren’t that shallow. I dated a single mother who was a widow (husband died in a car accident.). You never know the whole story on the surface.
Well I won’t make quick judgments. But there are very foolish women out there who will spread their legs for some random asshole (who doesn’t even wrap it). Then see me as a “safety net” because I’m a nice guy.
I mean look at your background pic on ur profile...
Single moms put having sex above the well being of their future children, generally speaking. When you seek the perfect mate instead of chasing feelings, things are more likely to work out. We all make mistakes, it’s just that as the woman, sex comes with a lot more risk and responsibility, which is why waiting till marriage was a tradition. Just be careful out there guys n gals... I know how hard it is to resist sex, but at least pull out, it ent perfect but its better than going full send
I see no shame in having pride in how hard I have worked on my figure. I am 40 and have two kids. There is no nips, clit, ass or anything else showing in photo... Should I be ashamed for wearing bikini to beach? That doesn't say shit about who I am...
tell yourself whatever you want jazquee, you know damn well what you are doing with that photo and I'm not dumb enough to fall for this shit. Of course you should not be ashamed of wearing a bikini to the beach, that's a million miles away from posting a photo like you have on the internet.
@Still-alive don’t remember talking to you, little simp. If only you gave as much of a fuck about the fatherless kids as you did being acknowledged by women
@Still-alive pivoting? Dude what I literally shot in a straight line this entire time, sorry you can’t connect some basic dots. Maybe put ur dick away for half a second?
Not in my book. Every woman I've ever hooked up with was a single mother actually. They struggle like you wouldn't believe, especially raising boys without a father because boys need older male role models. No, they're not whores. Point of fact is that what most women really want is one man to make their life with and grow old with him. Doesn't normally turn out that way though for various reasons.
Why does it matter what the people here think? I can see you have very nice human being daughters and a boyfriend who doesn’t fret about it. Who cares what some random person says in here? Be happy as you obviously seem, maybe you gad luck he left and made place for somebody who appreciates all of you and that was what he was looking for :)
You’re most definitely a hero... I don’t even understand the logic behind calling single mothers whores.. it’s pretty much blaming the victim. It’s idiotic. Oh and yea, He’s just batshit😂.
You are not a whore. You don't deserve to be called that. I don't know what drives a man to say that to a woman but not all men think that way. I'm sorry you had this experience.
I doubt it is common in the USA. I've never heard anyone express that general opinion. However I've heard it directed at some individual women by other women.
Uh, no, that does not make you a hero. And never forget, YOU PICKED HIM. So quit laying blame for everything in your life on something or someone like some kind of VICTIM. YOU had a hand in all this.
I wouldn't call you a whore, but not very bright nonetheless. That you are determined, and focused on the upbringing of your children, is commendable. But 'hero status'? Uh, no.
You also do your children a disservice for NOT choosing well, and NOT forming a well-found family. They have no DAD - which puts them at a severe disadvantage in their overall well-being. Yeah, you really screwed the pooch on this one.
My mother raised for kids on her own and we all turned out fine. My father was a dead beat, drug addict and abusive asf. He didn't show his true colors until later in the relationship. Lots of men like to wait before they show their true colors. He was controlling, aggressive, obsessive and jealous. The drama didn't stop until he went to prison. He's spent my entire life in and out of prison. He's there now. He's even hit me as a child and an adult. A father is not required in any family to make it work. Singles mothers are just as capable of raising a child right as two parents are. You're acting like a child is going to come out dysfunctional if a father isn't there. Wrong. Plenty of women have raised children on their own with no issues. So how about you not be an arsehole. It's an option.
And point of FACT there @Browneye57 ... not once did I play the victim. I don't feel bad for myself. I stuck around... I parented my girls and did and am still doing an amazing job. My ex not only fucked off on me... THANK GOD... BUT SADLY left a 3 and 6 year old behind. We were married 9 years. He is and will forever be the mental victim so fuck you
@AlphaRosie69 Why did your mother choose to have kids with a dead beat drug addict? Answer;. He was "hot". You say you turned out fine? I bet of we took a hard look at your life we would disagree. Just imagine how much better your life would have been of your mother had chosen a good man who brought stability and positive masculine traits to the family.
