You need to move out for a time. You also need to call the police Everytime she abuses you, keep your own records as well, maybe even record on your phone. If you don't have police records, personal records and recording's, if you ever have to defend yourself with force then the abuse is documented. My guess is she's trying to force you out so you're not living with her and feeling obligated to take care of her in her declining years instead of starting a family of your own. I'm just guess there but have seen it before.
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Unfortunately, there are more significant legal consequences if you hit someone who is 60 than if someone 60 hits you. It appears you know your mother's patterns. You are 21. You can stay and put up with her abuse, or you can find a way to move out and live on your own. No one is entitled to control others though abusive behaviors. You are only in the wrong in that you continue to come back for more. The abusive behaviors of another is not a statement about you. Take the high road and learn from the experience, so you don't pass the pattern on to the next generation.
I don’t know about these other answers, who sound crazy af and raised by hitler or something, but it is NOT acceptable for parents to hit their children under any circumstances and I’m sorry your mum did that to you. My parents have never hit me, but if they did I would just leave home. I’m sorry and I hope you find a better place away from your mother.
So if the living situation is toxic move out. You are al least 18 so can be on your own. It might be tough but you gotta decide which is worse, being broke or being used as a target.
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Well, I'm not exactly sure how ur situation intails, but at 21 your a grown ass woman... might be time to fly away from the coupe... if you keep being there to get into fights , then she probably gonna smack yo ass again. 🤷♂️ ... if ur not there , guess wut.. maaayyybbee not fighting..🙄
Such parents need to be punished. You did nothing wrong. You can leave the house, or report them. I would be worried about your mom kicking you out though
Pack a bag and go.
I have amazing parents but a few crazy relatives and trust me there is nothing you can do for these people just get out of there yourslef and she'll live to regret it.You know what... In my country... It's common that if a mother or father hits their child. Even i was been hit several times in my teenage days and even if he would hit me for any reason i won't have a guts to say anything to him or even keep my point. Even if my mother would hit me... no problem.
But why she hit you? Maybe somehow urs action must have hurted her.Get TF outta there, find some friends you can shack up with {NOT A MAN} you need a support network, not another vampirc person latching onto you.
Wherever you go, you need serenity and safety, your future self will thank you for this.What's the reason? I think it's okay for a mother to hit her daughter only if she have a very strong reason. But throwing cutlery at your head is not a motherly thing. If I were in your place, i would leave home.
You should move out. Is there anywhere you can go?
Ya, that SH! T has to STOP or one of you has to LEAVE!
If you live in America you can contact a lawyer.
I am glad you called police. Did police showed up?
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