Shall I tell My Mom about what is happening here?

[Sanchuz]

Though My Sister don't want me to tell this to Mom, she didn't clearly tell me what is her relation with that Guy, he Claims she is his girlfriend, but in the beginning she told me like he and his friends are bothering her So i tried to intervene and help My Sister but those Guys beaten me and he butt fucked me ( forcefully) and has threatened me not to interfere into his matter with my sister else he would do it Again, Now I want to tell to My Mom about what is going on here but My Sister is stopping me, She is saying if i told to My Mom then it would become more Worse ! i don't get her Point here? shall i tell her or Not?

below is My First question which i has asked for this Issue, You may go through for more details

Shall I Not intervene into his matter with My Sister? Will he leave me if I Apologies from him ?

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My Mom lives in other town, 2 years ago my sister had come to this city for her Graduation, I came here just few months ago, if I tell My Mom about what is going on Here then My Mom Might ask my sister to come back to home, Which my sister don't want and that's why my sister don't want me to tell to mom, but When i still wanted then my sister got annoyed and she has warned me that if I tell my mom then it can annoy him ( her boyfriend ) and his friends and he can butt fuck me Again !

[ScottStevens]

You have a very difficult situation to deal with. Your sister is involved with a very violent man. He has already raped you and beat you. Your sister appears to be very afraid of him also, that is why she is telling you not to get involved. I can only imagine what this man is doing to her!

At some point your Mother is going to know what is going on. But before you bring her into the picture I deeply believe you need to seek professional help. Hopefully within your community there is social services department that you can go to so you can seek protection for yourself and your sister. They will more than likely collect as much information as they can and take it to the Police.

This man needs to be taken off the streets. He is extremely violent and using his violence to control people. None of that will ever end nicely, more than likely at some point he is going to seriously physically harm somebody or potentially kill someone.

In the end your sister is going to have to let go of this man, maybe she already wants to but feels she will be harmed if she does. That is not a positive way to live your life.

As for your Mother, it would be better that you take the first positive step forward and get professional help. If not, the news your Mother gets will probably be very tragic news that she would never want to hear.

Best wishes

[Sanchuz]

@ScottStevens My Sister could have told me "Earlier" how dangerous is This Guy? She is My older Sister, That Guy is her Problem but Now She has made him My problem too !
What options I do have Now? Either i keep fighting or Protecting My Sister or She Could go back to home ( Which she has to decide ) But If I keep fighting for her then he would target me first than to My Sister and he Again butt fuck me in Anger ! Which would cause me horrible Pain and it Might damage me Seriously down there !
To be honest, I am really Scared of him ! He is tall and Strong Guy and he has a big Gang too, So I am feeling Anxiety and Nervousness because he can or He Will target me Again ! He has a huge dick as well, So Because of this All I am quite worried about My safety ! And I want to Approach him to make him understand that I would not interfere into his matters with My Sister and I want to fix this issue Peacefully ! And THEN MY SISTER CAN GO BACK TO HOME FOR HER SAFETY but if She decides Not to Go and wants to Stay here for Study then She will have to handle her issue with him by herself and I will not interfere or Intervene !

[hahahmm]

Your mom can't do anything more than you can. She might end up getting butt raped too. What you do is go find a man who is known to be a protector of helpless people. You hope he believes your story. He'll know what to do.

[Sanchuz]

Yeah, I also need a strong and Powerful Guy who can help me here but I am New in this city and have come here for My Study So i don't know many People here, those Guys are living here for many Years so they know more than me, I know Probably My Mom can't help me much and she can't fight with those Guys alone, women here get fucked easily by goons but i want to tell her because its affecting my study and i might not get through my exams and i don't know why my sister is stopping me?

[hahahmm]

Something I learned really young is that if someone CHOOSES to associate with bad acting people, no matter how much they complain about it, it's their problem to solve. Me trying to solve it for them could get me killed for something they don't believe in strongly enough to deal with themselves. You shouldn't have bothered getting involved in your sister's drama. Sounds like she started stuff with those guys and isn't even telling you everything. She knows how to go to the police or follow the advice I gave you too. But now you've involved yourself. They gave you a warning. The next thing they do to you will be worse than before. If I'm in your shoes I'd now feel there's a need to "balance the books" with those dudes for what they did to me. But I wouldn't be wasting any energy worrying about my sister. The stakes are high... these guys probably would kill you and not think anything of it. You either need somebody helping you with the same attitude they have about life OR just stay out of it 100%.

