Usually i just listen to music. But I skipped work today and then these mfs outside of work still set me off cause they couldnt keep their word. I was hot. Real hawt. But i said nahh lemme chill. Let me go get dis money. So thats what i did. I hit up the casino tonight and i was makin bank in that hoe!! The Lord blesseth me 🙌🙏 Amen. I even told my grandpa “Yo paw paw, watch them call your name on the speaker.” Yall… they called my grandpas name on the speaker 5 mins later and he won $250 freeplay. Then he racked up off that freeplay! We was both rackin up! My mom was lookin sad that she ain't hit but i slid her a $100 and deaded that shiiiit 😂😭🤷♀️ Rack it up! Fuck it up! Rake it up! Beat it up! Eat it up!! We lied to my grams and said we was going grocery shopping so she’s mad that we’re just now back at midnight 🤣 but hey, i feel better 🙌 #FeelFreeToList
What do you do to calm down when someone close to you pisses you off?
Walk away. Then I try to detach the the sin from the sinner. Most people aren’t inherently bad, but they enact bad actions because they’re broken in some way shape or form. Being able to look past the bad deed and understand that it rarely has to do with me has given me so much more freedom in my life. I used to walk away and hold resentment, and therefore my happiness and peace was dependent upon if they were willing to apologize and make things right.
Being able to walk away, mentally forgive them, and empathize with their why even when you I were done wrong is empowering. Remember that forgiveness is not reconciliation. When someone cuts me off on the road, puts me down at work, or my wife is being pissy… I try and forgive as quickly as I can because I don’t want to weight of resentment to hold me down. I don’t tolerate bad behavior towards me, but I do mentally forgive bad behavior. I will cut you from my life if you cross me too harshly, but I will forgive you even if I made the decision to cut you out of my life. My ex cheated on me. I forgive her, but she’s now an ex by my decision. Hope this makes sense.
dats right girl! HAHAHAHA! We didn't play those games. You scrapped and backed up the shit. If you didn't everyone was gonna let your punk as keep living that up for months!
Just put my favorite playlist on and bass my brains out.
Kinda exhilarating when you're so into your music and people on the block see a cop just sat with you at a red light n rolls their window down to smile n give thumbs up n don't give no citation.
If it is very bad. I cry a bit. Or take a deep breath. Or listen to music. Or take a walk. Depending on the degree of anger and the situation I find myself in.
Best to give one another plenty of space until cooler heads prevail. "Words unspoken require NO apologies". Physical wounds often heal, emotional ones RARELY do.
When as a police officer, and we had to referee domestic disturbances, foremost TWO officers interviewing parties separately and trying to have one of the couple spend the night elsewhere to prevent re-flare-up. In morning's light, often cooler heads would prevail.
Im a master in the arts Jedi mind blocking a person could be talking and IL be thinking about what IM going to do later that day it thinking about something else other than whatever whack people that are around me then someone would say did u hear what those rude people said I'm like huh who and kept it moving aslong no one physically steps on my kicks they safe from me💪🏽😂😂
I ignore them to piss them off more 🤣. I'm just now learning the art of ignoring people. It does more damage than giving them a reaction. This is in person only. As far as on gag I like to troll back. They can't get me via phone🤣..
I listen to music, go for a walk, drive , gym, work
I’m usually calm when I’m mad. I don’t ignore my feelings. I let them know what’s bothering me and try to resolve the issue so it doesn’t become bigger. If they’re not willing to, then I become very quiet in their presence
Depending on the type of fight we got into. Walking away and calming down is the best option. Just don't let that emotion consume you and start dragging you down.
I try not to get upset over things I have no control over. If someone does something that pisses me off, that's their issue, not mine. I just move on to something else.
I open up my note pad on my phone and type out the things I'd like to say and vent it all out in my head. Walk away for day or two and reread what I wrote.
It tends to get me to calm down and achieve true clarity on the issue.
I bought all of my gear second hand. I just don't get paying full retail when so many people buy gear as a new year resolution and donate it come spring.
Any thing and everything. Stay away from this person for minimum half an hour. Slow down. Running to jogging, jogging to walking, walking to stand still, stand still to sit down, sit down to lay down, jump in pool if possible. Swim couple of laps. Go for a walk. And if this person keep doing it every so often. You need to make permanent distance.
Most definitely not spend money, lol. It depends what and who. If work is being annoying, I probably just stop working for the day and complain to a friend.
If I have money and all the bills been payed it's retail therapy and getting a mani pedi. If I'm low on funds I'll usually just go home, take a relaxing bath, make my favorite meal, and watch Netflix
Try to take a step back and really try to understand how they came to the decision they did. Likely it wasn't a decision to piss you off just for the sake of pissing you off. I think you are able to really get into there frame of thought, you'll probably see that they either are not aware of how their decision has affected you, or it was a decision made out of their own pain that they're dealing with. If you're able to understand why they did what they did, you don't likely help you not be so upset with that person. Most people want to be good to others, but lack of information, past trauma, general unhappiness, can cause us all to hurt the people we love.
Oh, that kind of hurt. Same reasonings are likely the issue, but people do need to start learning the hard way that they can't just do what they want. Sometimes leaving a person is the only thing that will help them grow.
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