Lol like wtf. Let a ninja cry if they want to. I hardly got spanked as a kid, maybe twice a year if any, but i definitely remember being told that at least twice in life. Like if you hit someone, how tf do you expect someone to react? I know once i hit 10, the spankings stopped taking effect on me. I dont believe in using weapons if i were to spank someone, but my mom would spank me with a belt and then i’d laugh in her face right after. She got so pissed but shit, wish i laughed long before then. After that, she’d resort to thumping the top of my ear or slapping me upside the back of my head. Nothing pissed me off more than that, but hey it worked. At least it didn't make me cry. ? CAN YOU RELATE? This Shit Right Here#FeelFreeToList#WhoopDatAzz
Were you ever spanked or yelled at THEN told “You better not cry” afterwards?
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I was never told not to cry But I don’t know how my mother would hear my screams.. and tears! she would pull my hair and drag me hard , hit me with rope or cold heavy slaps in my body ( they deny heavy / cold ) that’s how I describe it lol I was young so it felt like that. It lasted for many years. I remember it started at 5 gory memories until teenager. I would have a runny nose and tears mixed together running though my shirt 😂 so maybe it would been better I was told not to cry. After crying and go to my bed I would feel in peace it felt like heaven my soul was finally resting. I never really enjoyed school I was always lost and uninterested to study. And This abuse was only for school related I wasn’t a good students getting good grades. I was let’s say a C student with my country grades. But I was a very very good girl all teachers used to say you are such a kind child and innocent. my friends always say I’m an empathy and very understanding and sweetest file they met 😅 I gotta say I live with my mom and brother I have ofc forgiven my mother. It’s been mentally hard though I never went to a psychologist or anything I have dealt with it myself. Side effects I have seen is that I’m scared to say my opinion what I want to do with my life I fear I’m a loser or that I don’t satisfy others. Especially my family. And also I have dated any guy yet or been in a relationship. I’m 30 and that’s bc I haven’t truly been ready. Also my father passed away when I was 25 after 25 until 30 days flew away like water. It was me my myself living each day for 5 years like that.. I’m taking with a guy but to be with him I have to leave my things her and stand against my family but it scares me. Also I can see guys get bored easily with me. Long story. I created a fake life due to my suppressed emotions to skip reality and now im stuck with that fake reality ! Currently trying to fix it 😅
I wish young mothers change and try to be better mothers. Also if you abuse kids In any shape or form I wish you when you die your spirit is stuck somewhere in darkness and you wish you at least at least … enter hell soon.
What hurts me the most in this world is hearing kids cry. When I go to hospital or hear a baby child cry I cry too! I can’t help it.. it’s funny lol
I don’t have a good relationship with my mom because she always yelled and then made me suppress my feelings. Which led to me feeling very angry and depressed because I did that with everyone. I went to therapy Now I say how I feel to her and she flips out but she’s going to hear my side or I’ll walk away.
I got spanked a couple of times only... when I was kinder age, and it was because I earned it lmao, I really pushed the limits and tested their patience and then... I just didn't do it again, I grew up
I didn't cry from the spanking, I laughed like crazy while running around... and so did my parents
I know this is a sensitive subject for many, but it's also about cultures, I was never hit with malice nor with excessive force, and I got yelled as well, many times... but it was never in an intimidating way, anyway...
the few times I cried, I was a very young kid, and I did it to try to get my way, so it was more like pouting or throwing a tantrum and my parents never felt for it... lol
and If I overplayed that card, my mother would just say "keep doing that and I'll give you reason to really cry" lol, and then I stopped...
yes, because I was running around all over the place while they were going to spank me... and since they held me by one arm, I was going around like Tarzan, which was funny
I never understood that logic. You crying! SMAAAACK 💢🖐️, Stop crying. WHAT? I crossed the line once and my dads hand and pushed him away, i was out all night and blah blah punishment, whatever. So he had an honory cane from his military service, he used for hitting me with at younger age, i troed to reason with him because making me fear him didn't work anymore. So once i took the cane and hit him with it on his leg just to show him how idiotic this whole shit is. That was the last time he hit me, i was 14. I took the cane and broke it infront of him. Till today, he never apologized
It's not bravery. This whole ass whoppin shit is idiotic in the first place. It's like when you get bullied in school, we all know the kids that bullies are mentally broken because of theor parents. Cut that shit and talk reason instead
My late mom beat my ass and she used anything in her hands and even pull my shirt and smacked me on the back, My dad was always a miserable and still is at age 80 but he made my mom like him they divorced in 1994 they were only married 30 years, my mom was taken to the Hospital and passed away on Nov 10, 2003, it was only 9 days she was in Jefferson Hospital and Allegheny General and the Nursing home, when I went over to see her on Thursday at the nursing home, her skin looked like she had makeup on it and she passed away on Monday
No; my parents always tried to avoid resorting to spanking- and usually succeeded.