[Sanchuz]

Yeah, I got your Point and Now i am not thinking to involve into my sister's matters with him any more, and Yes, it seems My Sister hided many things from me even she didn't tell me how dangerous he and his friends are, Now she even don't want me to tell this all to My Mom, So i think My Sister is not as innocent as she claimed and i got butt fucked without any reason and i don't want to get it done Again !

[hahahmm]

Sorry that happened to you. If I'm in your shoes I would probably establish a mutually committed relationship with a strong man who I believe has many other positive characteristics. Or I would move out of this dangerous town and go somewhere safer.

[Devil_2000]

Personally, first I would file a police report. Keep it as secretive from anybody you know as you can for the time being, see what the police tell you. If you file this report, it will also be there for if he does something horrible like puts you, or your sister, in the hospital. It is documentation.

As for your mother, you could tell her if she can keep things on the downlow. This man is dangerous and violent, ensure she knows that.

Other than that? I would stay out of it in all honesty. It sounds like he can overpower you and getting involved further can result in your getting hurt or, worse, killed. If your sister refuses to leave, you cannot do anything about it. Your first instinct is to protect her, but it seems he is too dangerous. You have given her warnings and she knows the dangerous. Tell her one last time "look, I am not getting involved anymore. If I were you, I would go to the police before you get seriously hurt, or killed. But I can't protect you so this is all on you now". This is all you can do because you should not risk yourself further.

Also, I would personally see a therapist or psychiatrist about what he did to you. It is tough and painful. It can cause problems for you mentally, even if you don't realize it now. On top of that, once more there will be documentation on what is happening.

Other than this, I would stay out of it. You can ask your sister how she is, how things are going but do not ask about him

[EndlessCrow]

Bruh I highly doubt your mother could do anything about this

Far as I can tell its your sister's problem you tried to fix it like a good little hero and got yo ass beat in both ways. While admirable and instinctively you'd want to get your sister out of there going about it directly will result in you getting raped again or getting killed.

Your sister has to renounce at the idea of having that guy around and you both need to fuck off as far away as possible leaving as little trace as possible behind and if he follows you go to the police file a restraining order or something and hope he doesn't come for you

[Sanchuz]

I came in this City for My studies so i will have to live here for 3 Years and My Sister will have to live one more Year to complete her graduation, I still wants to help my sister but i don't want to mess up with those Guys directedly, I was butt raped brutally and they have threatened me that if they see me with my sister or if i interfere into his matter with My Sister then they would fuck me Again ! So i am really scared of them, Now I want My Sister to find a Guy who is Powerful enough and who could intervene and help her ! its really embarrassing for me to tell My Mom about what happened but I think My Mom talk to that Guy who is after My Sister !

[Sanchuz]

@EndlessCrow Also here law and order is really worse so Police is not helpful and those Guys are not scared of Police as well !

[Den1971]

Most definitely you should intervene and tell your mother in fact I intervene tell my mom and call the cops. That's your sister and you know what's going on so you need to step in and handle it I don't know how many times this happened but technically it should have only happened once you should have been handled that

[Sanchuz]

it has happened with me only once but he and his friend have threatened me not to come between his matter with my sister, I was just trying to help my sister but i didn't know that those Guys are that much dangerous and can butt rape me too, Now at least i want to inform to My Mom as i might need to leave this place if they continue bothering me but My Sister is stopping me !

[Den1971]

Well somebody needs to know. Police may keep you anonymous but still be careful. If she is stopping you, do you think she may be trying to keep you safe? If that's the case all of you all need to get the fuck out. For real

[Sanchuz]

May be she is stopping me to just keep me safe, May be she is stopping me because if My Mom got to know what is going on ( specially what kind of her boyfriend & his friends are ) then My Mom may ask my sister to return back to home which she don't want ! But i am not Sure because she don't tell me everything to me

[tatianamay]

Call the cops on those people and inform your mother immediately. Your sister is endangering not only herself, but the family as a whole

[cryscrys1]

Omg what’s going on here!!
Yes you have to tell the cops , fbi, mom , world , tv
Expose that mf

[Sanchuz]

I live in kenya, its in Africa but since its affecting my studies so i want to disclose the matter or may be i want to leave this place but I need to tell to My Mom but my sister is stopping me !