People like @Browneye57 and @KrakenAttackin are the soul reason women feel bad about themselves and turn out to be broken... all because of narrow minded pieces of shit like you guys take a bow assholes you two probably cause more suicides than you even know. Shame on you you fucking bullies Anyone else agree @Still-alive @loves2learn @PaynefulPleasures
People don't walk around with an "I'm a fucking piece of shit" on their heads... people don't CHOOSE bad people... saying oh... this guys a looser... I want that... like fuck off.. Sounds like you both been damaged enough to know that's a fact... sometimes people just sneak under the crazy radar.
Mmmhmm! Here here! @browneyes57 is just a cantankerous old man who never has anything of value to contribute. Kraken is a misguided fool I blocked a long time ago because he is hopeless.
@loves2learn - And you're fukkin dumb as a rock. Just take a look at the stats, mho's, followers. I'm king, you're jackshit. FUCK OFF IDIOT. You cunts are the cunts. You pick shit guys, fuck their brains out, get preggo, treat them like shit, they dump your ass, and YOU CLAIM TO BE THE VICTIM. FUCK OFF IDIOT.
@Browneye57 lmao! Your mho is 20%, mine is 53%. I have twice as many followers as you and I have not been on this site very long. Lmao. It would appear you are the fucking idiot. 🤣 @Jazquee do you concur?
Wow settle down there Brown town!!! Your an angry bitter old waste of skin. Sit behind you keyboard because you have nothing going on your life. You have no soul no empathy... imature bully. Go fade away into the distance you nasty , u feeling demon. Nobody gives a shit about your opinion. Your wife... if you have one... probably Hayes her life but is stuck with you because of the way you think she can't run away... I reported your nasty angry comments. Don't have anything helpful or positive to say shit the fuck up
Not at all, single mothers aren't whores just for being single mothers. However, it's important to recognize that they chose the man they chose and having a child was completely their decision. There may be exceptions. Being a single mother definitely lowers their sexual market value (SMV).
My Mother was s ingle parent of three boys, I never realized what she went through until her first heart attack. My perspective change a lot. I think it takes a special woman to survive on her own like that. that person is a loser and has no clue. Never judge anyone until you have walked in their shoes.
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No it’s not your fault. He’s a piece of shit.
However it wouldn’t hurt to use birth control and make a man work hard to prove his worth to you before you sleep with him.
That should prevent you from getting mixed up with riffraff like that.
Thank you and true. But we were married and both wanted kids... so I was told 🤔
Ah I see. Well that does make a difference. Gosh that’s terrible. Are you going to seek child support or alimony?
I gave up on that years ago. Been without him for 7 years now and no payments from him ever!!!
We have done just fine.
My dad used to call my mom a whore all the time when i was a kid because she would enjoy her weekends without my brother & i while we were with our dad. I just looked at him thinking, "if she's single, who gives a shit?" my mom never introduced me or my brother to her partners UNLESS things were getting serious...
No, I don’t think that and I don’t think too many people think that either. I assumed people felt pity or sympathy more than anger or disgust. Nothing wrong with being a single parent, especially when it’s not your fault
Thank you' but you should read through the comments before you say not too many feel that way... rather shocking
It's about how you live your life, not the fact you have a kid. Although having a kid is a symptom. Like a cough can be a symptom of having a cold. It doesn't prove you have a cold but if you're coughing all the time... it's more likely. If you have other symptoms like changing 'boyfriends' every 5 minutes or trading sex for money then yeah... it's not an unfair label. You earned it.
likening children to a 'symptom' how charitable of you
Sickening how many fucked up loosers are on here. I weep for the next generation... if there will even be one
@Still-alive I did not say a child is a symptom. The context here is having a child without having picked a good father for that child. Creating a baby who will live for the next 60 years and not putting in the care/effort to pick someone who will be around for even 2 years is not a virtue. Next.
@Jazquee you're deep in your feelings. Nowhere did I say you're a whore. There's symptoms tho... like if you dress up 100% like a street hooker and walk down the street you'll be confused with being a street hooker.
@Jazquee. The generation raised in single-mother households is what has weakened this country so badly.
Ohh that kraken dude replied. 😂
@Still-alive
I thought I smelt shit' lol
(Whenever Kraken opens his mouth shit pours out lol)
Whore? No. Gullible? Possibly. A woman that has a child out of wedlock is akin to serving bread with spaghetti. Who gives a flying fuck? It happens and it's not the middle of the 19th century.
