I WORRY ABOUT MY MOTHER?

[Chandra20]

So when I was 19 my father passed around 2019 and we had moved it broke me and I’ve been depressed ever sense but anyway me and my mom moved in a new home around 2019 and sum things my mom do drives me fuckin insane like it’s really irritating like for instance sheee do things when it clearly be common sense LIKE LITERALLY Ik everybody gets older and get old and Ik my mom had a veryyy ROUGH CHILD HOOD IT WAS HORRIBLE but she’s very lazy and some what dosent care to put effort into things like she use to (remind u my dad and mom wasn’t together at the time but we all still stayed together ) butt I don't know her it’s like she dosent care about hygiene eithe, dosent bother to was dishes (literally In filthy water) dosent like washin hands if she did something dirty (I’m not speakin bad about my mother I really love her I do but it worry’s me sometimes she dosent even like being home by herself it’s like she has to have someone here with her tbh I’m really just ready to be on my own and I’m she’s not gonna like it but I’m tired of being around seeing the things she do it stresses me out sumtimeS (and yess ME AND MY BROTHER SND SIS TRY TO SPEAK COMMON SENSE INTO HER BUT she dosent listen (all she do is eat and sleep and smoke a whole pack of cigarettes ) 😒🤦🏽‍♀️

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(And yes my mother takes medicine for her mental if she don’t she get crazy) 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫 and yes ik wen she’s not takin them but she takes her medicine ❤️

[Anonymous]

That depression that makes her like that is giving her anhedonia. And some mediation increase the anhedonia. That's why it seems like she doesn't care and she just sleeps all day.

Medications make sleepy. You can ask the doctor if he can adjust the medication or start her on a new one that is less sedative.

[Chandra20]

Well yea I haven’t looked at it tht way I just worry u know 🤦🏽‍♀️💔

[Luckycharms12]

Firstly you have to look after yourself before you can mind anyone else.

[Chandra20]

YEAAA ITS LIKEE I WANT TO GO EVERYBODY TELLS ME TRY TO STAY WITH YOUR MOTHER BECAUSE EVERYTHING IS HIGH NOW A DAYS IF I GO BE ON MY ON BUT I WANT TO EXPERIENCE SND LIVE LIFE TBH IK I CAN BUT UTS a lot GOIN ON AND I HAD MY AUNT TELL ME IF I DONT MAKE A MOVE ILL BE SITTIN HERE WITHER HER UNTIL I GET OLD AND I HONESTLY DONT WANT THT

[Luckycharms12]

Sure talk to your mom check in on her but you got to go live and do you maybe both need to seek help like countselling