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Who is frowning upon it and why do you care? You can find lots of people that frown on things. So what. You do you.
people hold onto tradition and think having kids is what everyone should want.
@wonderfulstation404 yes it kinda is.
Because society thinks there's a problem with that. But fuck what society thinks. I hate kids & not having any
Maybe beacuse of evoltionary prefrence where tribes not having enough childeren collapsed due to diffrent factors like war, productivitry, starvation,.
Not by me. It's a noble choice in this day and age. Collapsing eco-systems, Global warming. In Geneses 'God' asked Adam and Eve to 1) procreate, 2) fill the earth, 3) look after the planet. So far 1) Tick. 2) It's already filled - ok to discontinue (1) . 3) Total failure. How many species have we exterminated already?
Because some people are very old fashioned. They have the belief that everyone should reproduce
Is it? Haven't really noticed. I don't want kids, by the way.
I want kids but everyone is NOT me. I refuse to treat anyone that doesn't want kids as less than me. I think each person has the right to choose for themselves.
That what society sees as success. An amazing job, a relationship, kids. If you don't have them, people might see you as a failure or they'll think that you're sad cause you don't have these
Nothing matches the feeling of love...
I don't need a woman who is successfull in her job cause she will become a housewife and about pregnancy, it's god's will, you don't have to get pregnant or have kids to fill perfect!
In my opinion, love and marriage are the base of everything đ
@TonyMetal___86 So what's your opinion on someone who has no marriage or partner?
Nothing miss josy, people are free to live their lives the way they want it, love, marriage, family, having kids ain't meant for everyone...
It's just my personal opinion, i love seeing happy families, a warm house where the family loves each other and take good care of each other and be there for each other...
Since i don't like being with many girls and i don't like sex outside the wedlock and i'm searching for real love and happiness, my views are like that...
@TonyMetal___86 Oh alright :) glad to hear that
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Because they think those who dont want to are selfish and dont want contribute to the expansion of society and face the same hardships as them
I am happy when a feminist type doesn't want children. It makes me warm on the inside
Wouldn't say I'm a feminist
It makes me warm on the inside
Because people falsely equate happiness with traditional gender roles and motherhood.
I love the traditional gender roles and being a father or a mother is something great but i know that it's not meant for everyone...
Some people would get married but won't have kids that doesn't mean that they won't be happy oe feel complete because in my opinion it a man and a woman to be united by love and marriage and blessed from god and this would be perfect đ
Because everyone should have the desire to replace themselves in the world have someone carry on their name.
I wanna bust my cunt open 100 times to my future husband and have 800 kids for his ass.
No clue 🤷 as if having 10 kids when you are dirt poor is somehow better lol 😂
I don't know.
Ignore them.
They can't live your life for you.
Nobody's business anyway. The world seems "obsessed" when it comes to children.
probably just bc most people have kids. also aging populations are a problem â°â.âș€_âș€ââ°
But do you know why we are have an aging population?
Cause no one likes old lonely people, especially wine aunts. Enjoy the abuse in your old man's home when you grow up.
Bc who would want to bring people in this world when it's going to hell in a hand bag.
Whoever frowns upon your or Whoever's decision is doing to much and shouldn't frown upon it. This world is going to crap quickly so I would look at it as a sensible decision.
I dont know because it's truly none of their business.
I have child whom I love more than anything but I think people who demand this of women just want to stick them in traditional gender roles.
Being selfless is an attractive trait in a woman. Not having kids is making a decision to serve only yourself in life. At least by assumption.
Because we're animals that are biologically programmed to create new life...
I wouldnât want to have a daughter or son if they didnât procreate. I wanna see grandkids one day, even great grandkids who knows.
But if youâre Ugly and short, bad genes. Maybe give it a miss.
I think the overall perception is changing. That was what was expected from women for so long, but thatâs changed now, sadly, some of the other notions are lagging behind.
Same reason why forcing people to have kids is frowned upon
It is? Oh well, dammit. I don't exactly want a family, but nobody ever berated me over it.
You must produce children, the socialists need taxpayers for all their â freeâ shit.
because spreading your seed is natural. I wanna see little mes roaming this earth
Misery loves company.
Remember those kids back in school, who went smoking and you weren't part of their clique because you wouldn't smoke a cigarette with them? Now apply the exact same thing but with kids. Sharing the pain type of thing.