Thank you. I unfortunately was married... the guy hid ass really well
Then even less reason to put that moniker on you.
Thank you
My Mom was a single mother. The only reason I'm not in prison serving a life sentence is because nobody ever called my Mom a Whore. Mother's are the font of all of human creation and should be respected regardless of whether the father decided to do the right thing and be a man.
Probably projecting the feelings he has from a bad or traumatic childhood, if it isn't that he probably is crazy or at the least uneducated lol. You are an amazing mother ❤
Thank you so much and you are so wise for a young lady. Very well said' thank you
😊 any day ma'am
Mature people aren’t that shallow. I dated a single mother who was a widow (husband died in a car accident.). You never know the whole story on the surface.
Thank you... I'm glad there are still people out there like you
Well I won’t make quick judgments. But there are very foolish women out there who will spread their legs for some random asshole (who doesn’t even wrap it). Then see me as a “safety net” because I’m a nice guy.
No and hell no. Not happening.
I mean look at your background pic on ur profile...
Single moms put having sex above the well being of their future children, generally speaking. When you seek the perfect mate instead of chasing feelings, things are more likely to work out. We all make mistakes, it’s just that as the woman, sex comes with a lot more risk and responsibility, which is why waiting till marriage was a tradition. Just be careful out there guys n gals... I know how hard it is to resist sex, but at least pull out, it ent perfect but its better than going full send
"Single moms put having sex above the well being of their future children, "
citation needed
I see no shame in having pride in how hard I have worked on my figure.
I am 40 and have two kids.
There is no nips, clit, ass or anything else showing in photo...
Should I be ashamed for wearing bikini to beach?
That doesn't say shit about who I am...
tell yourself whatever you want jazquee, you know damn well what you are doing with that photo and I'm not dumb enough to fall for this shit. Of course you should not be ashamed of wearing a bikini to the beach, that's a million miles away from posting a photo like you have on the internet.
Not buying it.
that doesn't mean you get to slut shame her. so back the fuck off. you know nothing
@Still-alive..❤️
@Still-alive don’t remember talking to you, little simp. If only you gave as much of a fuck about the fatherless kids as you did being acknowledged by women
lol i totally do but stop pivoting you scum.
@Still-alive pivoting? Dude what I literally shot in a straight line this entire time, sorry you can’t connect some basic dots. Maybe put ur dick away for half a second?
you just can't handle a different opinion this is why you're trying to pivot away from your point. telling...
@Still-alive How tf did I pivot at all kid? W/e ur just trolling me to detract from ur disgusting simping. Goodbye simpy troll
Not in my book. Every woman I've ever hooked up with was a single mother actually. They struggle like you wouldn't believe, especially raising boys without a father because boys need older male role models. No, they're not whores. Point of fact is that what most women really want is one man to make their life with and grow old with him. Doesn't normally turn out that way though for various reasons.
I think he's taking his anger out on you for something that has nothing to do with you
Good point. Thank you
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Why does it matter what the people here think? I can see you have very nice human being daughters and a boyfriend who doesn’t fret about it. Who cares what some random person says in here? Be happy as you obviously seem, maybe you gad luck he left and made place for somebody who appreciates all of you and that was what he was looking for :)
You’re most definitely a hero... I don’t even understand the logic behind calling single mothers whores.. it’s pretty much blaming the victim. It’s idiotic. Oh and yea, He’s just batshit😂.
Thank you very much. nicely said ❤️
You’re welcome.. and thank you
You are not a whore. You don't deserve to be called that. I don't know what drives a man to say that to a woman but not all men think that way. I'm sorry you had this experience.
Thank you I really appreciate that ❤️
Not at all! You should be damn proud of yourself for what you've accomplished.
The idea that it automatically makes someone a whore, is completely stupid, so no.
Not everyone get's it totally spot on when it comes to relationships.
It's probably best not to take stranger's opinions to heart.
This is very true'.. but for some reason I couldn't shake this one. It made me curious to know if it was a common thought.
I doubt it is common in the USA. I've never heard anyone express that general opinion. However I've heard it directed at some individual women by other women.
To add, usually when paired by other factors.
And, I've heard guys use it to insult women for reasons unrelated to being a single mother. Mostly for breaking up with them.
Uh, no, that does not make you a hero. And never forget, YOU PICKED HIM.
So quit laying blame for everything in your life on something or someone like some kind of VICTIM. YOU had a hand in all this.