But any parent who hit me and then told me not to cry is a parent who'd be finding their dinner spiced pepper spray and told THE SAME DAMN THING. I have very little patience for bullying.
No, no- too straightforward. I'd pepper spray their food, before they ate it. Civilian grade pepper spray is typically about 2 million Scoville units; by contrast, Red Savina Habeneros are 577,000. ("Habenero", by the way, is Spanish for "don't eat this, you masochistic fool").
My father used to beat me nearly all the time, but my mom just spanked me once but she would always yell at me and crying was always something that I wasn't allowed to do... I always cried in secret
Yeah it is. My mom used to think that crying is a sign of weakness and so she didn't liked when I cried... but she has changed and does see it differently now
No I wasn't told to not cry after getting spanked. I don't remember if my parents ever spanked me but I do remember one of my aunts spanked me once. I know I deserved it because I was being a naughty girl.
All the damn time. I was NOT allowed to cry, flinch, or show any emotion whatsoever. If I did, they would hit me more times and make it progressively harder each time. I quickly learned to never show my emotions. Now my therapist is encouraging me to show emotions and have a facial expression... frankly it's terrifying. Any time I smile or frown I wait for the fist.
That’s terrible and stupid. A punishment is supposed to make your children to think about what they did wrong. They’re not going to do that nearly as well if they do nothing but suck it up and act like the punishment never happened. Parents that say that aren’t thinking about their children’s best interests, but simply being immature about being irritated by the sound of crying. Maybe that irritation is the parent’s punishment for not doing their job, am I right?
Haven't been said that but I have seen it happening and it was really heart breakening. That kid got it bad when he cried. Which kind of treatment it is? I don't get it how parents can be so cruel.
I was friends with somebody let's just say she was a very loose woman her father was a farmer the one time he grabbed her spank the stupid out of her and while father was spanking her she was laughing at him after that he gave up
My dad would use a switch. Dipped I'm water so it'd sting more.
Was bitch slapped once
Spanked I guess you could say, yelled at.
But more than anything was the over protection. They did the best they could and I don't disagree with their methods when it was deserved and I definitely deserved more than I got at times.
Often like in my entire life my parents as specially my dad always like that. He would yell t me when i'm crying even if I cry for no reason he would yell for me to stop cry or els I will get slap on the face
I don't cry when hit, I hit back, I do not tolerate violence as a means to ensure cooperation. Instead, it ensures they will get nothing but a big ol go fuck yourself.
But if they are kind, sweet, and polite, instead of demanding, rude and violent, then I go out of my way to be helpful.
It happened to me a few times when I was a kid , I was spanked and yelled at and then if I even as slightly as sob , my mom used to say "you better not cry or I'll spank you even more" ... As much as I hated being hit , I miss those days tbh. No pressure , stress-free life. Watch Cartoons , play with Friends all day and sleep for hours
Sorta sexually molested then told not to tell. What you described is serious traumatic abuse. Evil and control. Requires deep healing esp if done young. What a fd up world.
not sure which is worse, some of it is how it is translated. these things subtly jack with ones development, sense of right and wrong... impacts down stream one may not be conscious of. This is a very damaged world. And this is just one aspect of human damage. maybe we should all be more understanding and forgiving given the the emotional mess.
Lmao, i know if it was up to my momma spanking would be on the table, but not my pops. But tbh, i rarely gave them any reason to punish me. I was a really good kid. I was too afraid to disappoint them. I remember doing something bad and seeing how disappointed my parents were in me, and I cried so hard, it devastated me. I remember thinking this is something i never wanna experience again.
Yes but I always did when spanked more for crying I cry more when asked why I defied them so much I said you punish me with lectures and spanking I punish you with crying and bawling.
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