[VDrago14]

Well given the guy raped you, and is clearly controlling your sister, I would say not only tell your mom, but go to the police. This guy is a menace and needs to be stopped

[Sanchuz]

Yeah that Guy and his friends are sort of Criminals and Probably he had relations with My Sister but she didn't revealed it to me and told me like he is molesting her, when i tried to find out and tried to help me then he became violent, he scuffled with me and even butt fucked me, Now Again My Sister is stopping me to tell this all to My Mom, She is warning me not to do this ! I don't rely on Police because here in kenya police is quite corrupt and useless, you may check my previous question regarding this !

[VDrago14]

Then the only solution is to do the deed yourself and put the mother fucker down yourself.

[Yaharro]

Why you care about your sister when she doesn't give a dame about you should immediately tell your mom and cops that you been raped by your sister boyfriend look I know it's hard but long you keep this yourself I'll only hurt you mentally without justice this pain will never go away do you understand me if you don't then you will regret in future trust me

[savagehon]

Your mom should know about this because what your sister is doing is not only threatening herself but the whole family and someone really should put an end to this

[Sanchuz]

My Mom lives in other town, My Sister had come in this City 2 Years Ago for her Graduation but she got changed, she Probably don't want me to tell My Mom about what is going on Because My Mom might call my sister to come back to home, it can also annoy her boyfriend and his friends !

[savagehon]

Your safety as a family is a periority if you care about it do something about it just don't sit there wait for things to get worse so you have two solutions here whether do something and try change the situation or just stay quiet and wait for that dumbass to break up with your sister or I don't know

[dezzydoodles]

You stay asking these questions are you asking for yourself or your sister cuz it seems like if it was really for yourself you’d say he’s hurting me but it’s my sister I am scared for but you sure go into verbal detail aabtbstuff he does to you at this point if police don’t care ans she doesn’t want you to tell ur mom stay out

[Moimaris]

Tell your mother. But if you sense that your mother won’t listen go to the police

[Sanchuz]

she might not be able to help me directedly but since its affecting my study so i want to reveal to her but my sister is stopping me !

[libraboy]

Yes I guess you should tell your mother or anyone in your family you feel comfortable with.

It's a terrible feeling and situation to live with!

[Sanchuz]

I want to tell My Mom because i have come here for study and this ALL has affecting my studies badly, but My Sister don't want me to tell this to My Mom, she is saying it will go worse for me if i do this.

[MissNurseXochi]

Tell mom. If she doesn't help, then you shoul consider contacting the police. Rape/sexual harassment is no joke.

[ThoughtfulSoul]

I'm really very sorry you had to go through this.
Answering your question, let your mother and the authorities know about this as soon as you can.

[TapDancingSpider]

I'm so sorry. Yes you should tell your mum and the police

[NYCQuestions1976]

Your sister's boyfriend raped you? You need to go to the police immediately.

[Sarairocketship]

I'm sorry but you should probably let your mom know. That guy is no good. He needs to leave her alone somehow. I would pray to God if I were you.

[Sarairocketship]

I will pray for your situation aswell. That IS dangerous. Lord have mercy.

[Yel01]

Yes, you should tell your mom and the police (even if you feel like nothing's going to happen). It is important that someone (who cares about you and your welfare) knows what you have gone through.

[plinker]

I would tell her. Talk it out and express your concern that things could get worse if they find out.

[PinkLady21]

Tell your mum and the police

[anylolone]

Tell her.

[Sanchuz]

Since they are bothering me and its affecting my study so i want to tell My Mom about what is going on here but why my sister is stopping me then? she even warning me !

[anylolone]

Don't listen to your sister, just tell your mom.

[Sanchuz]

she is warning me not to disclose this matter to my mom else it will be more worse for me, So i am confused and worried

[anylolone]

Don't believe her, she said they were bothering her and then she acts like he's her boyfriend.

Lie to her, tell her you won't tell, but tell your mom anyways.