Because it's mostly bitter feminists that don't want kids.
Because they are so fugly they couldnât get laid at a Chippendales revue with a million dollars and a gallon of Scotch whisky.
@rcljr lol so true
Only if youâre worth reproducing with and you have no interest is when itâs a problem. Nobody cares if youâre ugly and wonât have kids cause nobody sees you as an option.
Iâm unsure but I personally donât want kids and I get shit for it ALL the time
because it happens
I have seen it and its literally on youtube
you women will put your mother hood
on to animals or other people
once you are older without kids
Because it doesn't help contribute to continuing life, but I'll be damned if I force someone into the world who didn't ask to be here so they could watch their parents and friends die before them
You don't know real love until you have a kid. You never will have that unconditional never ending love unless you have a kid
Have you ever had a dog? lol
Also you are very young do you have kids?
@Archerer yes I've had a dog lol, and no, I don't have any kids but I am the eldest of 5 and both of my parents are the middle of 5 so I've talked to my mama and both my Gramas and they say they fell in love with their husbands obviously but it was nothing compared to having a child, it is an indescribable experience and the love is just overwhelming. Personally, I am really looking forward to it đ
Thatâs great for you personally, but I can also say the other side, you will never understand the freedom of not having kids
Not to mention there are shit kids out there. Even ones that murder their own parents so... you can say the love is unconditional but is it worth it is the question...
@Archerer just because there are shitty kids out there doesn't mean that most kids are that way, because they aren't. Yes, I personally believe that having kids will 1000% be worth it. And I do understand the freedom. My uncle who is now 35 I believe thought the exact same way you are, said he wasn't having any kids because they were a hassle, anyway 6 years ago he fell in love with my now aunt Abby and adopted her son then they had their own daughter and even talking to him he said the love he feels for those kids makes the hassle worth it every single day.
Yeah that happens a lot, Iâm not talking down on anyone who wants kids, just that itâs fine if you donât want them. You shouldnât have to feel bad about it because society âexpects youâ to have kids
Iâd rather spend my days treating my wife with romance, travelling the world, and being able to do anything I want at anytime without needing to worry about an entire life. Baby sitters, bad sleep, vomit, shit, etc
99% of couples that have kids relationshipâs go to die
I don't believe that. My grandparents, who had 6 kids, have been married 50 years and they still have romance, and I don't know about my other grand parents but it has to be close to 50 years of marriage and they still have romance.
And. I am not saying they should be frowned upon, just saying that most people want to feel and deserve to feel that overwhelming unconditional love that makes the hard times worth it
I'd be curious to know when the last time they did something romantic for eachother, and if they did, I'd bet it's because all their kids are grown up and moved out lol, but anyway yes, to each their own.
It's just a false sense of tradition, the world isn't what is used to be to bring kids into.
True
Most modern women would make shit mothers, so it's good they don't have kids.
Because itâs not sustainable and reflects immaturity. Adults become parents by nature. Adults that donât want kids at all are perpetually juvenile in a bad way.
The Bible say some women' do not marry. That in your question. I think some of them are Angel's
Some people want children and some dont... their life their choice.
Unfortunately people judge others for things that isn't their business.
You have your own free will. Don't be pressurized by the society
Because itâs backwards, self-absorbed thinking to not want to have children.
Why is wanting kids also frowned on?
Dont think it is
Perhaps not as much.
Because we humans are supposed reproduce, so when one doesn't desire children they see it as weird.
It's your choice, most couples see children as a sign of commitment
Cuz you are hot and itd be a damn shame to watch your chromosomes die alone
It's not frown upon. A large percentage of people don't don't kids.
lol people don't live in your Disneyland large people do actually want
It isn't. No one gives a damn if you have kids or not.
Because parents want grandchildren.
Because children supplant us Catherine obvious
Catherine obvious? Lmao
Because people are being selfish.
I refuse to let other peopleâs opinions define who I am or what I should do
That's the way of pushing opinions, don't really bother 😊👍
Chicks that don't want kids something wrong with them.
There's something wrong with you I think.
Ur probably a rug muncher so that's why you feel that way
You're a disgusting, perverted, creepy incel. Go take a long walk off a very short pier.
I don't know kids are pain in the ass. I guess instincts of the species
Because people assume that's what you do.