I wouldn't call you a whore, but not very bright nonetheless. That you are determined, and focused on the upbringing of your children, is commendable. But 'hero status'? Uh, no.
You also do your children a disservice for NOT choosing well, and NOT forming a well-found family. They have no DAD - which puts them at a severe disadvantage in their overall well-being. Yeah, you really screwed the pooch on this one.
My mother raised for kids on her own and we all turned out fine. My father was a dead beat, drug addict and abusive asf. He didn't show his true colors until later in the relationship. Lots of men like to wait before they show their true colors. He was controlling, aggressive, obsessive and jealous. The drama didn't stop until he went to prison. He's spent my entire life in and out of prison. He's there now. He's even hit me as a child and an adult. A father is not required in any family to make it work. Singles mothers are just as capable of raising a child right as two parents are. You're acting like a child is going to come out dysfunctional if a father isn't there. Wrong. Plenty of women have raised children on their own with no issues. So how about you not be an arsehole. It's an option.
Very well said @AlphaRosie69 ..💕
And point of FACT there @Browneye57 ... not once did I play the victim. I don't feel bad for myself. I stuck around... I parented my girls and did and am still doing an amazing job.
My ex not only fucked off on me... THANK GOD... BUT SADLY left a 3 and 6 year old behind.
We were married 9 years. He is and will forever be the mental victim so fuck you
Always a victim. The realm of WOMAN.
And kids from a broken home don't turn out 'just fine'. They have their own problems. Fools.
@AlphaRosie69 Why did your mother choose to have kids with a dead beat drug addict? Answer;. He was "hot". You say you turned out fine? I bet of we took a hard look at your life we would disagree. Just imagine how much better your life would have been of your mother had chosen a good man who brought stability and positive masculine traits to the family.
People like @Browneye57 and @KrakenAttackin are the soul reason women feel bad about themselves and turn out to be broken... all because of narrow minded pieces of shit like you guys take a bow assholes you two probably cause more suicides than you even know. Shame on you you fucking bullies
Anyone else agree
@Still-alive
@loves2learn
@PaynefulPleasures
People don't walk around with an "I'm a fucking piece of shit" on their heads... people don't CHOOSE bad people... saying oh... this guys a looser... I want that... like fuck off..
Sounds like you both been damaged enough to know that's a fact... sometimes people just sneak under the crazy radar.
Mmmhmm! Here here! @browneyes57 is just a cantankerous old man who never has anything of value to contribute. Kraken is a misguided fool I blocked a long time ago because he is hopeless.
@loves2learn - And you're fukkin dumb as a rock. Just take a look at the stats, mho's, followers. I'm king, you're jackshit. FUCK OFF IDIOT.
You cunts are the cunts. You pick shit guys, fuck their brains out, get preggo, treat them like shit, they dump your ass, and YOU CLAIM TO BE THE VICTIM. FUCK OFF IDIOT.
@Browneye57 lmao! Your mho is 20%, mine is 53%. I have twice as many followers as you and I have not been on this site very long. Lmao. It would appear you are the fucking idiot. 🤣 @Jazquee do you concur?
Wow settle down there Brown town!!! Your an angry bitter old waste of skin. Sit behind you keyboard because you have nothing going on your life. You have no soul no empathy... imature bully. Go fade away into the distance you nasty , u feeling demon. Nobody gives a shit about your opinion. Your wife... if you have one... probably Hayes her life but is stuck with you because of the way you think she can't run away... I reported your nasty angry comments. Don't have anything helpful or positive to say shit the fuck up
(unfeeling demon... not u demon)
The term fucktard keeps coming to mind. Yes, yer a fucktard.
And you just proved the answer to your question. Yep, a whore. LOL
@Jazquee is he still talking? I can’t. 🤣 I just hope he’s not getting Alzheimer’s.
@AlphaRosie69 I bet the men in your life would disagree with all of you "turning out fine".
Not at all, single mothers aren't whores just for being single mothers. However, it's important to recognize that they chose the man they chose and having a child was completely their decision. There may be exceptions. Being a single mother definitely lowers their sexual market value (SMV).
My Mother was s ingle parent of three boys, I never realized what she went through until her first heart attack. My perspective change a lot. I think it takes a special woman to survive on her own like that. that person is a loser and has no clue. Never judge anyone until you have walked in their shoes.